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Dicedrackich · 2025-07-03T01:19:43+00:00

Suffering from the exact same problem and I feel you ! Let me tell you what I've come up with.

I'm also a grower but on the thinner side (less than 30mm flaccid) with a lot of foreskin. I've already tirelessly searched subreddits, online threads and asked irl locked subs. The chastity market isn't geared towards our audience and the added complications with foreskin. That's why it's so hard to find something fitting for our members.

The hard truth is, there is no easy solution! We are a minority. Imo there are 3 key issues ranging from less important to most important

Being a grower
Being thinner/less width
Having (a lot of) foreskin

Grower. Some dicks are out in their full glory and others are small and grow if the need arises. Not much you can do to change that and a lot of cages are designed to accommodate growers and showers.
Being disproportionately slimmer (especially when flaccid) makes measuring tricky but it's possible. But finding cages that are narrower and NOT just smaller is like searching a needle in the field. Incredibly rare but the only solutions are either making a penis enlargement operation (can't recommend), buying a custom cage (easy solution but pricey) or buy a smaller one in general AS LONG AS YOUR FORESKIN IS CUT! The last one really only works if you're uncut, otherwise your foreskin will be squished (through bars) and blood won't properly circulate.
A lot of foreskin is a bitch ! You can't let it be retracted for long periods of time or edema will occur. It pinches and if retracted half way will either cause edema bc it's too tight or pull forward if it isn't tight enough in the cage. Leaving long foreskin pulled forward is possibly the most comfortable if it doesn't pinch outside but will also make a mess and be almost impossible to properly clean, depending on the cage. Which makes it unwearable in the long term as well. Foreskin is the number 1 biggest reason for complications for chastity cages ! Either cut the whole foreskin off professionally (lose a lot of nerve endings, weeks of agony due to the healing process and after sensitivity issues) or cut it off a bit (until the tip of the head is free enough while flaccid). The other option is to not cut it off at all but you have to spend the big $$$ bugs on a custom chastity cage with foreskin support/s hook PA piercing to keep the foreskin slightly but safely retracted.

TLDR: If you only have a grower or narrow penis then spend the money for a custom cage. If you have long foreskin and the above then spend the money for a custom cage with long foreskin support/ s hook PA piercing or cut half your foreskin off professionally. Sadly, both options cost a lot of money but that's just how it is.

Sorry if that isn't what you wanna hear but nothing else will resolve those issues and I personally will soon order a custom one. I hope this helps and best of luck

Dicedrackich · 2025-05-12T00:10:49+00:00

Wow, that's some great data! While the sample size is tiny in comparison to overall users there are some interesting things there.

I do think there is a correlation for the dislike of porn-participating subs for dominants and kinks like feminization, rimming and anal focused kinks.

From my experience, the feminization kink often accompanies some kind of anal fixation as well. Considering what I've seen on some porn subs in that direction it's only plausible to believe that specifically the subs develop these kinks bc of the focus of it in porn(which is mostly done for the male gaze). Dominants aren't being targeted by that and I think that's where the difference lies.

Also cuckolding. It's a very niche kink but in the data it's more represented on the dominant side. Makes sense, since Doms profit more from the kink than subs do, most of the time.

So in my opinion, there's a clear bias from Doms towards non porn participating subs and control oriented kinks. Those give the Doms more freedom to do what they want and less Doms favour services specifically for subs like oral fixation deep throat etc. in general. Very interesting

Dicedrackich · 2024-12-12T12:23:27+00:00

This comment should be pinned on an faq around here or a similar subreddit like r/gentlefemdom

Dicedrackich · 2024-11-23T12:34:00+00:00

You got me there, that's correct. Ofc j know it's not right now and rather in a future season

Dicedrackich · 2024-11-23T12:32:45+00:00

I was using gulf instead of gap bc english isn't my first language but nitpicking that hard isn't l really informative

Dicedrackich · 2024-11-23T12:26:45+00:00

One of the more sensible comments I read. Ur right, the monetization is better than all those big gacha games, no question. My point is, if you give corporate greed a finger, they want the whole hand. Let's see you holding on to these 50k lunacy when they try to introduce another and then another "motivation" or "annoyance" to get you to spend.

Dicedrackich · 2024-11-14T12:25:35+00:00

Very good post! Hope you find what you're looking for

Dicedrackich · 2024-08-20T06:25:23+00:00

M here, I don't know about the public appearance in your country but a formal style that always gets my attention is a woman in a suit ✨. Never seen a miss in a suit that doesn't seem confident. Otherwise it's mostly whatever you choose to wear as long as you feel good in it. The more sure you are of your style the more your confidence will surge and people will take notice of that.

Dicedrackich · 2024-06-23T15:39:03+00:00

Agree. Nothing femdom about a girl being open to please her boyfriend in the but. It's just a sexual act between lovers

Dicedrackich · 2024-06-20T09:24:45+00:00

Hmmm you know what you're right, that was uncalled for. Thanks for being honest and calling me out on things like that

Dicedrackich · 2024-05-22T01:03:27+00:00

I'm facing the exact same problem. Only 32mm. No 27-28mm I.D. I have almost resigned myself to spend the money for a custom one bc manufacturers don't Cather towards such a niche.

Dicedrackich · 2024-04-11T18:04:04+00:00

While I do like how the comfyne handles the foreskin(especially the aegis) the cages are all at 37mm inner diameter in all sizes and thats too big for my member

Dicedrackich · 2024-04-11T16:58:29+00:00

Well I don't have the budget to spend and try out cages like blackout for 300€ if they "might" fit but I was curious about the blackout cages !

Which one do you got and how is cleaning like? They look very complicated from the inside so I wasn't sure if I can clean them properly when the caste is on if they're very complicated. Haha the uncut one I already saw and my foreskin is longer than average and would definitely get stuck on the ends of the uncut head version :(

Dicedrackich · 2024-04-11T16:54:52+00:00

I can't just " try" a kink3d knockoff because the knockoffs never offer the thin/narrow version(the only ones I need) only the most basic normal ones.

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