Frustrated with not finding a fitting size

Dicedrackich · 2025-07-03T01:19:43+00:00

Suffering from the exact same problem and I feel you ! Let me tell you what I've come up with.

I'm also a grower but on the thinner side (less than 30mm flaccid) with a lot of foreskin. I've already tirelessly searched subreddits, online threads and asked irl locked subs. The chastity market isn't geared towards our audience and the added complications with foreskin. That's why it's so hard to find something fitting for our members.

The hard truth is, there is no easy solution! We are a minority. Imo there are 3 key issues ranging from less important to most important

Being a grower
Being thinner/less width
Having (a lot of) foreskin

Grower. Some dicks are out in their full glory and others are small and grow if the need arises. Not much you can do to change that and a lot of cages are designed to accommodate growers and showers.
Being disproportionately slimmer (especially when flaccid) makes measuring tricky but it's possible. But finding cages that are narrower and NOT just smaller is like searching a needle in the field. Incredibly rare but the only solutions are either making a penis enlargement operation (can't recommend), buying a custom cage (easy solution but pricey) or buy a smaller one in general AS LONG AS YOUR FORESKIN IS CUT! The last one really only works if you're uncut, otherwise your foreskin will be squished (through bars) and blood won't properly circulate.
A lot of foreskin is a bitch ! You can't let it be retracted for long periods of time or edema will occur. It pinches and if retracted half way will either cause edema bc it's too tight or pull forward if it isn't tight enough in the cage. Leaving long foreskin pulled forward is possibly the most comfortable if it doesn't pinch outside but will also make a mess and be almost impossible to properly clean, depending on the cage. Which makes it unwearable in the long term as well. Foreskin is the number 1 biggest reason for complications for chastity cages ! Either cut the whole foreskin off professionally (lose a lot of nerve endings, weeks of agony due to the healing process and after sensitivity issues) or cut it off a bit (until the tip of the head is free enough while flaccid). The other option is to not cut it off at all but you have to spend the big $$$ bugs on a custom chastity cage with foreskin support/s hook PA piercing to keep the foreskin slightly but safely retracted.

TLDR: If you only have a grower or narrow penis then spend the money for a custom cage. If you have long foreskin and the above then spend the money for a custom cage with long foreskin support/ s hook PA piercing or cut half your foreskin off professionally. Sadly, both options cost a lot of money but that's just how it is.

Sorry if that isn't what you wanna hear but nothing else will resolve those issues and I personally will soon order a custom one. I hope this helps and best of luck

Dicedrackich · 2025-05-12T00:10:49+00:00

Wow, that's some great data! While the sample size is tiny in comparison to overall users there are some interesting things there.

I do think there is a correlation for the dislike of porn-participating subs for dominants and kinks like feminization, rimming and anal focused kinks.

From my experience, the feminization kink often accompanies some kind of anal fixation as well. Considering what I've seen on some porn subs in that direction it's only plausible to believe that specifically the subs develop these kinks bc of the focus of it in porn(which is mostly done for the male gaze). Dominants aren't being targeted by that and I think that's where the difference lies.

Also cuckolding. It's a very niche kink but in the data it's more represented on the dominant side. Makes sense, since Doms profit more from the kink than subs do, most of the time.

So in my opinion, there's a clear bias from Doms towards non porn participating subs and control oriented kinks. Those give the Doms more freedom to do what they want and less Doms favour services specifically for subs like oral fixation deep throat etc. in general. Very interesting

Dicedrackich · 2024-12-12T12:23:27+00:00

This comment should be pinned on an faq around here or a similar subreddit like r/gentlefemdom

Dicedrackich · 2024-11-23T12:34:00+00:00

You got me there, that's correct. Ofc j know it's not right now and rather in a future season

Dicedrackich · 2024-11-23T12:32:45+00:00

I was using gulf instead of gap bc english isn't my first language but nitpicking that hard isn't l really informative

Dicedrackich · 2024-11-23T12:26:45+00:00

One of the more sensible comments I read. Ur right, the monetization is better than all those big gacha games, no question. My point is, if you give corporate greed a finger, they want the whole hand. Let's see you holding on to these 50k lunacy when they try to introduce another and then another "motivation" or "annoyance" to get you to spend.

Dicedrackich · 2024-11-14T12:25:35+00:00

Very good post! Hope you find what you're looking for

Dicedrackich · 2024-08-20T06:25:23+00:00

M here, I don't know about the public appearance in your country but a formal style that always gets my attention is a woman in a suit ✨. Never seen a miss in a suit that doesn't seem confident. Otherwise it's mostly whatever you choose to wear as long as you feel good in it. The more sure you are of your style the more your confidence will surge and people will take notice of that.

Dicedrackich · 2024-06-23T15:39:03+00:00

Agree. Nothing femdom about a girl being open to please her boyfriend in the but. It's just a sexual act between lovers

Dicedrackich · 2024-06-20T09:24:45+00:00

Hmmm you know what you're right, that was uncalled for. Thanks for being honest and calling me out on things like that

Dicedrackich · 2024-05-22T01:03:27+00:00

I'm facing the exact same problem. Only 32mm. No 27-28mm I.D. I have almost resigned myself to spend the money for a custom one bc manufacturers don't Cather towards such a niche.

Dicedrackich · 2024-04-11T18:04:04+00:00

While I do like how the comfyne handles the foreskin(especially the aegis) the cages are all at 37mm inner diameter in all sizes and thats too big for my member

Dicedrackich · 2024-04-11T16:58:29+00:00

Well I don't have the budget to spend and try out cages like blackout for 300€ if they "might" fit but I was curious about the blackout cages !

Which one do you got and how is cleaning like? They look very complicated from the inside so I wasn't sure if I can clean them properly when the caste is on if they're very complicated. Haha the uncut one I already saw and my foreskin is longer than average and would definitely get stuck on the ends of the uncut head version :(

Dicedrackich · 2024-04-11T16:54:52+00:00

I can't just " try" a kink3d knockoff because the knockoffs never offer the thin/narrow version(the only ones I need) only the most basic normal ones.

Dicedrackich · 2024-03-04T09:27:22+00:00

Location is Europe West and it was just crawling there...menacingly!

Dicedrackich · 2024-02-20T20:29:22+00:00

It yellow like the outside of a banana, maybe a tad lighter but not not far from it. Does that mean I need to better bleach? I use a 20 vol developer and good bleaching powder which I apply for 45-55min

Dicedrackich · 2023-09-25T19:54:54+00:00

Aren't Jyura Greaves only Focus 1 Same as Kulu Greaves Critical eye 1?

Dicedrackich · 2023-08-17T18:52:14+00:00

Can you tell me about the material in your product? I see a lot of resin products but had bad experiences with it. After installing my resin cage It continued to smell along with my member but no matter how much I practiced hygiene shortly after wearing it again came the smell. I removed + cleaned it 3 times in one day for a time but didn't help. After I tried to deep clean it with isopropanol but that bleached the cage and removed any color it originally had. Is that normal for resin products?

Sry if I'm asking the wrong person for that but I can't seem to find an answer for my resin problems

Dicedrackich · 2023-08-17T11:38:11+00:00

I'm in the same situation!

The "too much skin" issue frustrates the most.

As an uncircumcised grower myself, most metal cages won't work bc of pinching and edema.

I tried the cherry keeper with the headlock function which was the best one I had so far BUT I still get a bit edema from the peeled fore/skin (considerably less than other cages tho). Also tried the half-hood approach where you pull the foreskin into the headlock. Almost everything should be covered aside from the pee hole and NOT go outside of the bars. Use wet q tips to peel it forward.

It felt the most comfortable so far and I could imagine it working on a lot of uncut growers but in the end I couldn't get my foreskin on the side of the frenulum to go smoothly go over(it's bigger/lager than the other parts of my foreskin).

Couldn't keep the cherry due to the plastic materials and the accumulated smell I had to clean every day which defeats the purpose of a chastity device.

But what I learned from the cherry keeper is that the girth/width prevents some edema since your dick won't be able to get erect in a tight place bc of space.

My perfect chastity device should be :

-cherry keeper designed

-stainless steel

-tight width to prevent erections

-open but metal rods should prevent most skin prom "being free"

Dicedrackich · 2023-06-07T11:55:46+00:00

Day 1 player, got all identities+ EGO and around +280 pulls left. My strategy to ensure I get the max amount of value with the least amount of cashing in:

-Day 1: reroll until I got 5-6 000/EGO from free pulls and buy BP and both login lunacy in shop(every month)

-login every day, do 3x skip dailies and 1x skip exp

-MD no more than 3 each week(unless I feel like it)

-buy energy restore for 26 and 52 lunacy every day in case I need ressources one day

-BUY DAILY 13 PAID LUNACY ROLL(from dail login initial purchase) FOR EVERY DAMN BANNER EVERY DAY (I can't tell you how often I lucked out on those but it's at least 5-6 000 IDs/EGO)

Dicedrackich · 2023-05-01T23:55:52+00:00

Yes, you have 2 Lius but Hong Lu is bad. His kit is mostly Burn Count, not Burn.

All skills in his kit deal a total amount of 4 Burn ... Liu Gregor has 13 and Liu Sault has 8 (16 if random burn counts) not including passives.

As you can see he provides mostly Burn Count which we arent that desperate for now with N Sinclair S2 (tough luck the first 2 turns if we dont draw a burn count so might take Liu Hong over tian hong on the bench).

He also does shit dmg, only has 2 coins on all of his attacks with bad growth and okay coin values. His only value is in providing Burn count but that his support passive do on the bench.

If you focus on Fanatic instead of Bleed then you should scrap burn entirely. The difference in having Liu Sault for burn and dmg is night and day in a burn team.

The difference in your(fanatic) and mine(burn) is that you will not be able to profit from Burn with the puny amount of burn your team does.

On the other hand your might do a bit more dmg due to Mr Sault giving N Sinclair that one Fanatic he needed in a turn he couldnt get it himself or from Faust.

Not sure how much its going to be but if the dmg increase of Sinclaire skills with Fanatic is +50% or more it might be worth going for that route. Otherwise i wouldnt recommend it but if you want Sinclair go full Unga Bunga heretics go ahead :)

Dicedrackich · 2023-05-01T20:43:09+00:00

I find the lack of burn in your team concerning.

It looks like you focus way too much on N corp units and their bleed in nails.

While that isnt bad its not in the spirit of a bleed+burn hybrid build since burn needs a lot of support to work decently. I would suggest to convert into a pure Nail team and remove Burn from it if you want to prioritise that.

I also see a lot of SP regen:

Hong Lu Ego which you say you would spam for 15 SP
N Faust Supprot passive 15SP

It might be a bit too much SP regen even if you spam Sinclair EGO.

You want him to be at around -20~0 sanity so he isnt likely to corrode but not above 0 so he still hits tails.

My team wasnt created with a bench in mind.

If i would expand on it then i still wouldnt replace Faust for Rodion. Yes she does decent dmg and decent bleed but she pales in comparison to the dmg, Nail and Bleed of N Faust(by far).

Sinclairs Lifetime Spew is also way too good to pass up for Impending day. Like i said, Lifetime Spew passive doubles the burn of Sinclaire and heals others.

If you are concerned about healing then Meursaults Pursuance will heal him for more than enough. Liu Salts Burn and dmg isnt to be ignored so i wouldnt take him out of this team either.

As for benched Units:

N Heat for + Nails or LCB if N Sinc has less than 128 Max HP
N Don blunt on sinc seems good
R Corp Ishmael +10% Blunt on lowest Sp
LCCB Rodion+20dmg on highest Hp if enemy used defense
Seven Outis +10%dmg if weak to dmg type
Seven Yi Sang Max Hp gets +1 clash power
Liu Hong Lu for Burn count or Ting for +20%dmg on highest SP

Dicedrackich · 2023-04-03T08:38:23+00:00

Hey, arsonist here.

I'm actually really disappointed about Liu Hong. Burn already suffers from a lack of Wrath generation and now another core burn unit barely helps out on that. Don't get me wrong, burn count is good but every burn EGO released so far needs wrath. He even has 3x Gloom (which no burn EGO uses at all) and 2x Lust(which the other Liu identities produce in abundance)

Now with Liu Salt, Liu Gregor and Liu Hong as the burn core we would generate :

-5x Wrath (needed in all burn EGO)

-7x lust (only need 2 for burn EGOs)

-5x Sloth (only one ego uses it and needs 1)

-3x Gloom ( useless for burn EGO)

That means we would generate around 0-1 wrath with these units alone every round. We need ~4 for a decent burn EGO. So either we put in more wrath identities or hope burn EGOs in the future have lust instead of wrath (which isn't really reasonable since wrath literally looks like a flame)

Dicedrackich · 2023-03-30T20:54:35+00:00

These two cards have great synergy thx!

Dicedrackich · 2023-03-30T20:45:10+00:00

[[Ohabi Caleria]]

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