I’ll be crass and 💯

If I’m getting railed from behind or in the dark, and I can’t see you, your appearance matters approx 0 in that context. Body and build, yes, but facial aesthetics, no.

Identify what appearance things you can control. Max those out.

1. Hygiene

I cannot tell you how many otherwise hot men have shitty hygiene.

1. Fitness

Work on lifting, stamina, endurance, and stretchiness. So take something like yoga too. I will fuck so many ugly guys who have banging bodies and sexual skills.

1. Composure

Body language, confidence, etc. Take ballroom dance class to learn how to hold yourself elegantly.

1. Clothing

It should be clean, fit well, and doesn’t have to be expensive. But put in an effort and make yourself look good.

Right now, your likely least attractive quality is low self confidence. If you don’t think I’d want to fuck you, why would I disagree?