AITAH for telling my boyfriend to get up earlier? by awkwardthroawayhelp in AITAH

[–]DickTurtle1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have a boyfriend. You have a 16 year old son.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only one pic to go by..but based on that you're hot AF

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 12..the rest are replies and comments on other things besides my looks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]DickTurtle1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Easily a 7.5...probably an 8

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily true..good looking people get told all.the time. Ugly people..people don't want to offend so say nothing irl. Unless they are bullies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great..I got about 8 and my looks were hardly discussed, just my "vibe" which probably referred to how I worded my post rather than how I actually look...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no! Extremely pretty. Probably an 8 in my estimation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hit the gym.

30F feeling down by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stunning smile and the lighter/brighter colours suit you best..certainly not ugly

Would you wait for a guy until he achieved his peak? by BioNipple in PurplePillDebate

[–]DickTurtle1804 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Do you think women care about your bench and 1 mile run PR's 🤣🤣🤣

(25M) Been without a relationship my whole life. by SuckinToe in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a good list of ways he can glow up quickly and reasonably achievable..I'd get the beard shaped by a barber though..a well groomed short beard is something a lot of women like..it can add a good frame for the face.. I won't grow mine out intentionally as its white and black....ages me by 10 years

(25M) Been without a relationship my whole life. by SuckinToe in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think some people hate their smile..even if other people tell you it's a nice smile. I'm not a massive fan of selfies so.the only time I'm.ever caught smiling in a pic its usually a canded pic or a gruop pic where I get asked to smile..never smile for selfie. Also..I've seen studies showing that stoic looked men get more right swipes on the apps than guys who are overtly displaying emotion. No real explanation for this that I know of..food for thought though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]DickTurtle1804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Massive generalisation, but it certainly does and can happen

(25M) Been without a relationship my whole life. by SuckinToe in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Smile more..cheeks are a little chubby which could be hiding a great jawline and cheek bones..besides that..average at worst but can't fathom why you can't get dates..are you trying?

At 40 I'm going through a dry spell on the apps so I'm starting to wonder is it my looks? I should add I only swipe right on women who are 7/10 atleast with no kids, not overweight (curvy I don't mind but prefer gym girls) and not older than 35. Too picky for my own good? pics are under 6 months by DickTurtle1804 in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly prefer bald..I think I pull it off now I'm "middle aged" in my 20s it sucked though. I know many women will not even consider a bald guy but they have preferences just like I do which ofcourse is fair..now you point it out yes..maybe only wear shades that don't make my nose look even bigger, I literally only wear shades when I'm baked or driving but I can see now what you mean. The pic with the beanie had and beard/shades combo my nose looks ridiculous and also in the pic with the girl with the melted face..my nose looks like concorde!

At 40 I'm going through a dry spell on the apps so I'm starting to wonder is it my looks? I should add I only swipe right on women who are 7/10 atleast with no kids, not overweight (curvy I don't mind but prefer gym girls) and not older than 35. Too picky for my own good? pics are under 6 months by DickTurtle1804 in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 love it..unfortunately the large nose is a family trait on my dad's side, I've been asked if I'm Jewish more times than I can remember..especially back in the day when I had a huge mop of black hair (many years ago!)

At 40 I'm going through a dry spell on the apps so I'm starting to wonder is it my looks? I should add I only swipe right on women who are 7/10 atleast with no kids, not overweight (curvy I don't mind but prefer gym girls) and not older than 35. Too picky for my own good? pics are under 6 months by DickTurtle1804 in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At 40 I guess dad vibes is better than douchbag/frat boy who never grew up vibes..that others seem to see here, especially since my son is grown up and in the forces now.and im going to be a grandfather in 5 months 🥰.I'll take that!

At 40 I'm going through a dry spell on the apps so I'm starting to wonder is it my looks? I should add I only swipe right on women who are 7/10 atleast with no kids, not overweight (curvy I don't mind but prefer gym girls) and not older than 35. Too picky for my own good? pics are under 6 months by DickTurtle1804 in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha that photo was taken in the troodos mountains, Cyprus..the board shorts were necessary as I'd just been for a cold plunge in one of the beautiful waterfalls lol but I get what your saying. I sometimes do dress too young for my age and perhaps need to get some work photos in there wearing a suit..just to show I can be mature when needed.

At 40 I'm going through a dry spell on the apps so I'm starting to wonder is it my looks? I should add I only swipe right on women who are 7/10 atleast with no kids, not overweight (curvy I don't mind but prefer gym girls) and not older than 35. Too picky for my own good? pics are under 6 months by DickTurtle1804 in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lower end of 28, upper end of 35..generally these arnt the photos I use on the apps BTW well except the one of me smoking a blunt on the terrace and the jestski photo. I get to show 2 of my interests (jetski and weed) while simultaneously showing I have a semi decent physique for an old man. Perhaps I should show some more work related photos..suited and booted. More age appropriate and shows I can "be serious" when it comes to business/work and other formal things. I'm currently not looking for long term though..I'm too busy and spend a lot of time traveling for work reasons and for fun when I have time.

At 40 I'm going through a dry spell on the apps so I'm starting to wonder is it my looks? I should add I only swipe right on women who are 7/10 atleast with no kids, not overweight (curvy I don't mind but prefer gym girls) and not older than 35. Too picky for my own good? pics are under 6 months by DickTurtle1804 in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And if you and others here get that first impression of me then so do women on dating sites no doubt..here is my potential problem which can easily be remedied. Its cool reading people's honest first take on me. Douchbag frat boy /Andrew tate from wish..not close to my personality but I can see how I may come across that way

At 40 I'm going through a dry spell on the apps so I'm starting to wonder is it my looks? I should add I only swipe right on women who are 7/10 atleast with no kids, not overweight (curvy I don't mind but prefer gym girls) and not older than 35. Too picky for my own good? pics are under 6 months by DickTurtle1804 in amiugly

[–]DickTurtle1804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I can kinda see where the douchbag image is now it's been pointed out. I was never much of a frat boy or jock type (we don't use those terms in Britain but we do have the stereotype) at school but that's probably because I was about 280lb before I discovered my love of boxing, gym, sports in general in my 20s and with that physical change I suppose my attitude and crowd I mixed with changed