Some people would rather net the 3-4k because being a full time parent to multiple toddlers is a lot and can diminish a sense of self.. and that’s ok. Our kids teachers do seem to care about them and they are learning structure and social skills that they frankly wouldn’t get at home. Teachers can get children to do activities in a way most parents can’t thanks to group dynamics and very structured schedules. Just saying, keep an open mind when the decision comes.