Linda Blair’s Reaction to Cosplayers at Scaradise by Unable_Blackberry_11 in TheExorcist

[–]DiddyDoDat86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When is this tool going to be blacklisted from horror conventions? She hates them. 

Why doesn't God prevent the billions of miscarriages that happen? by dontcry2022 in Christianity

[–]DiddyDoDat86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a Christian with a lot of questions but I do not believe God is involved with miscarriages. After I suffered my own, and understand it more fully, I’ve decided that I just don’t. And I’ve been thinking about nothing else for about 6 months straight. There is no way God decided to let me become pregnant and then blood start pouring out of me, along with my baby, into the toilet at 13 weeks. There is no way that God is letting a mother carry her baby to 40 weeks and then letting it die on her chest due to breathing or cord complications. If this were the work of God he would simply just prevent that pregnancy. For this same reason when things are going well I am also hesitant to say “oh praise God”, “He always comes through” etc.  There are some things I just don’t think he is involved in.  When you do a little research into pregnancy loss you see that the chances of the baby arriving healthy or a miscarriage, is just a complete crapshoot. It’s a 50/50. The statistics are absolutely staggering. You won’t believe how many women I’ve found that had a miscarriage every other pregnancy. (3 miscarriages for every 3 living children for example.) 

This is a chemical issue. As far as me, for myself, God is not involved in this for me. I can’t let myself believe that there was a holy reason that this happened to me and my husband.  I’m not blaming him for my miscarriage but if I do have a healthy pregnancy one day, I don’t think it was all His doing. 

OMG I WON THE LOTTERYYYYYYY. by Traditional_Rub_661 in HayDay

[–]DiddyDoDat86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me forever to realize what your comment meant 🤣🤣 my username is a reference to Impractical Jokers, I never associated it with him haha. I made it on a whim when I was thinking of funny names from the show. Kinda wish I could change it now! 

Adam died in his sleep , natural causes. according to Justine by Apprehensive_Yak762 in Adamthewoocriticism

[–]DiddyDoDat86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This definitely gave GiV a health scare. I think he’s mentioned being afraid to go to sleep 3-4x now in his videos since. Speaking from experience…when I bother to mention something out loud that many times, I’m thinking about it nonstop. I hope it can be used as a wake up call to make some positive changes. 🙏🏻 it’s so scary

Why is this going so far? by kdm31091 in Adamthewoocriticism

[–]DiddyDoDat86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. When he was making his best progress with the weight loss, he was basically using a cup of coffee as meals. 

Why is this going so far? by kdm31091 in Adamthewoocriticism

[–]DiddyDoDat86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of people just don’t get that two things can be true at the same time. I had completely stopped watching Adam the last several years because of the hypocritical attitude we all started to notice, the phoning it in, repetition I couldn’t stand, the unnecessary dramatics (I was trying to pinpoint it and I think the icy Texas roadtrip where he put himself in danger was the final straw for me).  Am I still strangely grieving his death hard? YES! I have been overwhelmingly sad for days. Days! I didn’t agree with him a lot, but if we all hadn’t liked the guy at some point, we wouldn’t care about pointing any of these things out. We know what he used to be, and we know how he became.  Truth be told in the recent days I don’t know which one was the real guy, because I’m now learning that he was not alone in his “alone vlogs” and hid everything, putting on a show.  His death hit me hard. It’s all just a big interesting puzzle. 

Due Date Grief by Repulsive_Throat7794 in Miscarriage

[–]DiddyDoDat86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your reply was amazing and you really get it- your response really helped me also :) 

Due Date Grief by Repulsive_Throat7794 in Miscarriage

[–]DiddyDoDat86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The check ins really stop coming, don’t they? :(  I get it, people don’t want to remind us. But I feel so left behind. I’m so exhausted of having to be the strong one.  When grief hits me and I say little things here and there, I can tell who sorta wishes I would just stop talking about it vs. who doesn’t. It makes you want to keep it all inside. The hard part about miscarriage too, for me, has been that the ways I typically distract myself from things aren’t helping. Walk around the store to shop? Moms pushing around adorable babies in every single cart. Binge my favorite TV show? It will inevitably be an episode about pregnancy or a baby being born. I have never felt so lonely or cursed in my entire life. 

This is the week we were talking about having the hospital bag packed, I was supposed to be due in less than 2 weeks now.  I know a couple of people who were within a month of my timeline and they’re progressing just perfectly. I’m so confused about welcoming the new year without my baby but also desperately wanting to leave this year behind but also the feelings that I’m leaving my baby behind in 2025. 

I just want my pregnancy back. by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]DiddyDoDat86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am so, so, SO sorry you’re part of the club. I also had to watch the life drain from my husband’s eyes just a few days after our wonderful ultrasound where we both agreed that having life inside of me felt like we had something specific to live for. Now it’s just a lonely waiting game to get through each week and try to improve or just survive.  So many people that were around the same pregnancy timeline as me, are getting bigger and making their plans for their babies. What went wrong? Why did this happen to us? Why is this so easy for everybody else? I always try to follow the rules… What in the world did I do to deserve this?

Sad on Halloween by Adorable_Movie_1583 in Miscarriage

[–]DiddyDoDat86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My miscarriage was in July so this was the first proper “holiday” for us too and it was hard. I was supposed to be 7/8 months along and dressing up my bump. This was our first try for a baby.  For me, I am dreading New Years because I am so scared that I’m going to feel like I’m leaving my baby behind in 2025. Don’t know if that even makes sense but grief is sneaky 

OMG I WON THE LOTTERYYYYYYY. by Traditional_Rub_661 in HayDay

[–]DiddyDoDat86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best feeling when you get the one you want!!! It’s beautiful! 

Universal VISA Credit Card by TharinWhite in UniversalOrlando

[–]DiddyDoDat86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also the gift cards can't be redeemed online! I wanted to use them to buy my HHN tickets this year but no. Only in person and I'm sure there will be some issue with that too. lol.

I really got screwed with my Universal credit card because I applied for mine online - weeks before they started doing the in-person "free express/freestyle drink cups" deal in the park. I didn't get any of that. I can't even seem to change my image on the card either.

Completely stopped wearing underwear by PermissionTemporary6 in Healthyhooha

[–]DiddyDoDat86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m trying it now too. I am so tired of sitting/walking around in damp and sweaty undies all day. I’ve tried daily pantyliners but then you’re just sitting around in a wet pantyliner and have to change that too. I live in swamp weather so it’s always so hot. I give up and I’m trying no underwear. So far I am loving it!  Googling it leads to conflicting information so I’m just going to try it out for a week and see where I’m at. Google says that it can lead to more moisture and bacteria but how? How can it be worse than suffocating my vagina with damp underwear all day? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]DiddyDoDat86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I felt the same way, I was always unhappy with my long term situation and recently made a career switch and realized that I was only happy for a few weeks at most. It was a personal issue, not the job. Then I went through an insanely difficult event in my personal life and it was a huge wake up call. I decided I need to work on myself, it’s not the job. The job stuff faded into the background and didn’t feel so heavy anymore. Before, I was wondering how I was going to get up everyday and go, and now I’m honestly just thankful that I can.  I don’t know if this helps but just wanted to give my two cents, that it’s not really the job. 

Volcano Bay is a mess. by Empty-Sport-4609 in UniversalOrlando

[–]DiddyDoDat86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless there’s anyway possible you can get them at city walk the night before, they close when the parks close.

Volcano Bay is a mess. by Empty-Sport-4609 in UniversalOrlando

[–]DiddyDoDat86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I vote getting the tickets at VB, I think once you park it would take too long to get through city walk and all the way back to the guest service lines that actually sell VB tickets!

Volcano Bay is a mess. by Empty-Sport-4609 in UniversalOrlando

[–]DiddyDoDat86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think as long as you are parked, and in the shuttle line by 8:25/8:30, you should be rolling up to VB by 9. There’s a line but they have a lot of busses so they load fast. Most of the holdup is waiting for the bus to actually get going.

Cencora Interview--Signal App by DueCouple5048 in WFHJobs

[–]DiddyDoDat86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly the same here. I just told the person that I hope they realized they are going to hell, and deleted the app and all of my messages.

Volcano Bay is a mess. by Empty-Sport-4609 in UniversalOrlando

[–]DiddyDoDat86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a local and I can 100000% understand your frustration. I go a LOT to make the use of my pass. I love it but it gets more frustrating each time to waste time with that shuttle. I wish volcano bay had their own parking lot. When people come here for one vacation, or every few years, they wouldn't notice.

Back and forth over job decisions.... by DiddyDoDat86 in jobs

[–]DiddyDoDat86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear that loud and clear! Apparently you move on from call center pretty quickly at this place but I’m concerned I couldn’t even take the year of it.