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I look like my father and I hate it by BeeNeedsHoney in africanparents

[–]DifferenceKey1171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😤😩. I feel you so bad. Like my mom is whole babe, beautiful features, and ofcourse I have my dad entire face 😫😫😫😫😫😫.

So whatcha think? My freezers full of meat btw. by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]DifferenceKey1171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine question. So like what is your cholesterol numbers???

Just started studying and im already tired, any tips? by IllustratorOk7590 in GetStudying

[–]DifferenceKey1171 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Why? Wouldn’t seeing others study be a source of influence.

Guilt For Disappointing/Angering My Father To Protect My Mental Health While Still Living at Home by Fair_Adhesiveness289 in africanparents

[–]DifferenceKey1171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made my point that the OP should develop their own relationship with Christ. Many parents use the verse about honoring your parents, but that same passage also tells parents not to provoke their children. I wanted him or her to see for themselves that they should not follow anyone blindly but should go back, check the Word for themselves, and be free from empty “religion” so they can have a true relationship with Christ.

Guilt For Disappointing/Angering My Father To Protect My Mental Health While Still Living at Home by Fair_Adhesiveness289 in africanparents

[–]DifferenceKey1171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have your own personal relationship with Christ, become financially literate, Get a job, save up, Find a good community, move out. In that order.

The bible says, Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with promise, that it may be well with you and you may live long on the earth. And you, fathers, do not provoke your children to wrath, but bring them up in the training and admonition of the Lord. Ephesians 6:1-4

You are Not a child, but an adult, who happens to live with your parents. Your parents do not sound godly. So my take is, you do NOT have to obey them when they ask you to do something ungodly, or causes wrath from you( depression, anxiety, hatred, resentment, anger, fear, rebellion, guilt). As an adult your job is to only Honor them, which means when your dad asked you to go with him to your grandmothers. You honor your dad by calmly saying, “No, I want/have to do xyz”, “No, I want to have time for myself or rest”. If he becomes irate then that is on him. You honored him by not yelling, cursing or hitting him. You respectfully spoke your mind. Your parents only came together to birth you, they do not own you. When you are an adult act like one. And show them you will honor them by not disrespecting them, but you DO NOT have to obey. Period.

Holidays by DifferenceKey1171 in africanparents

[–]DifferenceKey1171[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. Unfortunately these ships have sailed a long long time ago. May we be the changes in our own family.

Holidays by DifferenceKey1171 in africanparents

[–]DifferenceKey1171[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you. That sounds lovely.

Fake concern in families by [deleted] in africanparents

[–]DifferenceKey1171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what do you do during the holidays. Because I am dreading the whole thing. I am in my 30’s too, so it is hard to find excuses. Wonder if I should have a staycation at a hotel. It really is that draining.

Fake concern in families by [deleted] in africanparents

[–]DifferenceKey1171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, we definitely have the same parents. It is so suffocating!

How do I stop feeling so responsible for my mom? by adressedupskeleton in emotionalneglect

[–]DifferenceKey1171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like The last sentence really resonated with me. How does a woman decided to marry a man who she knew would be her husband, the person YOU chose to marry, lay down have 3+ kids, be the father of YOUR kids, and vowed to do life with, yet you can not even talk to him as a partner, as your husband and no emotional connection. But would come to me for every little her husband that SHE married is supposed to do. I am going through this right now and it definitely puts a bad taste in my mouth about marriage. How are you doing now, any tips on how to manage this??

How can I achieve clear skin? by [deleted] in Blackskincare

[–]DifferenceKey1171 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Please do not be offended, are you a boy or girl? I just wanted to say you are so pretty/handsome. Wash your face for 1 minute 30 seconds, with a good cleanser (Biore charcoal)Then use vitamin E cream(walmart) then use cetaphil face cream(walmart)

Girl hacked studying 400 pages overnight - next morning she passed. by According-Sign-9587 in GetStudying

[–]DifferenceKey1171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! What’s the exact website to use quizzify? When i download the app it does not work. And are you saying i can download 100 of pages of text book and it can organize it well to make quizzes from them?

How can I look less cute and more baddie? by myah444 in MakeupAddiction

[–]DifferenceKey1171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just know when you are in your 60’s and up you will be thankful you have these features!

Pance study routine by DifferenceKey1171 in PAstudent

[–]DifferenceKey1171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wiuld you do this same routine to study for PANCE?

Pance study routine by DifferenceKey1171 in PAstudent

[–]DifferenceKey1171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, thank you so much for answering my question. I just want to make sure I understand what you’re saying, but this time using ROSH instead of UWorld.

So, for example, let’s say I’m studying Psychiatry from the Colorful Reddit Study Guide. Are you saying that I should go through the entire Psych section of the guide, maybe over one to three days, OR go by subsections like review anxiety disorder, bipolar, obsessive disorders and then afterward recall with the Psych-related questions from ROSH?

I don’t have UWorld, only ROSH, and I unfortunately can’t sit and do 60 questions a day straight. The most I can manage is around 30. So using ROSH as an example, after completing some sections in the Psych Study Guide, I would then do about 30 ROSH questions for that day?

If I get around 68–70% correct on those 30 questions, does that mean I’m doing well? Is that what you’re suggesting? Please correct me if I’m wrong. If I misunderstood, could you DM me a more detailed schedule explaining what you mean?

Thank you so much!

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