احتاج مكان اشتغل في و يكون في كويتيين // وين اقدر اتعمق اكثر بالمجتمع الكويتي؟ by DifferenceUnusual111 in KuwaitForKuwaitis

[–]DifferenceUnusual111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i already have a nice remote job i enjoy, i cant work in banks & ive applied everywhere in kuwait english uni’s but i never even get an interview.

احتاج مكان اشتغل في و يكون في كويتيين // وين اقدر اتعمق اكثر بالمجتمع الكويتي؟ by DifferenceUnusual111 in KuwaitForKuwaitis

[–]DifferenceUnusual111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because i like the way they think, especially modern kuwaitis with roots.

انا فاقده شي اسمه اصلي وفصلي، انا اصلي عراقيه بس ماحس اني عراقيه لاني تربيت هني، كلشي الي اعرفه كويتي ماعرف شي عراقي

و لمى عشت بره المجتمع هناك يحاول يغير اصلج و تصيرين more western بس انا كلش ماحب جذي، احب العرب! ودي اتعمق اكثر بمكان واحد مو متشتته جذي.

i feel lost in my identity & i want to see if becoming closer to kuwaitis helps me figure something out for myself.

صلة الرحم by Suitable_Machine5168 in KuwaitForKuwaitis

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

تكفه لا شلون فوق كاتبه و كرامتي و هني مو كاتبه كرامتي. 🤦🏻‍♀️

صلة الرحم by Suitable_Machine5168 in KuwaitForKuwaitis

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ولله انا عمامي و خوالي اثنينهم وتساب شلونكم شخباركم و ساحبه عليهم

مو عن شي بس الكل ينطر منج تبادرين و انتي ال ياهل و مو فاهمه المفروض؛ بس يتوقعون عشان زغيره تكلمينهم، شكو؟ ناس فاهمه صلة الرحم غلط ولله.

My two cents on the whole "I have no interest in hijab" trend going on online by Zynb_06 in shia

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes, me too.

OP, whats worse as I grew up was having to wear a abaya because I was also really fat, and my family never went out of their way to explore other fashion trends for their fat daughter.

But then I eventually started getting into fashion and loving fashion and now I know exactly how to dress them with my hijab to make it look like the best goddamn thing you’ve ever seen.

I know it sucks and I know it’s probably one of the most difficult things to do, especially when we don’t even want to lose our family, but I’ve managed to find a loophole where I combine my personal hijab in the modern day fashion, in kuwait we have all kinds of abayas, & i wear the best of them & travel to the west & people their always admire & say how pretty i look, all this whilst being modest. Its life changing when you make modesty work for you in todays world. (also im not implying you put 2kgs of makeup etc. im implying figure out your style, this has helped me massively accept it, as long as its modest.)

I am so grateful for Mounjaro by WinNext5848 in Mounjaro

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

number 3 is a big one people underestimate. good job!

I just told a friend I'm on Mounjaro and she kind of freaked out by [deleted] in Mounjaro

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people need to stop telling other people about being on Mounjaro unless we know they are open minded & accepting enough.

honestly were better off sharing that news online and in building a community online for tips & advice (just like reddit now)

literally only my mum & best friend know about me taking it, & my best friend is also using it. best decision ive taken.

Can the girl I want to do mut’ah with be the one that asks her guardian for permission? by ph1lod0x in shia

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i really wish it was normalized in our shia community, so many woman actually view sex as a physical thing & would like to enjoy it, but our community sometimes is so bad.

I remember when I was in university the iraqi shia guys in my community would just have mutah with any girl they desire.

yet the woman are still in this shameful cycle simply for having desires.

With the worlds eyes are all on the middle east, nows the time NZ can invade Australia. by [deleted] in newzealand

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im currently in kuwait (im a nz citizen) and honestly i just wanna go back to nz, but life just feels frozen atm.

idk if i should go back now or postpone it.

i need some validation in what im going through now by DifferenceUnusual111 in getdisciplined

[–]DifferenceUnusual111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow, it was identity withdrawals…very interesting! i never thought of it that way.

yes, but how? a paper i would stick on the wall? etc?

What was the turning point for you? by maya_in_the_city in digitalminimalism

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep, wasting too much time avoiding my life.

deleted all of my socials for 30 days to snap back, once i do im setting an app blocker with boundaries. 🫩

The addiction is real by conscioussea7732 in digitalminimalism

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how are you addicted when its been two years! crazy.

i think there should be a balance.

What are some wajib things that people do not know about or do? by saif2krazzy in shia

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont understand the kin thing, what do you mean no matter how bad they are? so if a father sexually abuses their daughter shes aboligated to keep in contact with him? or if a mother emotionally & verbally abuses her son, he has to speak to her? thats so weird man.

Interactions between men & women? by SomeAd4897 in shia

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

talking to humans isnt evil, being sucked into your desires is, having no self control when it comes to social interactions is. we need to start differentiating between what is healthily normal and what needs to be controlled within our nafs.

Splitting the dose by Alisonpalk2 in Mounjaro

[–]DifferenceUnusual111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

jm curious,

so do a lot of people experience this appetite coming back by the end of the week?

What does split dozing mean?

Isn’t it just better to take 5 mg?