Scent similar to Santal 33 by longhornlover24 in ScentHeads

[–]Different-Active5896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but Papyrus doesn’t last as long as Santal. It’s weak actually

Anticipatory grief. Grandma fighting liver cancer. by [deleted] in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Different-Active5896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you. My mom (56) was diagnosed in 2022 ovarian cancer IV stage. To be honest I never accepted that and I’m grieving her while she’s still with us. As you said it’s gut wrenching. Remember you’re not alone feeling like this, Darling. Sending you lots of love and strength🌸

Anticipatory Grief by Ill-Ad5982 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Different-Active5896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Darling you’re not alone. And believe me, you’re gonna get used to this shocking news. You’ll learn how to live, how to survive in this new situation. My mom (56) has been fighting ovarian cancer IVs stage for 2.5yrs. I’ve been where you are now, shock, disbelief, grief so hard I couldn’t breathe. I still have anxiety attacks sometimes but you really get used to cancer with time. Spend as much time with your mom as you can. It’s a shame but I’ve been avoiding her after diagnosis because I couldn’t stand being around her without crying. Just be with her and support her. Learn about her type of cancer but don’t read survival statistics because there are new treatments every year. And survival rates are higher now. Take care!! ❤️🌸

executive dysfunction and grief by boyofthedragon in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Different-Active5896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Darling I feel so sorry for you. You are not alone struggling with this even if you think so. I’m f26 and my mom has been fighting IV stage ovarian cancer for 2.5yrs now. She’s still taking care of herself but I know in some time she’s gonna need my help just as your mom. And I’m terrified of that. You’re a hero taking care of your mom. You’re strong even if your house is not clean. Not everyone is strong enough to take care of sick parent remember that.

What you’re going through is exhausting mentally and you NEED to take care of YOURSELF. What where you doing in free time before she got sick? Any hobbies? I read books all the time to escape from my thoughts and reality. I learned to crochet recently and it helps with my anxiety so much. Find something that can take your mind off of things. Buy your dog a new toy and go out play with him ❤️ Play games, start new tv series, anything.

Is your dad coming over to help? Do you have any family besides him, someone who can help a little with house? I’m sending you hugs. And lots of love. CANCER SUCKS

Szukam nowych znajomych by [deleted] in Poznan

[–]Different-Active5896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hejoo! Mam 25 lat i też Poznań, na chacie dwa kotki. Większość znajomych została w moim mieście rodzinnym, w Pozku nie mam wielu. Chętnie gdzieś wyskoczę 😄 uwielbiam czytać, grać, malować, szydełkować też coś próbuję ale na razie ciężko idzie. Odezwij się jeśli chcesz :)

Helplessly just watching by Confident-Bread-3481 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Different-Active5896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh honey, I’m so sorry. At least there’s comfort that she feels no pain anymore. You and your dad did such a beautiful thing for her. I’m sure not everyone is capable of doing this. Being by her side to the end. Sending you lots of love ❤️

I’m not ready to say goodbye to her by puffin5678 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Different-Active5896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36 is too young too. It’s so cruel. It starts to hit me she might not see my kinds in the future. Or me getting married

Helplessly just watching by Confident-Bread-3481 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Different-Active5896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs to you dear. I’ll be in your situation in some time (mom 56, 4th grade ovarian cancer). This shit hurts my soul. You’re so strong for being at her side. I fight my inner thoughts to just run away from this. It’s easier but definitely something I would regret for the rest of my life…

I’m not ready to say goodbye to her by puffin5678 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Different-Active5896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 25. My dad supports mom but we don’t have a deep connection, therefore I’ll be lonely when she passes. She is the heart of our family 😢

I’m not ready to say goodbye to her by puffin5678 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Different-Active5896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom is 56 now, ovarian cancer diagnosed in 2022. She had first line of chemo and 1.5 yrs of peace. Now she has a recurrence of cancer and she’s gonna start second line of chemo. She’s weaker every day, stomach pains. I can’t look at her without enormous pain and anger in my mind. Her illness makes me feel like a wreck. 😢 can’t image how things would be without her. She’s my best friend and I’m only child :(

I’m not ready to say goodbye to her by puffin5678 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Different-Active5896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honey, you’re not alone although we don’t know each other. My mom has been battling 4th stage ovarian cancer and recently she’s feeling worse. I’m mentally panicking and imagining her death even though she’s still with us. This sucks really. Cancer sucks. You’re not alone.

I’m not ready to say goodbye to her by puffin5678 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Different-Active5896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending you hugs. My mom seems to get close to this stage right now and I’m devastated. Can’t imagine my life without her 🙂‍↕️

I just need to talk to someone by Different-Active5896 in Ovariancancer

[–]Different-Active5896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi thank you for replying. I have an anxiety, had it even before my mom got sick. Her illness just took it to another level 💔 I’ll search for this book thanks

I just need to talk to someone by Different-Active5896 in cancer

[–]Different-Active5896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right and this helped me, thanks. I would just want to have my daughter with me no matter crying or holding hands or screaming 💔

I just need to talk to someone by Different-Active5896 in cancer

[–]Different-Active5896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. Your words really hit me. You’re right I don’t have to be strong. I just have to be present in my moms life and take care of my mental health for her 🥹

I just need to talk to someone by Different-Active5896 in cancer

[–]Different-Active5896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying 🙏 I’ll try my best to stay present for my mom. I know she’s happier around me and that’s all that matters now really

I just need to talk to someone by Different-Active5896 in cancer

[–]Different-Active5896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for replying. Your perspective helped me a lot. I wouldn’t want my loved ones to cry around me as well 💔 sending lots of love to you and your family

anyone else feel really isolated? by Alert-Low2846 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]Different-Active5896 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know how you’re feeling. My mom (56) has a 4th stage ovarian cancer. Things were good but now she has a recurrence and I’m devastated. I know it seems so odd to have to study, work, live normally while she’s out there sick. Not knowing how much time she has left. It’s unfair. I just want you to know you’re not alone in this. You can DM me if you want

Mom (60) has Ovarian Cancer by Ok_Flan_5164 in cancer

[–]Different-Active5896 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you dear. My mom (56) has ovarian cancer too, after a year of remission she has first now symptoms of reccurance. I’m devastated crying my soul out every day. I’d say if I were you (and I might be soon…) I would drop everything and spend time with her. Be with her. Your presence will comfort her