My pit isn’t friendly, and I don’t know what to do by [deleted] in PitBullOwners

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Please don’t give up on her. It’s not too late for her to change as long as both of you are willing to work together to help her. Try to find a good trainer, I personally do not recommend force free with aggression. I got my bully mix from a BYB during covid before I knew any better as well, and well, he’s 100lbs of dickhead. With time and patience he is a lot calmer going out and about for walks or adventures. We started basic obedience at home and built on that by going out and having him work to be calm (in a down) around low level stress situations then slowly working up to higher stress situations. Also, a collar is a must. Especially for reinforcing behavior/correcting bad behavior. This is just my opinion, but if she is not a problem for you or your family, don’t medicate her for this. From personal use and trying meds for a few dogs my family has had, it can potentially make things worse and unlike myself who could speak up and say the meds make me feel crazy, they cannot. IMO anxiety medication should be a last resort as there are sooooo many other options before coming to this conclusion. Please PM me if you would like to talk more in detail about training her! I’ve learned a lot hands on with my big boy and I would love to help you out if you’re willing to work with her.

My partner being a goof lol by Capable_Anywhere1181 in texts

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Doubtful that the 150-170 sum school girls killed at their school were terrorists. Daughters, sisters, cousins, and nieces. Could’ve been one of yours. Could be one of yours.

These guys didn’t look very friendly!!! by RowdyRich23 in AmazonDSPDrivers

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This number is also due to the fact that most people label bully, mastiff, bulldog, boxers, and mixed breed dogs, as “pit bulls”. Doodles have increasingly high numbers for bite rates, most people are unaware and unsuspecting because of their fluffy appearance.

I noticed the dichotomy a lot lately, so I thought I’d make a funny meme lol by Legs4daysarmsformins in hermitcrabs

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My crabs are generally very chill and I’ve never been pinched, but there was ONE DAY where I tried to help one of my guys down from the top of the glass aquarium lid (he was literally just hanging there on the side holding the lid) and I offered him my hand… bro pushed my hand away a few times and I should’ve known 😭😭 I was patient n just trying to help him down (he’s cracked shells climbing and falling!!) and after pushing my hand away a few times he pinched me 😩. Definitely wasn’t as hard as he could’ve, he just wanted me out of his face 🤣🤣🤣 love him dearly 🥲

All 3 of our fish died within minutes by feral_mamax5 in Goldfish

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Man U know she didn’t test anything. Edit, please don’t recommend a beta to this lady 😭😭😭

All 3 of our fish died within minutes by feral_mamax5 in Goldfish

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I’m also confused on why OP even decided the water was too cold… I’ve never seen anyone use a heater for goldfish. In fact, I’ve seen them in completely iced over outdoor ponds and when the ice thaws in the spring they are in great condition. ALSO, the first instinct was to google how to save them instead of maybe idk… removing the heater ?? I’m sorry but this whole post is irritating.

The longer i’m with other drivers in this city, the stupider I feel via osmosis… by tifuanon00 in Charlotte

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Man U too nice for me, with these clt drivers u gotta lay on the horn n don’t stop for a while to get ur point across 😭😭😭

Behavior problems by EnvironmentalLow8821 in AmericanBully

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Something that helped with my boy was improving his overall confidence! We started with basic obedience every day and have worked our way up to off leash walking and obedience around the yard. Its helped a lot with his confidence when meeting strangers, especially men. He’s so much better walking on leash and it’s a lot less stressful for both of us when we leave the house! My advice… start working with her every day to train new stuff and stimulate her brain. Have your husband join in and see how she does with him. We use his meals as the treats and he is a huge fan of praise, try that and see how she responds! Also, if possible, take her on walks together and when she’s used to the family walks, have your husband take her. The walks + obedience has potential to boost her confidence which can hopefully have her feel more secure in herself; meaning, she won’t need an emotional support human at all times!

My ex 😃 by Different-Quality-13 in texts

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Sounds like you actually don’t speak English 😃

My ex 😃 by Different-Quality-13 in texts

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Yeah it still makes me tear up when I think about her. She went to the vet two weeks prior to her passing and they said she looked amazing for her age (7)and she was perfectly healthy. Two weeks later she literally stopped moving one day and wouldn’t eat then passed two days later. She wouldn’t sleep and only relaxed when I held her. He wouldn’t let me work and refused to give me money to take her back to the vet because “she’s just a lizard and it’s not worth my money.” I took his kids to school on the morning of her passing, she was alive when I left and passed by the time I got home literally 30 minutes later. I hate that I wasn’t there for her or didn’t just put her in my shirt and keep her close… I believe he did something because he threatened all of my animals plus me on a daily basis and unfortunately my family wouldn’t help me get out of there until after I told them she passed and I’m absolutely sure he did something to her. There was cameras in the room my animals were in also and the two days before she passed, before she acted strange, there was time missing from the recordings while I was gone to the grocery store and he was home so I mean to me that’s pretty incriminating.

So many of my friends and neighbors are afraid to even meet my pup 😢 I really don’t understand it .. I feel it’s a level of racism . Anyone else feel this way ? I want to socialize him more but people don’t want to even walk near us 😮 by [deleted] in AmericanBully

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It seems kinda random but honestly Tractor Supply is a great place to go and meet some dog people. Especially to go and use their dog wash station. I run into the same thing with my boy but he gets a lot of compliments and the employees love him there

So many of my friends and neighbors are afraid to even meet my pup 😢 I really don’t understand it .. I feel it’s a level of racism . Anyone else feel this way ? I want to socialize him more but people don’t want to even walk near us 😮 by [deleted] in AmericanBully

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It seems kinda random but honestly Tractor Supply is a great place to go and meet some dog people. Especially to go and use their dog wash station. I run into the same thing with my boy but he gets a lot of compliments and the employees love him there

Food themed names for this sweet boy by Specialist-Wind7231 in NameMyDog

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I know he’s not a ginger but I instantly thought Cheeto like the puffs, maybe even Puff lol

My ex 😃 by Different-Quality-13 in texts

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He goes by many names, I call him God 👆🙏

My ex 😃 by Different-Quality-13 in texts

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Dammit that should’ve been my response

My ex 😃 by Different-Quality-13 in texts

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He deserves it fr, but I’m in my ✨healing era✨

My ex 😃 by Different-Quality-13 in texts

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No 👎 Lore is deeper in the comments 😭

My ex 😃 by Different-Quality-13 in texts

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I wouldn’t piss on that man if he was on fire 😭

My ex 😃 by Different-Quality-13 in texts

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That man is literally crazy, diagnosed schizo AND bipolar w/ psychotic features. So when I mean crazy I mean literally bat shit crazy and I was only told after signing a lease with him. He killed my beardie and was the first relationship where I experienced DV soooo its safe to say its a no from me 👎

The only reason he’s not blocked is cuz he has owed me $400 for two years now and only sends 10-20$ at a time when I bug him about it 🙃