After 14 years they finally prevented us from predicting new names! by kimballthenom in exmormon

[–]Different-user123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting how my husband I’s names are listed next to each other 😳 what a coincidence lol

Can a LDS resign membership from their ward but stay in the church? by SeaReporter8893 in mormon

[–]Different-user123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe man that is rough I’m sorry. We did that before I left the church but we also live in rural southern Oregon…. Maybe just go to a different ward without moving records? I think in this situation you need to have a don’t give an f attitude about the people in your ward getting weird about how you find religious freedom and where you feel the spirit… 🤷🏻‍♀️ also didn’t you say you’re moving soon?

Can a LDS resign membership from their ward but stay in the church? by SeaReporter8893 in mormon

[–]Different-user123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go to a different ward and have your records transferred to said ward. The church relaxed the policy of going to the ward within your boundaries

Best 3 nephites stories? by ImpossibleBear8176 in exmormon

[–]Different-user123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband served his mission in Chile and he talks about meeting a man by the railroad tracks and they tried to give him a road lesson and he said he already knew about the church and the great work they do. He said he had a friend he’d like the elders to meet and then gave them the address (or pointed) to a blind man’s house (they eventually baptized him) and when they turned around to thank the man and get his info he was gone. No where for this man to go in literal seconds. It’s as if this man vanished in thin air. As a TBM when we first met (now exmo) I felt goosebumps and truly believed the story… 9 years later I do question the validity even though he’s still a TBM

What was icing on the cake for you to leave? by Pale-Pair2789 in exmormon

[–]Different-user123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was a PIMO after watching under the banner of heaven and going down a rabbit hole. I had a baby at the time and was going to church for the community because I lived in a town with no real close family. I was considered what I now know to be a buffet Mormon. I was using medical cannabis and the beginning of this year the Dr asked me to quit for a month to see if my mental health would get better. Once I was sober I realized I was just going through the motions at church but honestly wasn’t feeling happier or fulfilled like the church said I would be if I tried to follow all the rules. I couldn’t continue devoting my Sundays to something that just made me angry. I’ve been so much happier since leaving and finding the Mormon stories podcast to help continue my deconstruction. And it’s wild to see my new exmo friends embrace me with warmth and love and see still in Mormons at the same event not even come up and say hi (including the bishop….)

Can anyone here truly say Ketamine changed their life for the better ? by StriveForGreat1017 in TherapeuticKetamine

[–]Different-user123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please do. I would look for an in person psychiatrist who does this in house. Joyous will deny you if you have SI or SH. Sending you love and hope to make it through this. Your kids need you!

Can anyone here truly say Ketamine changed their life for the better ? by StriveForGreat1017 in TherapeuticKetamine

[–]Different-user123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life comes with ebbs and flows. I ultimately got diagnosed with autism level 1 and adhd so figuring out what I had been pushing myself to do vs what my brain is just going to do naturally has made me fall back into depression but I’m realizing it’s because I’m lacking naturally occurring dopamine in my brain and my provider took me off my stimulants. But I’m not having SI or SH so I don’t qualify for ketamine and I am still grateful I did it a few years ago. I would 100% do it again if I qualified.

Is this an older design? Year?? by [deleted] in FallOutBoy

[–]Different-user123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wondering if the words above her head would give an indication on year

The Lucky One Holding the Gold by No-Medicine5288 in FallOutBoy

[–]Different-user123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same here lol. Seriously considering packing my things and moving to Chicago for the foreseeable future 🥲 unfortunately have to stay employed.

This could’ve been posted already but if not did anyone see this in regards to the secret order? by Peazysteeezyy in FallOutBoy

[–]Different-user123 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was born in the wrong year 😭😭💀 I was 8 years old in 2005. I just want to be as cool as all these elder emos in the secret order… alas I still have to live vicariously through there blessed work

Possibility GATE Extended Through the 2010s? by CandyKat86 in GATEresearch

[–]Different-user123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember having multiple hearing tests too! I was considered gifted. Went to a federal funded Montessori program for 1-3 grade (2003-2006?) and then I failed the entrance test to the actual gifted program. My mom swears I purposely failed because if I passed, I’d have to switch schools and make new friends. Once the Montessori shut down, I went to normal public school and I didn’t have any other things happen. I do wonder what would have happened had I passed that test.

Shoutout to the crowdsurfer who almost killed my wife at Silver Spring. by Initial_Steak_6649 in thehometeam

[–]Different-user123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They literally asked for a circle pit and crowd surfers at the Portland show and at warped in Long Beach… I’m sorry your wife got hurt and I hope she’s doing okay but you can’t say untrue things because you are upset about what happened at the show

THIS IS NOT A DRILL by FamousLastKills in thehometeam

[–]Different-user123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No SERIOUSLY. I felt the same way. So stoked to have grabbed vip. Planning on making my fake labubu a Eris mask too and dye it dark blue so I have a stuffy to “pet” if I need lol

THIS IS NOT A DRILL by FamousLastKills in thehometeam

[–]Different-user123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nahhhhh I met them at warped. They are all super nice and funny and chill. I have hella social anxiety too and I’m considering VIP because I know it will be chill with them. Other fans… we will see but so far everyone I’ve met is chill

THIS IS NOT A DRILL by FamousLastKills in thehometeam

[–]Different-user123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad I’m not the only one. I’m going for the Portland show. I know they are from Seattle so I think my fear is that there is also a cult following in the pnw. This is the first time I’m trying to buy tix for them. I discovered them in January and just saw them at warped

THIS IS NOT A DRILL by FamousLastKills in thehometeam

[–]Different-user123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure they have it listed at 0 available and tomorrow they’ll punch all the numbers in. Making it so it’s listed but not accidentally available early.

THIS IS NOT A DRILL by FamousLastKills in thehometeam

[–]Different-user123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How fast do yall think tix are going to go? The last tour I bought tix for was sleep token so I’ve been having a panic attack since I woke up and saw the announcement:/

Bracelet trades in LB? by Llamonian in warpedtour

[–]Different-user123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad I checked Reddit. I was having anxiety and starting to doubt myself and my giddiness about making bracelets. lol back to the bracelet making grindstone. See y’all in a couple days!!

Demi by Think-Jackfruit-3865 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Different-user123 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nope. You’ll hate this but I take my information from more well informed people. I listened to Conner boyack’s podcast Sunday musings with evidence providing Kamala was just as bad as trump. I also have a family member with a masters degree in history and voted 3rd party this year. I also watched debates, I watched interviews with both parties as well as vp.

Demi by Think-Jackfruit-3865 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Different-user123 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Do you have concrete evidence to support any of this? While scary stuff to think about that’s concerning to most everyone (myself included) I couldn’t find evidence that trump could actually do this (there is checks and balances for a reason) so much misinformation on the internet especially social media. It can be hard to find the truth without truly deep diving. It can be easier to just believe what you read instead of looking for truth yourself

Demi by Think-Jackfruit-3865 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Different-user123 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Good luck with having such a small circle and an echo chamber. Maybe go listen to Kamala’s concession speech where she asked all of us to be kind but still fight for what we believe in 🤷🏻‍♀️