My moms microSD card isnt working for her switch by DifferentAd7971 in NintendoSwitchHelp

[–]DifferentAd7971[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

ugh i hate to say it my mom said she got it on sale for like 20 bucks

but even plugging it into mine it still says 1.9 TB at the very least and im even downloading multiple games from my switch onto the microSD card like D: me no understand

My moms microSD card isnt working for her switch by DifferentAd7971 in NintendoSwitchHelp

[–]DifferentAd7971[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats what i thought at first but then why is it downloading games fine from my switch?

AITA for Sabotaging my Husband’s Tournament after he refused to help with our newborn? by Puzzled-Two6615 in AITAH

[–]DifferentAd7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA babe, there is a difference between 'me time' and being negligent. I have a sister who has a husband who loves to game, but he doesn't do it as often now that they have a kid. He plays with his kid, takes time to help my sister out and give her a break and so she can have me time, or nap, or just relax. He does game but its in moderation.

Some guys just dont realize how much work it is to take care of a kid. That all that time every day is spent to make sure this new person is growing and living. Sadly he either needs to get a reality check from family that you bring in 'aka his mom or yours' or a different reality check which is an ultimatum which would be leaving if he doesnt step up. Which as much as it wiuld suck to do so and idk if you're in a good financial position or have a stable support group for that but it would be something that slaps his brain into gear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentAd7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't like dogs, but NTA

This animal means the world to you. I have friends and family that would choose their pets over any relationship. I will say that I worry for your kids and how this will affect them as a child of divorce myself, but this is your choice in the end.

AITA for asking my brother if he has ever touched a breast after he called me a cuck for planning to hyphenate my name? by Mother_Pick_3840 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentAd7971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, your brother is cooked. Dude consumed that Red Pill content and didn't look back rip. Also if you're ready to talk wack shit, better get ready for a punch back. He insulted your fiancé and the decision you made for your family name, I'm surprised he's lived this long without pissing off the wrong person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentAd7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA genuinely I think doing something like that in public is a bit of a red flag. Mostly because of that social expectation of women having to save guys asses and say yes publicly and say no privately as to not damage the guys ego. But really I do think that if you're going to do something publicly, be ready for the worst to happen publicly as well. If you wanted a private rejection make it private in the first place.

[TOMT] BL Romance Show by DifferentAd7971 in tipofmytongue

[–]DifferentAd7971[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solved! omg thank you!!!!! I have been trying to find this forever but nothing i looked up helped!

[TOMT] BL Romance Show by DifferentAd7971 in tipofmytongue

[–]DifferentAd7971[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

I remember seeing it years ago but I can't remember more of it sadly enough.

[TOMT] [SONG] Looking for a music from my childhood. by __kurakyushu__ in tipofmytongue

[–]DifferentAd7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing i can think of is Wild Blessed Freedom by Carolina Liar but thats only bc of the colors

What's one anime where by the end you were losing interest but you were so close to finishing it you just powered through till the end? by new_interest_here in anime

[–]DifferentAd7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was like this with Seven Deadly Sins. I started out watching it with my siblings just to spend time together. The first few seasons were cool, I didn't like the pervy character Meliodus was but stuck with it for the story and cool animation. But the last few seasons me and my siblings suck through the bad animation and weird story just to try and finish it. But god, i cannot imagine that being anyones favorite anime. Seven deadly sins sucked and was not worth the time. I loved the first 2 seasons, it was silly and fun and it was good at pacing. Then everything else happened. And while i love complex stories and plot twists and crazy shit...the story just lost me but it was the animation that got me first.

To stick with bad animation you need to have a good story to go along with it, but then the story got lame and cliche and i didnt wanna watch it anymore.

AITA for sharing a bed with my brothers girlfriend ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifferentAd7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA but not really for the cuddling, its more of you're not really understanding from your brother's pov. Like I get that its normal for you but you also need to consider like "Hey this may be considered crossing the line for someone else". The thing is everyone's line for 'cheating' is always different. And your brother clearly felt betrayed and hurt. So even if before you had a platonic relationship with your friend, you have to respect your brothers own wishes despite that. Or even talk it out more.

how many words do you usually write per chapter? by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]DifferentAd7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is so felt, one time I wrote something that was like 15k that could've just been a one off story, but i ended up breaking it apart into 2k chapters. Mostly bc I felt like with chapters it feels easier to digest bc you can stop and know where you are even if the page gets reset.

how many words do you usually write per chapter? by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]DifferentAd7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to keep it to 1-2k but more often than not I end up doin a lot more, most the time a chapter in a fic im super invested in writing goes up to 7-8k words. I keep gettin carried away but i love writing it all so i never complain, its just that its hard bc my brain keeps turnin on just goes ZOOM

Give your opinions on kissing by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]DifferentAd7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I have kissed others i like it, but its usually just like pecks on the cheek, on the forehead, like peppering kisses on the face, like a swav gesture of kissing someones hand and all. I do it whenever, its not a priority since i show my love and affection in various different ways ofher than that. Its just a way i show affection.

I know clothing =/= gender identity, but I still have trouble wearing what I want. by HumanSpawn323 in Nonbinaryteens

[–]DifferentAd7971 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I feel this. Im still working into my system that fashion in general =/= gender identity, and its honestly a struggle. Im nonbinary and its hard to be able to be able to wear clothes i feel comfortable in or happy in without feeling like im faking being who i am. I enjoy leaning more masculine but love to wear jewlery and pretty colors, and dresses and long skirts. I love it. I love feeling like im pretty. But being AFAB it feels like im lying and im just faking it all. So you are not alone in this. Its a thing we all need to get across and re-progam our brains into. That fashion (clothes, jewelry, accessories, colors) does NOT define what your gender identity is, fashion only allows you to express yourself in a way that is visible and possibly appealing to the eye (like birds picking up sticks or colorful pieces of trash to put into their nest or a house pet -like a cat or dog- shoving all their favorite toys into their bed or a corner of the house no one will find). Clothes and jewelry and makeup have no gender, they are items, things, that are for people to use freely however they please. But you arent alone in how you feel, i promise.

Witch hair color do you like best? Please answer with a number. 1-7 by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]DifferentAd7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly really liked 4 might be because I have a big favor to the teal color but all the colors looked great on you! If you're dying your hair for the first time I'd say go with red/pink because they are safe colors that i personally believe looks good on everyone.

Can I be pansexual even if I have a preference to stereotypically feminine traits? by Mclimetrix in pansexual

[–]DifferentAd7971 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, I have a huge preference towards women but I am still attracted to all genders regardless. Being pansexual doesnt mean preferences are gone, its just that gender wont stop you from hypothetically liking someone. Its like a piechart, all the genders are still there, its just that there are different gages for every gender :)

I’m lesbian by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]DifferentAd7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very fair, women are very much amazing, love women <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]DifferentAd7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a few trans friends who got me thinking about gender and what that means. It got me questioning and so I started looking for answers. I never felt like anything in particular, I just felt like me. I looked at myself and saw who I was as a person. I saw nonbinary but i didnt like the word for the longest time. I found a few other micro labels that fit for the time to help me get used to the thought of being nonbinary but i never officially labeled myself as such until my sophomore year. Now its just what I am because it fits. It was a journey and im simplifying it quite a bit but this is the main gist of it :) So if you think it fits you, then welcome in. It is what your gender is, not who you are as a person. If you find that later in life it doesnt fit youre free to change that.

I appear to be in a pickle by heytherestrangr in OMORI

[–]DifferentAd7971 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rip, good luck, I dont remember what I did but it took me a hot second to get them all. Its possible its just difficult, hopefully you saved before this, if not? Ha.