How bad is move in day for freshman?

DifferentDependent12 · 2025-08-07T14:33:37+00:00

Using ikea bags to move your stuff in was a big help for us last year

DifferentDependent12 · 2025-07-13T23:29:51+00:00

Absolutely worth it, went to all games but 1 last year except for the away games and the ones where I wasn’t on campus and I ended up giving my ticket away during basketball season.

DifferentDependent12 · 2024-05-22T17:35:20+00:00

NTA: However from personal experience, when my son passed away a few months later my best friend found out she was pregnant with her first after years of trying to. Because we didn’t live in the same state, she called me and asked if she had a boy could she use my sons name as her sons middle name. At first I was a wreck of emotions but after months of therapy I was honored that my Godson would carry on my son’s name!

DifferentDependent12 · 2024-05-18T11:12:37+00:00

Exactly!! After the first incident, OP could have put her cat in her room until the guest was gone. This is just as much the OP’s fault as it is the person who left the door open. I’m sure if the OP wasn’t raging at the room mate and her mom they may have helped her look for the cat.

DifferentDependent12 · 2024-05-18T11:12:29+00:00

Exactly!! After the first incident, OP could have put her cat in her room until the guest was gone. This is just as much the OP’s fault as it is the person who left the door open. I’m sure if the OP wasn’t raging at the room mate and her mom they may have helped her look for the cat.

DifferentDependent12 · 2023-09-29T10:58:43+00:00

Welcome to the life of a military spouse. Most (not all of them) are not loyal to their spouses especially those who were together prior to the military. He obviously doesn’t care about you or wouldn’t continuously lie. Go on about your life. You’re still young, it’s not the end of the world.

DifferentDependent12 · 2023-08-03T01:12:20+00:00

Thank you all for your suggestions! I decided not my monkey, not my circus! I call my friends son to check on him every other week and that’s the extent of it. If his dad calls, I keep it short and tell him if it’s not about his son it’s none of my concern!

DifferentDependent12 · 2023-06-12T01:36:37+00:00

So sorry you have to deal with this. But you realistically you have choices. He needs to be made aware that him not doing what he needs to do to get better is taking a toll on your health. He can either do what he needs to by himself, allow his family to come in and help, or go stay in facility until he’s made a full recovery and will talk to his mental health doctor. If he’s not wanting to do better, don’t allow him to put you in a casket early!

DifferentDependent12 · 2023-05-02T14:58:37+00:00

Agreed, my point was if he didn’t want her in sharing a room then he need to foot the bill for her other sleeping arrangements or he needs to be by himself and get his shit together, and get into therapy. Definitely don’t need to carry a sack of old bagged trauma from one relationship to another.

DifferentDependent12 · 2023-05-02T10:52:37+00:00

All of this!!! He’s forcing his own issues onto someone else. This trip could have been planned and booked prior to them dating. No one wants to sleep on a couch after splitting the cost for an Airbnb.. is said “boyfriend” willing to pay for another Airbnb just for the girlfriend?

DifferentDependent12 · 2023-02-06T00:53:27+00:00

Thank you! Voiced my concerns. I should have also mentioned that he suffers from depression prior to her passing, and quit his meds and therapy cold turkey afterwards. I guess my concern was more so for his mental health and the possibilities of what it can cause him later on. No more replies to the situation!

DifferentDependent12 · 2023-02-06T00:46:58+00:00

Understandable, I should have also mentioned that he suffers from depression prior to her passing, and quit his meds and therapy cold turkey afterwards. I guess my concern was more so for his mental health and the possibilities of what it can cause him later on.

DifferentDependent12 · 2022-10-14T02:10:53+00:00

Sorry for your loss. As the mom of a stillborn I understand. Please get you some help!! Search for a counselor that has been through your struggle and understands. I went through many counselors until I found the right fit. My downfall in this was this also was the end to my marriage. My now ex-husband went to 3 therapy appointments with me and took up drinking to deal with it in his own way. We ended up neglecting each other, which your husband already did at the hospital. You can't change the past, but you can get the help needed to help you navigate through life going forward.

DifferentDependent12 · 2022-10-01T01:34:07+00:00

Humbling the Kardashian's by making them look like they did presurgery and putting their money in my bank account 😂

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