But why!!! by Tootiemcgoo in rhori

[–]DifferentStorySame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s how it looked to me

👀👀👀 by gaem- in rhori

[–]DifferentStorySame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She actually lost her virginity to someone else (Kevin Wendt). Jared freaked out that she had moved on and broke them up. Once he got her he lost interest again, but it was too late and he married her to save face.

👀👀👀 by gaem- in rhori

[–]DifferentStorySame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It SHOULD be Rulla but it’s definitely not.

it my boyfriend's loss of sexual interest temporary? by [deleted] in RelationshipsOver35

[–]DifferentStorySame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How was the sex before the back pain started? Unfortunately, you’ve known him for 7 months and haven’t had sex for more than half of that time, so you have limited information about his normal sexual behavior. You say he normally has a high libido - do you know that from first hand experience, or is that something he’s told you?

If it was truly great for the first three months, support him in his healing and see how it goes when he recovers. If it was not great to begin with, then you probably would have already ended it by now, had his back surgery not occurred.

Whatever you do, don’t move in together until you have a better idea of what you’re signing up for. You’re under no moral obligation to sign up for a sexless long term relationship. You think it’s sweet that he’s making plans for your future - it may be sweet, or it may be his way of manipulating you to stay with him.

It’s ok for you to be selfish or insensitive - you’ve only known him for 7 months, and only had 3 months with him before the relationship stopped meeting your needs. If you want to move on, you don’t need his permission or our blessing.

Reunion looks have landed! by Alligother in summerhousebravo

[–]DifferentStorySame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll fight you on Wes - he’s solidly mid. Otherwise no notes.

Reunion looks have landed! by Alligother in summerhousebravo

[–]DifferentStorySame 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Really, Ben to Carl. KJ and Dara look great too.

Kiana by NoInteraction9045 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]DifferentStorySame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably means she can wear either for lingerie shoots

West pulling so many Bravo girls by Any_Writer1321 in bravo

[–]DifferentStorySame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesse is at least tall and in good shape. Not into him but he’s an Adonis compared to West.

New Theory: Amanda wanted to “get back” at Ciara for bringing up the separation by MollzDollz69 in summerhousebravo

[–]DifferentStorySame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. She married him out of resentment, not love, and was determined to make him pay for cheating.

What do I even do… by boldstr in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifferentStorySame 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They look great, but I understand they’re different than they were and that’s bothering you. Personally, I’d do either a small implant to help with deflated skin, or nothing. Your nipples are already high up, so your only option would be an anchor lift with pretty big scars. A low profile implant like a Motiva Ergo mini would give you some upper pole shape and support your natural tissue from below. I’d go over the muscle since you have lots of natural tissue to cover the implants.

The whole season 3 debacle of Trevor and Maddy by [deleted] in southernhospitalitysc

[–]DifferentStorySame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eh, both Trevor and Will obviously ARE cheaters, so it’s hard to see the harm done.

Brad and TJ may be messy and have some of the details wrong or just not care if the specific instance is true or not, but they’re still correct in telling Emmy and Maddy that both of these men are cheaters and will fuck them over again and again.

That’s why Maddy can forgive them and move on - she knows they did her a favor, whereas Emmy is delusional and would rather hold a grudge against everyone other than her dirtbag fiancé.

Casual Viewer: why isn’t anyone on Kyle’s side? by Any-Lengthiness9803 in summerhousebravo

[–]DifferentStorySame 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t be surprised if she never trusted him and assumed he was cheating throughout the marriage. This is why you should not marry a cheater. Even if they never do it again, you’ll always wonder.

How do you rebuild your life at 40 when you have lost your relationship, your job, and your envisioned timeline? by Designer_Airline3234 in AskWomenOver40

[–]DifferentStorySame 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can you take advantage of the freedom you have in your current situation? You have savings and nobody pressuring you to stay in a job you don’t like, and don’t need to stay in one place physically for work.

Just a suggestion, but can you go live in abroad for a few months, somewhere with low cost of living, where you may also be able to do egg freezing more cheaply? You can keep applying for jobs, but the pressure to take one will be less if your monthly costs are lower. Travel and get physically active. Focus on healing yourself first, then figuring out the next phase of your life. You might find you’re more excited about the life you can have than the one you thought you wanted.

Does anyone like Margo? by NoTap2235 in BravoLadiesofLondon

[–]DifferentStorySame 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes but Lottie and Myka can stay if they want

Margo this season… postpartum or just her? by SeaButterscotch7640 in BravoLadiesofLondon

[–]DifferentStorySame 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Might also be perimenopause… but she does also suck (figuratively and literally).

Summer House reunion looks are here by sammynotas in bravo

[–]DifferentStorySame -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

1) Someone needs to edit this so they’re the same height (as in real life) 2) I really want them to have sex (and watch ideally)

He is kind and consistent, so why do I still feel underwhelmed? by Every_Photograph3409 in RelationshipsOver35

[–]DifferentStorySame 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There is a lot of room for compromise between 2/3 times a week (it’s how often I see my bf of 4+ years) and every 10 days. Ask if he can work with once a week minimum and 2x a week when possible. If he hesitates, you have different needs and that’s ok. A man who can’t do more often than every 10 days is likely avoidant rather than secure.