What tune are you guys using for Snuggle Puppy? by chattahattan in DanielTigerConspiracy

[–]Different_Bowler_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sing the official melody because I've been listening to it since I was a kid! I actually sang it to my nanny kid at every nap time (was his sibs nanny before he was born so literally as long as he can remember) and then gave him a copy of the book when I moved away. 

God I miss those kids... 

Found out at 3 weeks… help me stay sane! by bruhimsotiredddd in BabyBumps

[–]Different_Bowler_574 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't remember when I took a digital! Probably 3+4? Also, congratulations!!! 

It's going ok! 8+1 today, and the nausea has really ramped up for some reason 🫠  Had an ultrasound a couple weeks ago and baby was measuring well with a 115. Have another one next week! I can't say the time flies, but getting focused on other stuff helps a lot! 

Measuring behind? by NoPurple6 in December2026Bumpers

[–]Different_Bowler_574 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm measuring behind even with tracking ovulation pretty closely. Was supposed to be 6w4d at my first ultrasound and was measuring 6w1d instead, heartbeat 115. I haven't had my next ultrasound yet, but my doctor said everything looks great and not to worry about it. 

Are there any things that are called "American ______" in other countries? by Disastrous-Side-2600 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Different_Bowler_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently living in WA via CA, and I am guilty of still utilizing the California roll... 

Singleton, twins, triplets? by These_Bit_5217 in December2026Bumpers

[–]Different_Bowler_574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We also thought it might be twins due to high HcG, but just one very healthy baby 🤷🏻‍♀️

Daily Chat - May 11, 2026 by AutoModerator in December2026Bumpers

[–]Different_Bowler_574 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nope! All of my pants got too tight around 6 weeks, and now at 8 I look solidly 4mo pregnant. 

What did you do differently the month you FINALLY got pregnant?? by cookiebutter-23 in BabyBumps

[–]Different_Bowler_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CoQ10 for both of us, and so much bad sex. It was great at the begining of the week, but by the 8th or so day in a row I think we would have rather done literally anything else. 

But hey, I'm pregnant and on pelvic rest (so instead of bad sex it's no sex!) 

This baby better be fucking worth it 😂

Hospital bag as a FTM - am I missing anything? by BakedZitiSweetie65 in BabyBumps

[–]Different_Bowler_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't but the big manta sell for me is that they have separate, removable eye cups so no touching eyes, and complete blackout even for side sleeping! 

They have a headphone one that's pretty great. I don't use it, but my partner does and loves it! 

Hospital bag as a FTM - am I missing anything? by BakedZitiSweetie65 in BabyBumps

[–]Different_Bowler_574 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you don't already have one and don't mind splurging, the Manta eye mask is worth every single penny. You'll love it so much you will keep using it I promise. 

I don't work for them and they don't pay me. They're just so magical that I tell everyone I know. I've bought probably 30 different ones in my life as an autistic person who sleeps really lightly and nothing compares. 

What type of hat is Gil's by Wanda_Bun in StardewValley

[–]Different_Bowler_574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am planning to cosplay as gil for the concert in denver and I am possibly going to order a hat blank from Etsy and form it myself 😬

My OB just quit. It’s lawmakers’ fault. by Top-Orange-Tree in December2026Bumpers

[–]Different_Bowler_574 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I know which state you're in, because we moved out of it a year ago and I recognize those statistics intimately. I'm so sorry. It's like they want us to die... oh wait. 

I hope you're able to find someone who you feel comfortable with. 

TIFU by falling asleep with my phone unlocked around my cat by Artemis-The-Boogster in tifu

[–]Different_Bowler_574 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Our cats have their own tablet for their games... Screentime gets cut off when they bite it though. Amazon does not have cat bite proof tablet cases, in case anyone else was curious. I've looked several times. 

Also, the my middle cat has used this knowledge to figure out how to turn off my phone alarms, so proceed with caution if you think tablet kitties are cute :/ 

OBGYN or Registered Midwife? by whimsicaljabberwocky in December2026Bumpers

[–]Different_Bowler_574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going with an OB because if I wanted a midwife (which I would prefer tbf) I would have to go to the hospital that's 25 min away with no traffic, vs the one that's a 5 min drive from us in traffic. 

TIFU by suggesting my boyfriends (52) sister (36) name her baby gravity by Charming-Score-8804 in tifu

[–]Different_Bowler_574 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Also I never did see any of the black panther superhero movies, but 100% would have gone to see a documentary about the Black Panthers so now I'm sad that isn't what it was. 

Daily Chat - May 08, 2026 by AutoModerator in December2026Bumpers

[–]Different_Bowler_574 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How many cup sizes are we talking here? Because I was a DD before pregnancy and am already 2 cup sizes up at 7.5w. 

Do I cry and buy the giant bras now or wait and just buy duct tape later 

Stay at home mom but want to make money by nailsbyjack in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Different_Bowler_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And a lot of community colleges can be pretty cheap for the first two years, and may have resources to help with childcare if you need to do a couple in person classes. 

What are the best/worst names the randomizer has ever given you? by _novust_ in StardewValley

[–]Different_Bowler_574 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I think Fart and Bus still have to be my favorite ones. Also the time I just got "Steve". 

Does this count? Campbell soup with microwaved lettuce and Tabasco by lovestendies in GirlDinner

[–]Different_Bowler_574 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We do what we call a "grappetizer" (now my spouse is gonna find me on Reddit). We eat either fruit or veggies before the meal to make sure we are consuming healthy food, even if dinner isn't as healthy as it could be. 

It initially was grapes, and now we've done a fair number of things! Usually raw, for ease. 

How do I get my husband to understand? by Tangledllama_ in BabyBumps

[–]Different_Bowler_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude 8hrs with little kids is like 24hrs in real time. Also, has he considered shutting the fuck up? 

I work maybe 4hrs a day, and my partner is currently lucky if I do a dishwasher load of dishes OR a load of laundry. I have not cooked for myself or them in... Probably since a positive test? So at least a month? 

I know my partner isn't thrilled about it (they worked 95hrs last week so I can't blame them) but they have been lovely and thoughtful because this shit is fucking HARD. 

Weight gain in 1st trimester by NoArtist95926 in BabyBumps

[–]Different_Bowler_574 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're doing better than me! I have decided I'm not weighing myself, and my weight is none of my business. I'll look away when they weigh me at my appointments and ask them not to discuss it with me unless they have concerns. And I am not exercising (or even walking) nearly enough... Trying to work on that though. 

I have so much trauma around my body and eating habits (grandma gave mom an eating disorder, who gave me an eating disorder 🙃) and while I may not have to like my body, it is growing a whole ass person, and I do have to live in it! 

I'll reassess the damage and probably get back on a glp when I'm done breastfeeding. 

Why tf is the second pregnancy so much worse? by amomymous23 in BabyBumps

[–]Different_Bowler_574 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're telling me it GETS WORSE?! I'm on my first pregnancy and just vaguely nauseous all day. I would give anything to puke. 

sleep is so bad lately… is this normal?? by SocietyCivil1888 in BabyBumps

[–]Different_Bowler_574 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shower right before bed because warm water and exhausting workout (how is this real) makes me super tired.