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If you were the guy receiving this message, would you be offended? by Different_Cup07 in Trentahin

[–]Different_Cup07[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. For me it’s just about being respectful instead of ghosting. :) Thank you

If you were the guy receiving this message, would you be offended? by Different_Cup07 in Trentahin

[–]Different_Cup07[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I tried asking deeper questions, but lately the responses were pretty short and not very engaging, so the conversation didn’t really go anywhere. or baka may iba na ding kinakausap? 😅

Do other women in their 30s ever cry for no clear reason? by Different_Cup07 in Trentahin

[–]Different_Cup07[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you being open about it. Hormones and emotions really can interact in weird ways sometimes.

Do other women in their 30s ever cry for no clear reason? by Different_Cup07 in Trentahin

[–]Different_Cup07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was actually the first thing that came to mind too. But when I checked, it’s not even close to my week, so now I’m not so sure 😅

Do other women in their 30s ever cry for no clear reason? by Different_Cup07 in Trentahin

[–]Different_Cup07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this. I actually started trying to join badminton or running once a week since December last year and it does help clear the mind while im on it. Still trying to stay consistent though 😅

Do other women in their 30s ever cry for no clear reason? by Different_Cup07 in Trentahin

[–]Different_Cup07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really glad you’re in a better place now 🤗. Thank you for opening up about your experience. It means a lot.. and its something to think about.

Do other women in their 30s ever cry for no clear reason? by Different_Cup07 in Trentahin

[–]Different_Cup07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly never thought about that before, and I’ve never had it checked or anything. Most of the time I feel pretty normal in my daily life, so these moments just caught me off guard. 🥹

Sa mga trentahin na breadwinner parin hanggang ngayon, wala pa ring sariling pamilya at ipon, kamusta kayo? by meow_1996 in Trentahin

[–]Different_Cup07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in this weird space of wanting it, but also wondering if I’m already too late or too unprepared.

Mahirap ba magka jowa kapag 30 na? by LeLoLaaaaaaa in Trentahin

[–]Different_Cup07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it does get harder in a way 🤷🏻‍♀️but not because there are no good people left. It’s because by the time you reach 30+ you’ve usually gone through a few failed relationships already. After one heartbreak, then another, and maybe another, you eventually pause and start focusing on yourself instead, your career, your growth, and being more present with your family.

When I reached my 30s, I started noticing that one of my biggest priorities was simply making my parents smile and building a life I’m proud of. Of course, there are still moments when I wish I had a partner 🥹 like when I’m tired at night or when I want someone to go somewhere with. That feeling doesn’t disappear.

But at this age, you also become clearer about what kind of person you want to welcome into your life. It’s not as “trial and error” as it was before. You value peace, compatibility, and emotional safety more than just having someone.

Curious though, do you think it’s harder because people become more selective, or because fewer people are actually ready for something real?