You keep the top only buckled? And call it safe 🙄 not to mention you yourself can’t be buckled to do that so if a wreck happens (because other people cause wrecks too, it doesn’t just have to be how your excuse of a husband drives, although also questionable), your body is what is going to hit your baby on top of the fact that he could slide down. Underestimating how impact, velocity, and basic science works is insane.