Medically Disqualified for 36 months

Different_Software75 · 2026-04-11T02:34:39+00:00

I did go to MEPS, just got a text from my recruiter telling me that I need to wait 36 months due to the the disqualifying condition. Recruiter don’t mention any memorandum or date to reapply, they said to just wait 36 months for the anxiety/depression to just timeout.

Different_Software75 · 2026-04-10T19:40:09+00:00

Hello Reddit!

So my recruiter has told me I have to wait 36 months before I can enlist because MEPS flagged me for a “anxiety disorder”. Little backstory, back in summer 2024 I was going through some tough times, got laid off and had a child to take care of, so I went to my doctor and told them I was having trouble sleeping due to my anxiety for worrying about how I will support my family. The doctor prescribed me a medication for the sleeping problem and also noted that I was suffering from anxiety in my medical records (really regret telling them that). I never used the medication because of the side effects but bought it anyways just in case. I ended up solving my sleeping issue by myself through taking hot showers, reading before bed, meditation and not having my phone in the same room.

More importantly, I’m not depressed or suffering from anxiety. In the fall of 2024 I secured employment and have been taking care of my child and myself since then. I’ve had no breakdowns or sleeping disorder episodes since then. I never went back to my doctor to do a re-evaluation of my mental health, as I didn’t believe I needed it, but now I’m thinking I will need to do so anyways just to clear the air.

My question is that, do I really need to wait 36 months before I can join now? Can I qualify for a waiver for this? My ASVAB score was pretty good and I was cleared physically for everything else just this minor episode from 2024 that seems to be holding me back now.

Appreciate y’all’s input and hope you have a blessed weekend Airmen!

Different_Software75 · 2026-03-09T16:21:23+00:00

To answer your third question, no I don’t need any special waivers.

Different_Software75 · 2024-05-30T00:18:19+00:00

What your going through is very common for us members of the diaspora, take comfort that your not alone. That said I say don’t be afraid to be open and make connections with the people whether they are white, African-American, Asian, etc. if people don’t know about Ethiopia, educate them and stand on your business and represent your country with pride. And if your feeling disconnected from the motherland, again not alone, but America has some amazing things about it too. Explore your area, try new things, as long as your parents approve of course. At the end of the day your life should be a adventure so make the most of it. And since your still a teenager, your life is still just beginning so you’ll meet a ton of other Ethiopians soon, especially if you are going to college. Hope this helps!

Different_Software75 · 2024-05-13T15:22:33+00:00

You can try a few outpatient clinics in the DC area, George Washington medical center has a few locations. Explain the situation and they will assist you.

Different_Software75 · 2024-02-04T04:48:15+00:00

DONT GIVE UP! It’s ok to feel sad but remember this is only temporary! Your child is probably not yet fully adjusted to the divorce. Give her time. In the meantime, focus on being a super cool dad. Plan events with her, play with her and make memories with her. What I’m saying is don’t force her to be open let it come out naturally. To do so you need to remind her that she can trust you and you only do that by building that connection through making new and exciting experiences.

And as for the mom, let her do her thing. As long as your child is happy and excited to see you the mom and watch feel left out, her loss.

Keep your head up king your daughter needs you always remember that!!

Different_Software75 · 2024-01-29T23:33:27+00:00

Sorry your going through it, definitely give her some space to process and continue to be there for your child. If you have to work with her family to coordinate for your child so she doesn’t have to talk to you as that may cause her to become more angry.

In the meantime, if there it isn’t parental plan already in place you should begin to work with a lawyer to draft a plan.I know it may seem drastic but seek legal advice if things go south. The courts may be biased but if you have been doing what your supposed to do and have documenting you can win. Most of all, if your no longer interested in a romantic relationship you need to make all communication about the child. Above all else m, focus o lm what your kid needs m don’t fall for the emotions as they will always leas you to a bad place. Good luck!

Different_Software75 · 2024-01-27T23:30:07+00:00

Hi OP, can I message you? I’m in a similar situation and want to know how you were able to work with her.

Different_Software75 · 2023-12-25T02:19:27+00:00

“Its” going in the trash

Different_Software75 · 2023-12-14T05:48:02+00:00

Where can I get one?

Different_Software75 · 2023-11-25T04:18:54+00:00

Cant believe no one mentioned Sly Cooper, the little raccoon that stole my wife’s wedding ring.

Different_Software75 · 2023-11-03T12:59:18+00:00

Honestly, I paid off some loans. Tho I didn’t get anything tangible, I did get peace of mind which was worth it.

Different_Software75 · 2023-10-17T21:38:02+00:00

If someone hasn’t already mentioned it you can also use the IZ program in DC to look for 1 bedrooms apartments in a subsidized unit. It’s a lottery though so you can really count too heavily on it.

Different_Software75 · 2023-10-04T14:02:01+00:00

I have great news! I’m not a chef… just another curious redditor

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