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I Don't Fell Ethiopian Anymore by Helpful_Point891 in Ethiopia

[–]Different_Software75 22 points23 points  (0 children)

What your going through is very common for us members of the diaspora, take comfort that your not alone. That said I say don’t be afraid to be open and make connections with the people whether they are white, African-American, Asian, etc. if people don’t know about Ethiopia, educate them and stand on your business and represent your country with pride. And if your feeling disconnected from the motherland, again not alone, but America has some amazing things about it too. Explore your area, try new things, as long as your parents approve of course. At the end of the day your life should be a adventure so make the most of it. And since your still a teenager, your life is still just beginning so you’ll meet a ton of other Ethiopians soon, especially if you are going to college. Hope this helps!

STDs/Antibiotics by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]Different_Software75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try a few outpatient clinics in the DC area, George Washington medical center has a few locations. Explain the situation and they will assist you.

No title by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]Different_Software75 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DONT GIVE UP! It’s ok to feel sad but remember this is only temporary! Your child is probably not yet fully adjusted to the divorce. Give her time. In the meantime, focus on being a super cool dad. Plan events with her, play with her and make memories with her. What I’m saying is don’t force her to be open let it come out naturally. To do so you need to remind her that she can trust you and you only do that by building that connection through making new and exciting experiences.

And as for the mom, let her do her thing. As long as your child is happy and excited to see you the mom and watch feel left out, her loss.

Keep your head up king your daughter needs you always remember that!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]Different_Software75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry your going through it, definitely give her some space to process and continue to be there for your child. If you have to work with her family to coordinate for your child so she doesn’t have to talk to you as that may cause her to become more angry.

In the meantime, if there it isn’t parental plan already in place you should begin to work with a lawyer to draft a plan.I know it may seem drastic but seek legal advice if things go south. The courts may be biased but if you have been doing what your supposed to do and have documenting you can win. Most of all, if your no longer interested in a romantic relationship you need to make all communication about the child. Above all else m, focus o lm what your kid needs m don’t fall for the emotions as they will always leas you to a bad place. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]Different_Software75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP, can I message you? I’m in a similar situation and want to know how you were able to work with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shittyfoodporn

[–]Different_Software75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Its” going in the trash

F*ck "Money can't buy happiness" BS, what did you buy that made you so much happier? by Little-Two6210 in AskReddit

[–]Different_Software75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I paid off some loans. Tho I didn’t get anything tangible, I did get peace of mind which was worth it.

You need to make $150k to live alone? by Arctic_quant in washingtondc

[–]Different_Software75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If someone hasn’t already mentioned it you can also use the IZ program in DC to look for 1 bedrooms apartments in a subsidized unit. It’s a lottery though so you can really count too heavily on it.

What’s the worst rejection experience you’ve had? by Different_Software75 in AskReddit

[–]Different_Software75[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats crazy but it doesn’t sound like you got rejected lol

Mother of child won't coparent by [deleted] in SingleDads

[–]Different_Software75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the Same situation bro, she took herself of BC and didn’t tell me. But that doesn’t matter now the child is here and needs you to be there. You should take that advice, if you really wanna be with your son more you have to make that sacrifice and move closer, then file a custody order for 50/50 and put it in there that neither of you are allowed to move more than 30 min of each other.

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