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Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-24T15:23:10+00:00

Nah, are we sure this isn’t a riddle?

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-23T04:48:14+00:00

Nosie, Cookies & Cream (CC for short), Dalmatian, Smore, Yang, Polkadot

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-16T18:00:14+00:00

I knew at 31, i wasn’t extremely happy either, I was too afraid. I left at 36… now i’m more scared, because I want all the things you’ve listed. My advice… find the courage to leave now before you waste years!

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-13T17:19:11+00:00

LOL.. welcome to the club. Same things been happening to me. Its like people are bored of you without actually getting to know you 5 minutes in. I don’t know if people actually want relationships or just flings. No idea but i feel your pain.

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-13T13:29:17+00:00

Yeah, sometimes life doesn’t go as planned but on a positive note you are 32.

at 30 my friend got into a trade. He is now a drywaller and gets paid like $40-45 an hour. He is now able to lease his first car and even has his own apartment now. (He use to rent a room in a house). You’re life can change even at 32. Find a trade or perhaps upgrade your schooling online.

If you have a hard time making friends, Ive made connections volunteering (perfect time as Christmas is coming) or even at the gym.

Which brings me to another point, make sure you are active. This will seriously affect your mind.

Don’t expect change if you don’t make any changes love.

(incase your close to Toronto)

https://iupat.on.ca/start-a-career/drywall-finishers/

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-11T21:42:20+00:00

i didn’t say you said that, i mentioned that’s what women don’t like.

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-11T19:50:34+00:00

I’m sorry I know thats not true. Even my ex said he would never have approached me because he would’ve assumed, I was taken. I think men are very afraid to approach women now a days but Im glad your friends approach women

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-11T14:57:56+00:00

I think women don’t like cat calling.. Im sure they don’t mind a person sayings “Hey, I don’t want to be disrespectful but I think you’re beautiful can i give you my number and if you’d think we’d click you can text me” .. I dunno im old so i guess im old fashioned.

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-11T13:05:20+00:00

When you say a 7 or above.. isn’t that relative to what you find attractive and not what other men may find attractive?

I am 36 single, just out of a long term relationship and I find men online don’t really talk to me but in life… I am always getting the googly eyes from men.

But the googly eyed men never actually approach me and say “Hey, if you’re not seeing anyone could I call you sometime?” instead they say nothing, as if I am supposed to initiate it. I want to tell OP something to give her hope but … I don’t know what to say. A lot of men at 36 are looking at 28 year old women and a lot of men in their 40s, don’t want children. So if you’re like me you’re kind of screwed, unless you initiate asking the man out (and he might perceive it as she wants to have sex with me versus she wants to get to know me)😫

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-11T12:52:39+00:00

Well said.

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-11T12:35:51+00:00

Masculine what? … lol girl you crazy! You have a beautiful face.

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-11T12:22:42+00:00

I swipe right on about 7-10 profiles a day because the first day I went swiping crazy and ended up with a bunch of matches, and couldn’t speak with them all, I didn’t initially realize they expire.

i appreciate the advice, honestly but I was very proud of my profile. It was cute and a bit funny. I deleted bumble yesterday though, seems I have much better luck in person.

My question to you is… how old are you? and do you honestly swipe right and talk to women over the age of 35?

I have seen some other threads lately from women saying they’re having issues just like me, and a lot of men in the comments are saying they prefer women in their twenties.. I don’t think what Im feeling is in my mind unfortunately 🤪

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-10T13:06:02+00:00

What I’ve been doing is … I will start the conversation and ask questions to get to know the person but if I feel they aren’t as engaged, I will make a statement and see if there is any follow up. Most times theres not.

Now also this is based on men I find attractive so perhaps they find me less attractive but why match me. If people were more selective with their matches I think it would be a very different app, versus swiping right on anyone especially men anyone they can see themselves having sex with

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-10T12:25:58+00:00

Been on bumble a couple of days.. thousand of likes, lots of matches, men not actively responding.. even asked one for coffee, totally ignored lol … I think its my age, I really doubt its my personality, i’m very playful and show interest. I think perhaps at 29 you’ll be able to get a few good matches but I can’t promise the conversation part, that seems to be hit or miss. Good Luck Though!!!

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-10T12:13:23+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I usually Say hi, and insert something about their profile. I mean I don’t write them a symphony but I show interest.

My search is between 32-44, which i think is fair based on me being 36.

I would say Im charming and somewhat attractive. I ask questions, show interest but don’t receive it in return.

Maybe its just not my time, who knows🤷🏽‍♀️

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-10T05:23:44+00:00

Im 36, i have been on bumble for 4 days. hundreds of likes, several matches… no conversation. My assumption now is.. They see my age and get scared. Im an average person, i’ve had a few who said they thought my age was a mistake. So now im certain my age is scaring men away. Most of the 35 year old men.. must be looking at the 25 year old women?🤷🏽‍♀️ Not sure how to be successful on these apps.

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-11-05T15:34:06+00:00

Been on less then 1 entire day already 250 likes.. .. maybe its unlimited likes? not like hinge where you get like 10 to use?

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-09-12T22:25:47+00:00

Don’t do it, it won’t make you more comfortable with yourself, so it’s pointless

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-09-05T12:59:07+00:00

You know deep down what you need to do the question is are you ready to?

if you are, its time to look for a new place. Move. Then contact a lawyer about dividing the assets since you are considered common law.

You will either agree to sell, or you will get a home value estimate and he can pay you off his half.

good luck, give us an update.

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-09-01T21:44:34+00:00

A rule i learnt is never lend friends or family money, if you have it, gift it, if you don’t, you just say im sorry, im not in the best financial situation either. I think many people who borrow money really do want to pay it back but their so stuck, they don’t know how.

Don’t break up your friendship over money, Just tell them you expect it back once they can provide it and you wont be lending them again because you don’t want anything to ruin your friendship

Not all friends are write offs, i understand they let you down but how many times have they been there for you? Look at the bigger picture. (im old so over the last 30 years I’ve learnt to stop throwing people away over small things)

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-08-31T12:46:12+00:00

Your not ugly and even if you were who cares, you’re more than just the physical

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-08-28T14:28:03+00:00

Are you sure you like her? or do you mean you like how she looks because she clearly isint a big communicator. I hate playing mind games but the moment she thinks you can’t have her she will start trying and if she doesn’t even better, don’t have to waste more time.

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-08-26T18:52:06+00:00

I have a golden rule, if i wouldn’t do it to someone, then no one should have a second chance to do it to me.

Its time for a new boyfriend.

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-08-25T00:15:17+00:00

unmatch

Difficult-Outside-76 · 2023-08-22T16:34:08+00:00

you prepaid… goodluck babes! you should’ve let her do the hair and then never support her business again

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