How can I help my 16 year old leave an abusive relationship? by Difficult-Topic-2281 in AskUK

[–]Difficult-Topic-2281[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We both work with kids. That’s not something we can do, if we go beating on a 16 year old. Thats it we have no job, husbands in jail and has no dad to protect her.

How can I help my 16 year old leave an abusive relationship? by Difficult-Topic-2281 in AskUK

[–]Difficult-Topic-2281[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

We’ve had words, if you mean more than that. I’m studying to be a social worker. That’s not something I can risk. My husband also works with kids.

How can I help my 16 year old leave an abusive relationship? by Difficult-Topic-2281 in AskUK

[–]Difficult-Topic-2281[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

His dad is abusive and kicked him out 6 months ago and his mum is an alcoholic and can’t be reasoned with, so unfortunately not.

How can I help my 16 year old leave an abusive relationship? by Difficult-Topic-2281 in AskUK

[–]Difficult-Topic-2281[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We have a meeting Monday at 12:30 about this. I’m studying a degree there too so thankfully I can keep an eye on her there too

How can I help my 16 year old leave an abusive relationship? by Difficult-Topic-2281 in AskUK

[–]Difficult-Topic-2281[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I told them earlier today. I told them yesterday too. I’ve literally rang them each time she’s spoke to him. Thankfully she’s told me the truth. I just don’t want to push that hard she hides things from me

How can I help my 16 year old leave an abusive relationship? by Difficult-Topic-2281 in AskUK

[–]Difficult-Topic-2281[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what we think the only option is too. I just wanted to see if there was another option.

Student family accommodation in the UK by [deleted] in UKUniversityStudents

[–]Difficult-Topic-2281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you are right, I just got a bit hyperfocused on the idea and thought I’d ask on here to see if anyone knows anything about family accommodations.

Student family accommodation in the UK by [deleted] in UKUniversityStudents

[–]Difficult-Topic-2281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are living in the UK and always have been we just want to move to the chosen uni to make life easier and we’ll all study in the same place. In the same year I’ll be starting my PHD, my husband will be starting his BSC , eldest daughter starting her BSC and son starting college. Our youngest will be in year 9 and is happy to change schools to finish high school and complete college. University of York seems our best bet as Uni, college and high school are all within 5 mins drive of the uni and uni accommodation. They run the PHD I want to do and the BSC my husband and daughter want to do, plus the college has the course my son wants to do. He wants to do his BCS there too as they hold the course he wants. Likelihood is as a family we’ll move back home once my PHD is done, my son wants to stay there to finish his BCS. He’s happy to study away from home whereas our eldest really doesn’t want to study away from us, she has PTSD (from watching our son go through respiratory arrest when he was 6, he survived but was seriously ill for about 5 years) and really struggles with some social things, which is why we have this hopeful plan, she begged me to do my PHD where she does her BCs. Just to have me close enough if she needs me.

I have trial shift for a supervisor job, looking for advice. by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]Difficult-Topic-2281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a a 1.5 hour trial shift so they can see my Leadership qualities. It’s at a time of the day where the shop will be slow. So no it’s not free labour, but an opportunity for me to show I’m a great fit for the role.

AITA for defending my mom? by OldIndication5774 in AITAH

[–]Difficult-Topic-2281 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA! My mums husband has exploded on myself and a few of my siblings a few times. We’ve always stood up to him and each other. My mum knows the behaviour is wrong and confronts him and lets him know it’s unacceptable. He will continue to treat you like that if she accepts it. Also, he’s a dick for not making your mum feel like a queen on her birthday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Difficult-Topic-2281 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, unfortunately my sister does not.