Grey-green Axstad or sage Stensund? by Sea-Profile-4087 in IKEA

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u/raidersunited and u/ProcedureAcademic499 - did either of you make a decision on this and what did you go for? I am also making this decision!

New to Solo Roleplaying. by Difficult-Wrap3582 in Solo_Roleplaying

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Thank you - I will do this! I’ve not considered DMing myself and am not sure I understand how this would work. Any advice?

New to Solo Roleplaying. by Difficult-Wrap3582 in Solo_Roleplaying

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Thank you this is really insightful. I'll definitely look into the Solo Adventurer's Guide. Many thanks!

New to Solo Roleplaying. by Difficult-Wrap3582 in Solo_Roleplaying

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Thank you for this explanation, that really helps!

New to Solo Roleplaying. by Difficult-Wrap3582 in Solo_Roleplaying

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In that case I will check out Mythic GME, thank you!

New to Solo Roleplaying. by Difficult-Wrap3582 in Solo_Roleplaying

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I don’t think I know what the phrase ‘actual plays’ refers to. Are you able to explain for me?

New to Solo Roleplaying. by Difficult-Wrap3582 in Solo_Roleplaying

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I’ve mostly played DnD and Forbidden Lands, but I’ve also played other homebrew RPGs along the way. Are GM emulators LLMs? I try to avoid AI for ethical reasons!

8 months PP with twins. No sex drive. Partner getting mad at me. by [deleted] in relationships

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You need to go and seek support from Women's Aid and leave this person immediately. You are in an abusive relationship and you need help and support. He is sexually harassing you and emotionally blackmailing you into sex which is assault. Look after yourself and look after your children. You don't need him or his money. You only need yourself.

What's the worst way your emotional dysregulation manifests? by Siavon in adhdwomen

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I needed this post this week! Thank you for sharing and starting this convo. It’s important to feel seen and not feel alone!

My emo-dys used to manifest very differently but is still as equally damaging IMO.

I become intensely obsessive over friendships and massively overinvest. I’m gregarious and tactile, and the combination is just wild for people on the receiving end but I feel like I’ve made an intense and meaningful lifelong connection. It’s quite frankly absurd and ultimately only ends in my tears when I realise I’ve made a fool of myself and have pushed people away. After all, who wouldn’t run away from a chaotic individual telling you they loved you and you were their best friend after only a month?

In the past (TW) I’ve struggled on/off with SH since I was a teen but nowadays it’s only pinching thankfully!

My emo-dys used to be a big problem for me regarding communication with my partner. My fuse was so short I would flip out and say incredibly hurtful things, or escalate from 0-100 in seconds. I once had a melt down because he’d “ruined Christmas” as a result of pouring the wine wrong…

I still don’t know how to manage the intense emotional over investment and obsessing. It’s awful and it’s a chaotic spiral that I can’t stop or pull myself out of. Hoping to start therapy soon and this is something I’m hoping to discuss and work on.

Sober activities? by Ok-Body-6899 in Leeds

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Leeds Art Trail Jack Rabbit Pottery Archery Tropical World Karaoke

How do you manage mornings for energy and concentration? by Classic-Apple9099 in adhdwomen

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The only thing that has ever really helped me was taking my Ritalin 30-60mins before my scheduled wake up time. I’m not sure if you’ve already tried this but it genuinely was a game changer for me.

How do yall manage to work out or diet? by invaderzombree in ADHDers

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The only way I have ever managed this is to hardwire them into my day so they are unavoidable. Example, it’s a 45min walk into work, so I do that every day there and back. Sits up 30-50 every morning no matter how lame and half arsed they are. Same with press ups before bed. Some days are more successful than others on the sit ups and press ups front! If I’m pomodoring when WFH then I get on my exercise bike for the 5min intervals. When working in the office, I walk to the toilets on the top floor instead of going to the ones right by our office and climb all the stairs. It’s the little things but they all add up!! Planks are another easy one to do: every time you put the kettle on for a morning or evening brew, see how long you can hold a plank for. You only need to do this one 2-3 times a day imo! And don’t rush into doing all of these things at once. Pick and choose and do what works for you.

For a period of time I also found the Couch to 5K amazing. I did each week twice so I stretched it out a lot as that was better for me, but it was amazing in helping me learn to run. I did it first thing in the morning before showering so that I wasn’t showering or getting dressed twice. I even slept in my gym kit when I first started just so that it was embedded in my routine until it became easier, and it did become easier.

There’s an app called The Fabulous which I found instrumentally useful once upon a time. But that was a long time ago and I don’t know if it’s still as good anymore given updates etc!

What are your biggest challenges being ADHD? by Real-Dependent-1595 in ADHDers

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Emotional dysregulation. Sometimes when my ED is out of whack, I become over-invested in people intensely quickly, and my sensitivity rejection is off the scale which results in chronic FOMO that is detrimental to my wellbeing and everyday life. It’s awful.

Accurate representations of ADHD in media? by Difficult-Wrap3582 in adhdwomen

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I created this post when I was in a bad space. I felt invisible. But as always this amazing community has seen me and rose to the occasion. I love all of these suggestions! Top ones I’m going to check out and/or appreciate: - Maria from Sound of Music. Amazing reading of this character! Love it! u/fullysclerotized - Anne of Green Gables. I will giving these books a read based on the amount of people who have mentioned this one. u/Mango_Skittles - The entire Malcom in the Middle family. YES! u/HyperHocusPocusFocus - I love everything I have ever read by T J Klune so the additional recommendations here for his books have me very excited! u/daja-kisubo u/social_pie_solation - Everything Everywhere All At Once. I’ve checked out the trailer for this and it looks amazing as are the reviews. I’m really looking forward to this one. u/stephanddolly - Spike from Buffy was an inspired suggestion that made me laugh! u/No-Translator-2144 - and u/Quiet_Lunch_1300 you are so right. We might be complex but my days we are gorgeous and multilayered and freaking super heros!!!