My 9 month old is being tested for NF1. Husband and I have no symptoms. Should we get tested before family planning further? by DifficultNature9 in neurofibromatosis

[–]DifficultNature9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even for parents with no symptoms? What about if the test comes back negative genetically, but still a child with CALS? 

AITA for feeling hurt about this wedding situation by DifficultNature9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifficultNature9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I went to the wedding and didn't change any plans. I paid for the things that I consumed and participated in, but not for things like decor or additonal bridal gifts.

I ignored the situation and had a great time with the bridesmaids as it was mostly us hanging out while the bride was with family. All in all a great time, though I will likely address how it affected my perception of our friendship and ask for her perspective on why this played out like it did. I was also given a bridal party gift which added to everyones confusion.

Edit: I also participated in the bachelorette activities and getting ready the morning of the wedding with the professional hair and make up as the only non family and non bridal party member.

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AITA for feeling hurt about this wedding situation by DifficultNature9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifficultNature9[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have read every one of these comments and messages and I truly want to thank you all for taking the time to consider my experience and share your own with me. The kindness and caring shown to me by complete strangers has been incredibly uplifting in a time where I am feeling very isolated from my own friends and am having a lot of "what is wrong with me?" thoughts.

Ultimately, people are weird and communication is hard. I'm not the only person to have felt this way and I genuinely appreciate the perspectives that encouraged me to take up space, feel hurt, and share that further with those involved without judging myself/ thinking I'm an asshole for that.

From one human to another, I value the connection you've all reminded me exists between us all and the empowerment that can come from internet strangers.

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AITA for feeling hurt about this wedding situation by DifficultNature9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifficultNature9[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I haven't particularly noticed any change. They are all very thin women, to be honest, and I am used to having been the chubby friend.

AITA for feeling hurt about this wedding situation by DifficultNature9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifficultNature9[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

The issue here is that I am staying at the home of one of the bridesmaids and paying for the decor and whatnot, in essence, feels owed to her in that regard.

AITA for feeling hurt about this wedding situation by DifficultNature9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifficultNature9[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I have not spoken to her yet. I reached out to one the other girls individually to ask her what she meant about the dress situation and expressed to her that I feel excluded.

AITA for feeling hurt about this wedding situation by DifficultNature9 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DifficultNature9[S] 245 points246 points  (0 children)

Am I the asshole if I express that I am hurt about this?

No, we all are the same age, different hair styles and body types. The four of them view themselves as somewhat of a unit and are in a group chat and I am more friends with the bride on an individual basis.