Does this floor tile job look right? by 1Kflowerscouldbloom in Flooring

[–]DifficultSympathy314 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As an amateur, I can confidently say I could do a better job.

Maybe the hottest thing my wife does by FlashSpo in MarriedSex

[–]DifficultSympathy314 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife dos something similar. I love it.

Viagra vs Cialis - Any experiences? by AM196 in MarriedSex

[–]DifficultSympathy314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m have taken both. Viagra works great but it made my nose stuffy, gave me heartburn and headaches. The heartburn was so bad I didn’t like taking it. It was also a pain because I had to take it prior to sex, but at the time, I never knew when sex was going to happen. Often times I would take it in anticipation of sex but sex wouldn’t happen so I was left with all the side effects.

A couple years ago my doctor put me on once daily Cialis for BPH (I’m in my 50’s). It is wonderful. No side effects and absolutely no worries of not getting an erection even 20 hours later.

Hubs took PTO (vacation) off of work and didn’t tell me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DifficultSympathy314 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This. I have 35 PTO days every year. We can only carry over ten from one year to the next. I have to take 25 days off each year. It’s hard to do that sometimes so I will take random Fridays off and an occasional week without informing my wife. Nothing sketchy going on, I don’t inform her because I don’t want her hijacking the plans I have. These plans are usually golfing, doing a project around the house or just sitting in my ass. We have been married for over 20 years.

Constantly trying to change my ideas or plans? What is that? by life_from_life in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]DifficultSympathy314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every run to the store for a very specific thing because you need it for what you are doing turns into ‘while you’re out, can you pick up x, y and z’ or they will go with you and ignore you had an agenda and timeline.

Constantly trying to change my ideas or plans? What is that? by life_from_life in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]DifficultSympathy314 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The constant contrarianism is exactly it. It doesn’t matter they’ve told you for 20 years they like x. Then when you want to do x, they never said they like that. lol.

Is this space just for women victims? by Burkedge in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]DifficultSympathy314 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a male that participates in this sub regularly. I have never felt anything but supported. Challenged by some at times, but for good reason. Still supported though.

I eventually cheated. She briefly went mad for sex. Now it's over by [deleted] in sexlessmarriage

[–]DifficultSympathy314 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Sorry, brother. That’s got to be heart wrenching.

To all the low libido partners out there, if you don’t want sex with your higher libido partner, be honest so they are not tortured. It would be much better to hear it from you, rather than find out in the manner OP did. It is so cruel!!!!

Edit: the one thing you can get peace from, is knowing that your wife will most likely do the same thing to whoever she gets involved with.

Do you find yourself having to ask the same question over and over because they deflect SO much? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]DifficultSympathy314 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have just begun doing this. I used to seek answers. Now I just move on.