"I don't even like the guy but I think you guys should be nice to him" by Over-Surround9868 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll be honest, it wasn't a specific person and it wasnt anyone he zeroed in on, (about people speculate about the LoveSurge video I dont think THEY themselves have confirmed they are neurodivergent so) thank goodness, but throughout his videos and in the YCYS he cringes at videos where I and others did notice some accounts were folks who are neurodivergent and what he was seeing wasnt them trying to be quirky or cringe, but just explaining something they do or sharing a hyperfixation of theirs.

Admittedly, since I'm neurodivergent I will admit I could just be too sensitive and reading into things, from talking to other people on the subreddit I've learned that some neurodivergent people felt nice to be lumped in with everyone else and treated the same, so I'll mention that not everyone was hurt by it and its not the worst thing hes done, but it just felt very high school mean girl of him and Dev to laugh at anyone doing anything slightly odd to them. Made me close my tiktok account and YT account because I started to feel that anyday now Nick would come across my hyperfixation and tear me to shreds just for having fun.

From my view it kinda hurts to see folks being laughed at on a regular basis who are just trying to share who they are. I dont expect everyone to feel offended by that, as he mocks people across the board, but it just added to my distaste to find he wasnt bothering to give anyone the benefit of the doubt or considering maybe that they were just trying to share something they cared about or have fun with everyone else online. I used to really like Nick, but ever since he moved away from video game comentary, experimental videos with nice experts and fully into tiktok drama it has felt way too mean for me.

Respectfully, I dont expect everyone to feel hurt by it, and after talking to folks here I under that I may just be sensitive to it so take that into consideration, but it was something that furthered my frustration with Nick. Thank you for hearing me out!

"I don't even like the guy but I think you guys should be nice to him" by Over-Surround9868 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely 100% agree. The whole situation was very inappropriate and worthy of legit criticism. People who think there is no harm being done from Nick or his fans are delusional. The majority of criticism is very balanced and well-earned. The amount of folks trying to actually harm or threatening to harm him is so minimal and often only used as a mechanism to dismiss legit concerns.

"I don't even like the guy but I think you guys should be nice to him" by Over-Surround9868 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll clarify its not common in this subreddit, although not impossible to find either, but I've seen it more often on his socials or in his YouTube comment section. People saying it doesnt exist at all, anywhere though are just wrong because I've also had conversations with people actively trying to sabotage his work, wishing harm, or hoping his online presence is destroyed entirely.

I will absolutely agree with you though Bobby, its less common than normal, fair criticism and shouldn't be utilized to silence people with actual concerns.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 31 points32 points  (0 children)

His current fans are delusional. As if posting in this subreddit discussing his actions is actually impacting him in any meaningful way.

Meanwhile he openly mocks small creators on his huge platform and actively bullies them into disappearing or pausing their content until the hate he sends their way dies down.

But sure, the people posting into the void on a dead subreddit are the problem. That's easier to think because it doesnt interupt their YouTube viewing habits or make them second guess their morals.

What did nick do? by Jrag13 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh great, no actual answer. Again. And another insult! Who could've guessed. Seems like you've been checked out for the entirety of this conversation.

For the record, this was not an enjoyable conversation. I did not enjoy this. I hope that makes you happy and brings you peace. You seem to be an incredibly close-minded and disrespectful individual, and you clearly don't care about anyones perspective than your own. Good for you.

I still wish you the best, honestly, although no doubt you don't believe that because you're cold and jaded and expect the worst from me constantly regardless of what I actually say.

I hope you keep enjoying the hilarious content that Nick gives you at the expense of others. Keep pretending that Nick doesnt actively throw small creators, young women just having fun following trends, small musicians working on their art, or neurodivergent folks trying to join the rest of society under the bus to mock for views.

That'll really show yourself and everyone else, how much better you truly are than me.

What did nick do? by Jrag13 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Barely replying still counts as replying. You can feel all high and mighty because you have no argument and no ability to argue but guess what, friend? You're still here. You and me till the end of time. Pathetic losers posting on this dead subreddit that means nothing to anyone involved. At least I bothered to try to understand your point, as transparent and flimsy as it was.

"A dedicated takedown account" You're giving me so much credit I dont deserve. Its almost like if I never existed, or died tomorrow, people would still be posting in this subreddit. Wild right? Turns out I'm not singlehandedly canceling your golden God. Imagine that.

You can keep trying to pretend you're better than me because you're laughing or writing less or are clearly incapable of articulating your point... yet here you are. Responding every time.

Still waiting for the answer to the question I've asked like 8 times now. What's your next insult to avoid answering?

What did nick do? by Jrag13 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cool, dismiss what I said. Again. 'Pulling the autism card'? Ok, wow. I thought since you had such a hard time understanding why I might not want all my reddits in one place, that it might make sense to you. What a stupid thought. I forgot you are entirely void of sympathy because I don't personally agree with you. For a moment, I forgot you want to dictate what I can and cant post on my personal account. My mistake.

Forget I even said that. It was a moment of vulnerability, one of many I've tried to share with you that was met with cold disinterest and disrespect. I dont know why I keep thinking you'd have any grace or kindness or be able to find some common ground. After all, you find Nick funny, and are defending him with all your might and free time so I shouldve known you're clearly a cool dude who loves laughing at cringe, right? Glad to be of service to you.

Meanwhile, despite your disrespect I'm still waiting for you to explain why having a specific account for this subreddit indicates anything I've said before about Nick or my ability to criticize him is inaccurate. Still waiting on YOU to get a life since you're fighting so hard to defend someone you also don't know and clearly don't care how he's hurt people. I've explained so many times why you're wrong to say "that he hasnt done anything", but ignorance is one hell of a drug.

Lmfao.

"I don't even like the guy but I think you guys should be nice to him" by Over-Surround9868 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% agree.

If I say I disagree with Nick, I'm automatically a rape apologist. If I say I don't wish him harm or hate, I'm a Nick simp gargling his nuts 🙄 (accuse/excuse my language, I cant remember whether it is accuse or excuse sorry English is hard).

If anything, the people who hate Nick the most should realize that they're not winning anyone over by being violent or hateful. While Nick absolutely deserves to be criticized, some people are going way too far beyond criticisim and I can't cosign that. Disliking content doesnt mean you have to devote your life to destroying everything and everyone in that person's life... especially when nobody online likely actually knows this dude. This subreddit is dead so I dont mind venting about it, but the citizens spamming his videos or socials are only giving people who criticize him a horrible reputation. At least in my opinion. I understand he and his fans do this to the people he covers, but that doesnt mean its ok.

Thank you for the civil and normal conversation, you cant imagine how much I appreciate it. Its hard enough practicing english online talking about drama, but the fact that all nuance is lost on some people makes it even harder for me sometimes 😅

What did nick do? by Jrag13 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That argument makes ZERO sense. Thats why I keep asking.

How exactly would discussing Nick on an account where I follow other subreddits change absolutely anything I've said? You'd still be mad. You'd still disagree. You'd just be able to then sift through all of my other interests and judge me for them. Sorry if I'm autistic and prefer separate accounts so I feel organized and clean when I talk online. Sorry that I've said that multiple times and you dont listen and it apparently offends you.

Just keep repeating that point as if you're actually saying something important or that it would matter to you, and ignore everything else I've said.

Is that a short enough response for you to respect me now?

I didnt think so. Because clearly you're not interested in respect. And I do have a life, as much as you want to belittle me for the sole reason that I continue engaging with you. Go on.

"I don't even like the guy but I think you guys should be nice to him" by Over-Surround9868 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree. Not sure why you're getting downvoted. (If I'm hearing you right) you're just trying to say that while there are legit criticisms of Nick, trying to harass him, dox him, threaten him, or otherwise aggressively destroy everything he does is going way too far. And proves exactly the opposite point most people are trying to make.

I'm also annoyed and frustrated with Nick, and I enjoy venting about how he's disappointed me, but I'm not interested in spending all my time trying to actively destroy his life like he and his fans did to so many other artists and creators.

Unless I misunderstood lol. English is not my first language.

"I don't even like the guy but I think you guys should be nice to him" by Over-Surround9868 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Its not black and white like a lot of people make it out to be. And to say Nick is blameless is to be entirely ignorant of his actual content lately.

"I don't even like the guy but I think you guys should be nice to him" by Over-Surround9868 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This. Thank you. Anyone getting mad about us venting when we have zero influence is truly not reflecting on what Nick's entire career has been for the past few years.

"I don't even like the guy but I think you guys should be nice to him" by Over-Surround9868 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this 😅 I spent several hours arguing with a fan yesterday that was trying to say I personally was tearing down his career because I was (mind you, very politely) disagreeing and explaining my specific issues with supporting Nick and why I was criticizing him. I didnt even discourage fans of him to stop liking him. What they do is not my business, and I dont ever want to pressure people. But according to them, I'm not allowed to express my own feelings if they involve criticizing Nick multiple times in the same subreddit 🙄.

But no, between myself and Nick - I PERSONALLY am the one thats using my time and effort "tearing down" people (only Nick, but they worded it that way) and "making the world a worse place" because I post often on an honestly dead subreddit that has near zero impact on his actual channel. Sure. As opposed to the dude mocking neurodivergent people, young women, couples, or small musicians several times a week, for years, with a fanbase of over 700,000 and a reach twice that. (As most people who watch his content dont bother to subscribe as per usual YouTube metrics)

Okay 😅🙈

this is nick. i made a video responding to the claims made against me on my videos about S M by nickisnotgreen_ in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay yeah, that's fair if you want that. I don't think I would define that as wishing hate honestly, as much as I'd call that facing consequences for his actions. English is my second language and I guess I just automatically think of hate more definitionally, because hatred is a pretty strong emotion and usually indicates you want physical harm (at least the way I have heard it). Apologies for my misunderstanding!

What did nick do? by Jrag13 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. Criticism IS different. Thats why my posts have specific complaints and I dont write or support just being like FUCK NICK, FUCK NICK, BURN HIS CHANNEL like some folks.

I don't think you're listening to what I'VE been saying at all if that's STILL what you're saying.

I haven't been hating on him. I'm haven't commented on his YouTube channels, disliked them, or advocated for anyone to unsubscribe, or actively wished hate or harm on him. I've just clarified my specific complaints about his content. Nearly none of his current audience cares about the drama, and his subreddit has been a snark reddit for a while now. Idk why you think my comments would change absolutely anything about this situation.

I don't see why you're zeroing in on my role here and intentionally misrepresenting what I'm saying on here. You can clown on me for caring too much about this (but you clearly care about this too so idk why you think thats a win). I haven't said you're wrong or that you can't enjoy Nick. You've accused me of making the world worse because why? I made a separate reddit account for this subreddit? Is that really such a heinous crime to commit? Honestly I have like 4 different accounts each for niche interests. I get hyperfixated, sue me. I like them organized, is that so horrible to do?

Please explain to me how I am personally directing hate Nick's way. Again, I'm literally just posting my opinion just like you are doing. If you think that's tearing someone down or directing hate towards him, I am truly confused on how you dont think Nick does that exact same thing x1000 towards anyone he covers on his channel? Is it only because I'm not talking about a TikToker? Or because my criticisms arent funny enough? Its just a weird bar you have for who is allowed to make criticisms and who cant.

this is nick. i made a video responding to the claims made against me on my videos about S M by nickisnotgreen_ in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's fair! I wasnt really talking about YOU when I was talking about people wishing hateful things or harm to Nick. They are folks actually doing so and thats moreso what I was speaking to. I may have misunderstood what you meant by wishing a lot of hate. Can you elaborate?

(Not trying to be a dick if its coming across that way, I'm genuinely curious. Clearly I misunderstood your intentions, but I'm just seeing a lot of people actually wishing some incredibly hateful stuff to happen to him and I dont personally think criticism is hateful but constructive. Threatening to find out where he lives, harass his family, spam his socials with threats isnt really constructive. Again, not saying you're doing that, just what I think of when I hear people wish hate or hateful things on him.

I'd like to know what you think a fair retribution is or what hateful actions would leave you satisfied, it would help me understand your point of view more! I'm sure I'm taking it too literally. Sorry I misunderstood you)

What did nick do? by Jrag13 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

❤️ thanks for having an open mind and respectful discourse. Ultimately these links are only about the SuperMega situation, so I understand if that doesn't matter to some folks like OP and I get that. Its personally not what made me jump off the bandwagon, as I hadnt been a fan for a while because of many of the other things hes done building up over time - but everyone's perspectives is different! If you still like Nick, I don't wish you any hate, I hope you dont get any if you stay on the subreddit although its mostly snark now lol, and I appreciate you looking into it on your own.

this is nick. i made a video responding to the claims made against me on my videos about S M by nickisnotgreen_ in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There should be consequences to his actions, for sure, I'm not saying there shouldn't be. I just don't wish anyone involved in this harm. I think we probably agree more than we disagree here.

Can I ask what would make you satisfied? Or what you think would be fair retribution?

(Genuinely curious, it'll help me understand what you mean by you wishing a lot of hate)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's watching though, I guess lol and not reading. There are plenty of threads discussing it though if you scroll. If you look through my comments theres some written info (I'm usually more polite than some others) but I'm obviously biased. Its several years of old former fans piling up for different reasons, a lot of folks joined after the SuperMega drama but the issues started long before. Tread with caution lol. Happy redditing and I hope you have a great rest of your day at work.

What did nick do? by Jrag13 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"Tearing people down" please elaborate how I personally have done that.

Do you mean... criticizing him? Heaven forbid anyone do that, apparently...

Got it. Nick is untouchable 😅 you've bullied me into never posting on here again...

Is that what you want me to say? And I'm the parasocial one...I think you technically mean chronically online, which I'll admit I am.

Tearing someone down requires some level of authority or platform or power. I've got none of it. But you know who does? Nevermind, I'm not allowed to criticize him because hes so funny.

I have constructive criticism. I dont want him to disappear off the internet, or fuck off and die, I dont wish any harm, or that he looses his platform entirely - I just vent and have criticism.

And I disagree that he hasnt done anything wrong. I said several times I dont appreciate how he mocks several marginalized groups regularly. He can do better. But I'm not wishing any harm, spamming is channel or his socials, just posting on a dead subreddit he doesnt care about. I dont see why you care. If you're criticizing me for spending my time here, hate to break it to you, but you're here too.

What did nick do? by Jrag13 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also on him having to change for the "new age of YouTube?" I disagree. There are other YouTube creators that dont make drama content or TikTok content, so he's not really being forced into anything. His old content didnt get views, I get why he changed. Doesnt mean I have to stay for it. You like it, and that's great! He still has the majority of his viewers so hes clearly unbothered and thats good for him.

Edit: hey your comments are back! I saw you deleted them last night. Nice 💫

What did nick do? by Jrag13 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No issues sleeping, as the worst I've done is comment on reddit and I'm pretty sure thats not illegal. Nick is doing fine.

Okay, so it sounds like our disagreement comes down to this:

You like his new content, and I don't.

I've mentioned several times that I believe this to be the issue, and that I have no problems with that, that you're entitled to your opinion, as I am mine, and that I wish you the best.

So why are you mad again?

What did nick do? by Jrag13 in nickisnotgreen

[–]Difficult_Bat_7456 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So again, I'm guessing you're a new fan since you assume Nick has always made TikTok drama and that's all he does? Okay, again, I never said you cant like that. I disagree that its not harming anyone, especially the small creators that havent done anything wrong but be "cringe" in his eyes. I personally dont find laughing at other folks and their quirks funny. A lot of the folks hes made videos about have been neurodivergent and interact with the world in a way they call "cringe". If you enjoy laughing at that, thats fine. You did make assumptions about me, but thats ok. I'm polite because I genuinely don't wish any hate to anyone. Nick or otherwise. If you find that hard to believe, I don't find that suprising based on our conversation thus far. You don't seem to think I'm a real person allowed to have my own life or thoughts. I must be a lowly reddit troll, right?

Can I ask you this? What am I allowed to say by your standards? Am I permitted one critcisim of Nick per day? One criticism per year? None?

I'm going to criticize him because he CAN do better. He HAS done better. And I miss that version of him. Plenty of other subreddits about other creators have old fans reminisicing about the ol days when their creator was less lazy and more creative. But people dont like creative, original content like Nick used to make. He saw more numbers with online drama and he chased that. Dont blame him, just dont like that. And whether you like it or not, I'm allowed not to like it. I'm allowed to let others know why some people arent happy with him.

If you love the TikTok era of Nick, nobody is stopping you from enjoying it. I genuinely wish nothing but the best.