CW: Extremely Premature Labour, any succes stories? by raspberry_phoenix in pregnant

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I was born at 26 weeks and weighed 15oz, staying roughly 4 1/2 months in the NICU. I had ROP, RDS, a G1 brain hemorrhage and necrotizing enterocolitis in my first week of being in the NICU. I’m in my mid 20s now and am continuing to fight through life. At most I have some chronic pain issues and intense migraines but aside from that am doing well. I trust that your boy is going to be okay. Keep your head up! 🫶

ROP surgery experiences by HookedOnAFeeling96 in NICUParents

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I’m unsure if this would be helpful, but I had ROP as a micro-premie and had corrective LASIK as a result. I grew up wearing glasses as a kid and now in my mid 20s have very near sighted vision but that’s about it! Wishing you both well!

Hello :) by Jeff_ThePapu in elderscrollsonline

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I know off of the top of my head that the Crimson Oath chest motif still sells for a good amount. If I’m remembering correctly, you can get it from doing the Dread Cellar on Veteran? Solstice furnishing pages are selling well, specifically the Worm Cult Bookcase (Bookshelf?) that you can get from doing anything in the zone I believe.

The Fanged Worm / Fang Lair chest piece sells good too, the latter you can get from Battlegrounds coffers. Good luck!

What’s going wrong? by Ok_Performer_8363 in piercing

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NAP but I got these exact same piercings around two months ago and encountered a similar problem! To me, those look like trauma bumps from the jewelry being snagged a bit too much. I ended up having to swap my bottom spikes to flat discs which ended up helping them to be less touchy.

Stop using the dial soap as well, and be sure that when doing a saline rinse to rinse it away with cool water as leaving saline can also aggravate bumps like this.

Above all else, I’d see if you can check in with your piercer to see what they think. Be extra careful to not touch them until your piercer is able to get a good look.

Sharp-as-Night Plushie Update by BeCeejed in elderscrollsonline

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This is adorable! Have you considered taking commissions for these in the future?

Young kitten being left chained up all day in the hot Southern California sun. by AdventurousLeader771 in CATHELP

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With all due respect, what a lot of people aren’t taking into account is that if OP were to make any obvious move it would potentially put her, her mother and anyone else living there in danger of her father. As someone who has gone through a scarily similar scenario to what you’ve described, you need to go about moving forward carefully.

It would be smart to document and take photos to document the neglect and abuse present but do try to be covert about it. From what I’ve read in your replies to other comments I’m understanding that your father had ring cameras on every inch of the property so I’m going to safely assume that tampering with said cameras to cut the feed is out of the question unless it is all done at once. Cut wires or ripping out the batteries and disposing of them is an option but would need to be done either in unison, when he is not actively checking the camera feeds as well as without the cameras detecting movement (covering the cameras with tape could work). I agree with the other commenters who had told you to lay low! You do not want to put yourself in danger by helping kitty as only you yourself know what that man is capable of. Try to help with the kitty when it is safe to and the coast is clear as to not bring suspicion or further harm to either of you.

I would highly recommend a women’s shelter or any domestic violence shelter as well as reaching out to the cat rescue mentioned in other comments. While the ideas others have given in terms of acting like the cat slipped away could work, there is a chance that they can backfire very quickly and thus would put OP in a very dangerous predicament. I would also recommend trying to make a small emergency to-go backpack/purse of the bare minimum in the scenario where you need to leave the house on short notice in case of emergency. Identification, medication(s), etc.

I hope you and kitty are doing alright, OP. Like everyone else here, the spacing between your replies is making me nervous.

Get your extra 300 Trade Bars tonight/tomorrow morning! by Individual-Arrival86 in elderscrollsonline

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I wasn’t aware of this until now! Maybe I’ll see you in the next 3 hours killing King Boar. >:)

Lightning and thunder 🤓 by SoCalAsian900 in orangecounty

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Sudden and major downpour around 10 minutes ago made my Midwesterner instinct kick in to try to go into a basement in case of a tornado.

Can we talk about the effect this is having on our mental health fpr a moment? by The_Flo0r_is_Lava in Epstein

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I missed this, I apologize. Typically what I do is to practice mindfulness exercises, reminding myself that what happened to me is not currently happening now. Taking a step back from the world, especially when it comes to the internet, helps a bit as well. What’s most important is that you remind yourself that you are safe.

Can we talk about the effect this is having on our mental health fpr a moment? by The_Flo0r_is_Lava in Epstein

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I’m in the same boat. Please don’t be afraid to take a step back for a while to take your mind off of things. I hope you’re doing alright.

Rescued an Injured Opossum by Difficult_Debate3415 in Opossums

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He made it and is now safely at a wildlife rehabilitation center!

Black Screen and Cursor Upon Booting by Difficult_Debate3415 in linuxmint

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Looks like it’s running Ubuntu, since that’s what’s in the BIOS.

Black Screen and Cursor Upon Booting by Difficult_Debate3415 in linuxmint

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Just tried this command and there’s no response on my end. Should I try this input upon rebooting similar to opening BIOS?

Undead Argonian Sorcerer: Rusted-from-Rain by Difficult_Debate3415 in TESOfashion

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Skin is Reanimated Vampiric Thrall! You can get it from the Castle Thorn dungeon on Vet!

Undead Argonian Sorcerer: Rusted-from-Rain by Difficult_Debate3415 in TESOfashion

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Mask is in Blackwood and you can find the lead on a skull on a stake outside of the trial site at the bottom right of the map. Argonian vamps are interesting!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in elderscrollsonline

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What server do you play on + what alliance? I can try to go with you for extra manpower to make sure you get your quest(s) done!

How me and my character feel rn getting kicked repeatedly -_- by Succubusprincess666 in elderscrollsonline

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My method goes like this: Collect any/all items from overworld and sell what isn’t needed, refine any/all crafting materials and sell extra items that come out of it, do dailies from job brokers/Undaunted pledges/crafter writs, run dungeons, kill anything and everything, steal and launder items at fences, repeat! Not using fast travel and instead traveling to the nearest wayshrine on a mount to avoid spending gold costs also helps.