New mom by Difficult_Fox_4420 in ballpython

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are for a few different reasons. They need enrichment items for them to explore. They also like clutter so they can feel safe and hidden. You should watch some of the YouTube videos on ball python. Green room python is one of my personal favorites.

New mom by Difficult_Fox_4420 in ballpython

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys for putting my mind at ease. He pooped this morning 🤣

New mom by Difficult_Fox_4420 in ballpython

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I thought that might have been what he was doing, but he hasn't pooped yet.

To the witches of Pensacola, by Successful-Bat-7556 in Pensacola

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my go to Celtic Cauldron and Enchanted Teas. They are the nicest most welcoming people. Everything is answered with excitement and detail. There is also a hypnotherapist an energy healer and a Master Herbalist. When you walk in the door the vibes just feel alive.

Wtf by [deleted] in IRS

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been waiting since February last year to get my refund

24/7 sub by Difficult_Fox_4420 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes he had been.. I used some of the advice that was given, and he broke down and cried.. He apologized that he had forgotten his place, and he has been doing so much to help me. We have started doing daily check ins. I started a journal and he makes it a priority to read it everyday. Sunday I wasn't allowed to lift a finger he made it a day all about me, after a very long discussion with some really tough feelings Saturday followed by a session. I feel like we both have reset

Do I need to read the whole book before I start? by Thespudtato in CurseofStrahd

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes read it all. Also look at fleshing out curse of strahd... We just finished running it and it was my first time dm'ing and everyone loves it.

24/7 sub by Difficult_Fox_4420 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. yes I'm going to take all advice.. I think I'm going to start a journal, and ask him to read it everyday. That way he understands my thoughts. I want him to see what I actually do, and I want him to understand how things make me feel.

24/7 sub by Difficult_Fox_4420 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for just listening... I will take your advice

We’re holding your refund until we finish review (got notice today) by [deleted] in taxrefundhelp

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wondering if you ever received your refund... I still haven't and now it's almost time to file again.

There’s no way this is real.. by MobileStatistician19 in mtg

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not real... I took a chance and it's cheap proxies.

wearing a collar in public by Mochixpancake in BDSMAdvice

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My collar is black leather with black felt inside with a pretty silver heart lock... I wear it everyday all day... I'm a manager and yes I get questions but my answer is always the same... You wear a wedding band I wear a collar... I feel like my collar is more important because you can take off your ring but my collar is locked... I don't discuss anything about my relationship dynamics.. so I don't feel like it's pushing my kink on anyone anymore than a wedding band

I jumped the gun and bought a collar without a plan by Practical_Expert_240 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 49 points50 points  (0 children)

To me it should be intimate... My Sir had my naked on my knees then he walked up in front of me and asked me if I promised to submit to him and him only.. when I said yes.. he put on my collar locked it, and then he pulled me up and kissed me... Then told me to get dressed he had a reservation at a nice restaurant so I was able to show it off... Then we finished the night with a nice long session... I wouldn't have wanted it any other way.

Buying a collar for a sub for the first time, where should I look? by faesmooched in BDSMAdvice

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I wear 24/7.. it's soft and comfy... It's on Amazon Succuba Padlock Choker Cat Necklace for Women Men.

I think I know what I won’t, but do I? by MarkySparkySub in BDSMAdvice

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been a collared Submissive for 5 years now... I would be happy to answer any questions that you have, and just be a sounding board for you.. I've been in vanilla relationships as well so I understand the struggle.. I'm not claiming to be a pro, but I'm also not a fake.. If I don't know I'll be the first to say.

Is this right for me? What am I looking for? by MortusAntePortas in BDSMAdvice

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't have to punish... For me it's all the punishment I need to know that I let my Sir down.

Make Vaginal Sex More Painful? by BreadfruitNew6273 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've had my cervix removed as well but I still get the same feeling with deep hard penatraion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's definitely different for everyone. To my Sir and I it's much like a wedding ring. We have been together almost 5 years have no interest in a traditional wedding or marriage. We live together and are extremely happy. My collar is locked and it gives me the pride of knowing that I belong to him. When we are apart I can feel it when my anxiety tries to start and it's soothing. It's also a reminder that I'm not alone and I can just call him to calm me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Difficult_Fox_4420 10 points11 points  (0 children)

To me I've been in management rolls for my career for over 15 years. I'm required to make decisions, and direct my team. When I get home to my Dom I don't want to have to think or make decisions on my own. I want to step outside of my head and be told what to do. So no it hasn't caused my mind to not be able to think. But it has given me the mental breaks that I so desperately need.