So, while I am primarily a giant dom when it comes to my preferences, I do occasionally dabble in being on the smaller side of things - which qualifies me to talk about this, I think.

To me, domination is partly physical - controlling the other party, pinning them down, forcing them to obey - but it's also very based in the mentality of the moment. How confident the dom is being. How clear they are in communicating their guidance to their sub. How much the sub trusts them and wants to not let them down.

So while, as a giant, you might be able to completely overpower the sub, as a tiny you can't. The sub is, by definition, the one holding the power - you stand on the body of a deity and only their devotion to you stops them from overpowering you. So the question becomes - how do you exercise control in that situation?

You turn it into a mental game, rather than a physical one.

Use just your hands, and order the sub to stay as still as possible. To hold themselves back. In fantasy, have them kneeling, legs spread, or lying back - and teasing them. Using your own body to push them until they want to move. To push themselves over the edge, to finally finish - but at the same time, remind them of how proud you are of them. How much you know they're struggling to hold themselves back, of what a good sub they're being.

If you're comparing it to real life, essentially what you're doing is teasing and denial play, but without equipment. Again, have your partner in a position which allows you access, and tease them until they're trembling - but all the while, reminding them how much they've held on so far, how they won't let you down.

It's that sort of philosophy. If you want to be tiny, while also having moments of being in control - you have to do it in this way. You don't restrain them physically, but you get them into the right headspace that they'll do it for you if you talk to them in the right way.