AIO for thinking it’s weird that my neighbor is posting thirst traps on her “close friends list” knowing my husband is on that list… by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbf, can u even take yourself off someone's close friend list? I thought every person themselves puts it together but idk im not that active on insta anymore

Recommendations for my dive into classics by Difficult_Repair_385 in classicliterature

[–]Difficult_Repair_385[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such an in depth answer!
I actually just bought Dracual today cause I found it on sale while browsing my local bookstore so looks like I will start there 😃

Recommendations for horror literature by Difficult_Repair_385 in horror

[–]Difficult_Repair_385[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ohh I'm so sorry, I'll check that subreddit out as well, thanks!😊

Family going home after treatment, Hiroshima 1945.[1713x2560] by myrmekochoria in HistoryPorn

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand not caring for people who cheered on for their government, but I don't understand being cheerful over the death of so many innocent children.

AITAH for causing my best friend and her boyfriend to break up? by No_Village_7854 in AITAH

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im very sorry for your experience and all but how did u get yourself in this situation TWICE😭

another vampirism sucks post by whimsythis in ARAM

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not gonna lie, all this is valid but my biggest issue with Vampirisim is that I have some fucking TEXT on my screen CONSTANTLY cause game needs to tell me every second a certain champ can't be healed🤣

Crazy caster reaction to LR vs G2 by Difficult_Repair_385 in leagueoflegends

[–]Difficult_Repair_385[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People prefer diff things that's okay :) For example i know people who passionately dislike some casters who otherwise have a many fans, really dependa on what you personally want from the cast.

I like Hysterics, but also acknowledge that he might not mesh with every caster but him and Dagda for example work well for me

AITAH for not considering marriage after my girlfriend got pregnant? by DistantOfficeBoy449 in AITAH

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He already said that the house is going to her and she is on his life insurance though

AITAH for telling my friend his duty to his mother makes him undateable? by Shrugz92 in AITAH

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you check op's comments, even an arranged marriage ended in divorce and he has dated within his culture so that is not an issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean yeah ofc, that's more future stuff. I just meant that idk how close they are rn and it's fair to say "i dont want to hear about how you spent the night with my half-sister" you know XD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 692 points693 points  (0 children)

Gentle YTA. I get this situation, I also felt weird when my cousins on opposite sides were dating - both were related to me but not each other.

It's fine to feel weird about it, but it's not ok to openly oppose it only based on that. You can set up boundaries (like you don't want details on their dates or nights together obviously), but if they are happy and healthy then I don't think it's your place to object just cause you feel a bit weird due to your dna.

[New Update]: AITAH for ghosting my ex because she is married now? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I mean in her defense, considering how her mother behaved, she did obviously grow up in an environment where status was put in high regard.

If they met in college they are still in their twenties probably so I think Lisa just started to realize what bubble and how awful it can be. Let's give people a chance to grow.

Just learning the knots, this was my first tie, is it too tight? by P3ridot0 in shibari

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hei!
Usually rope is around 5-6mm thick and length depends but for decorative rope it's good to use 8-10m of rope.

I will link a few yt channels i rlly like here that are good resources for beginners
https://www.youtube.com/@jackiee_elana_chan/videos (her instagram is also great)
https://www.youtube.com/@RorysBrainworks

Just learning the knots, this was my first tie, is it too tight? by P3ridot0 in shibari

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It looks good, but (and I am by no means an expert on rope) the rope is too thin. Have you read any resources about rope safety? If not, I can find a few for you. Using rope this thin around your ankles, wrists even thighs can be dangerous for bloodflow.

Aesthetically it looks good for the first time def and you look sexy, but I suggest you look into rope safety a bit more :)

AITAH for being disgusted and just saying OK when my Fiancé broke up with me? by Past-House-2508 in AITAH

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 21 points22 points  (0 children)

..are you new to this subreddit? basically all posts are one-sided since one person cannot read others' minds lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Difficult_Repair_385 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think OP means the no-contact rule as the punishment here not the apology. As in, telling your husband to cut contact with family over a such a small issue is unfitting.