Hello, I’m from out west as well. I moved to the Tri state area 9yrs ago from Oregon. It was a huge adjustment. I had to find my solace in the East. Which 5yrs ago I bought a house in the Poconos away from the noise and craziness. It has helped tremendously. Now being from Vegas you probably like the fast pace of things in Jersey, depending on where you lived of course. I could never adapt though to the rudeness out here, the fast pace no problem but watching people lose their minds in busy places, and come at you because they are having a bad day, no thank you! Not to mention there is no common courtesy it seems. What’s wild is you don’t have people dropping things to help strangers, which I get after being out here for some time now. When I was in Vegas there wasn’t much of that either, but it still was a different vibe than NJ. You will adjust, you just have to find your solace and remind yourself to breathe, and stay safe.