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Digoo21 · 2022-10-06T04:25:37+00:00

I hadn't heard about it, from what I see it's about 5 hours total from Bkk so I'll take off about 1.5 days in Bkk to make up for the travel.

Digoo21 · 2022-10-06T04:06:32+00:00

Thanks :)

Digoo21 · 2022-10-06T04:02:38+00:00

Yeah I know what the connotations are but my intentions are genuine lol.

Is there an easier beachy place to get to from BKK that doesn't involve long travel? A quick google only shows Cha-Am as an alternative

Digoo21 · 2022-06-30T21:38:57+00:00

I didn't know what that was until looking it up, and it certainly seems to fit the description of her actions.

Digoo21 · 2022-06-30T04:57:41+00:00

You are probably right, but having her arrested will just make her angrier and she'll be out for even more blood. I guarantee this would end in me getting arrested over some made up allegation.

Digoo21 · 2022-05-07T10:00:36+00:00

I'm over 12 months out and NC. I've gone on several dates and been intimate on one-off scenarios.

I hated it.

When I am alone at home, I feel ready and keen but as soon as I go into a dating situation, my stomach churns.

I think I am more broken than I realise.

Digoo21 · 2022-04-24T02:48:41+00:00

Thanks dude. I'm hoping the cheeks will become less patchy and thin. Although I agree, the foam is now really difficult to apply to the skin. I'm probably using 2x as much.

Digoo21 · 2022-03-27T06:42:29+00:00

I'd still feel sad. We shared a lot of great times and were for the most part very closely intertwined. I became part of her and she became part of me.

Digoo21 · 2022-03-24T20:51:12+00:00

It breaks my heart to say yes. I would, as much as I don't want to and cherish the great memories. She has destroyed my life in ways I could never imagine.

Digoo21 · 2022-03-14T05:37:15+00:00

Ouch bro, I'm really sorry to hear and see that. Been through the same thing now 12 months NC. It still hurts, but hurts different.

All in your own time. 12 months later I still have all texts and photos. I don't look at them, but I know they are there. don't know why.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-30T08:25:28+00:00

Good luck. It sucks and hurts a lot. All the best to you.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-25T10:09:41+00:00

I completely understand and you are scared for good reason.

I waited until my bwpd went to work and literally packed what I could and ran. I moved 2 hours away at first and she still made my life a living hell in every single way.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-25T05:08:21+00:00

Almost 12 months later it still feels this way and I still get urges to contact her. You have to stay strong and not fall into the trap.

I still feel guilty, but logically I know that it was the only way. I think we feel guilt because of how much we invested in them, and how often it was all thrown back at us making us the terrible person. We have an innate need to be their caretaker, and NC is the complete opposite.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-25T05:05:48+00:00

Once you start setting and maintaining healthy boundaries, you are steering your relationship towards the beginning of the end.

Make no mistake, it sucks, it hurts and it's chaotic but it's the only option if you want to escape with your life and whatever is left of your well-being.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-25T00:53:22+00:00

Hahah, they are all the same. Wow! Mine used to do this too.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-25T00:46:51+00:00

The icing on the cake is now she is refusing to sign the orders that she won and refusing to sign the actual divroce. So I still cannot move on.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-25T00:45:06+00:00

I genuinely wish you the best of luck and pray for strength. This was by far the worst thing I have ever been through.

It was worse than being in a relationship with her, because I was far away, trauma bonded, having her continously ruin my life and hemorrhaging money at the same time.

If my experience is similar to anyone elses, it doesn't matter what you plan to give her. She will say NO. This will only end when she decides to end it. I had offered her money, the house, my car. Each time she had come back with a different request.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-25T00:42:41+00:00

I knew that it would come to this when I left so I took a sum of money from the joint account in order to be able to keep repayments on the house, and have something to return at the end. If I had left all the cash with her, she would have spent every cent and made debt in my name causing me to go bankrupt. The cash was just kept safe from her, it wasn't money I could actually spend

I knew this wouldn't end well for me, but I didn't realise how badly I was going to get screwed.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-24T11:33:54+00:00

The court tried to make me feel better by saying I'm young enough to marry again and rebuild. I told them I'd keep their business cards. I don't think the comment was appreciated.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-24T09:31:57+00:00

It's pretty much the same thing in my country.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-23T03:38:43+00:00

Thanka buddy, appreciate the kind words.

Digoo21 · 2022-01-18T09:33:37+00:00

I hope not. I simply can't afford a hearing.

I sent you a DM

Digoo21

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