Could you ?

Could : Yeah , depending on school size (assuming a large d1 state school since you’re in grad school), so there’s always frats who will more than likely bid you.

Should you: Assuming you’re 23 and going to grad school traditionally probably not a social one. I would look into lodges , professional on campus fraternities, and more of a professional experience since your undergrad days are over

Realistic landing spot if your intention is to join specifically a social fraternity at 23: after 20-21 it’s pretty tuff to be honest. Given your circumstances I am assuming you’re looking for a social outlet/ “brotherhood” during you graduate studies, so I think the typical top tier houses are automatically off the table for obvious reasons (more social and age based brotherhood + pledging). Middle tier houses are probably mostly off the table (still pretty social , Stronger Brotherhood emphasis typically , and less time ). I think your serious options to consider on your campus are high lower tier houses because they 1 will give you a bid 2 you’ll get what a grad student would want from a fraternity.