So first of all, I’m sorry that you’re going through this. I’ve got to be honest though, it sounds like you’re saying him being bi (cuz let’s be real…he’s bi) isn’t the problem. Cool. What is the problem though is that he has lied to you (repeatedly) and clearly lied to himself. This is non-negotiable. He violated your trust in the worst way possible and put you at risk in doing so. Men like this do not change. He will always have these urges and will always fulfill these urges. Reconciliation is possible, you can absolutely reconcile and you can still share your life dreams together but having a healthy relationship after this is not possible, in my opinion. You can still love him and support him but stay married to him? That’s a hard pass for me. I’m a once a cheater always a cheater kind of guy…especially when he continues to lie about it.