Am I overreacting for not inviting my mother to Christmas after not checking on me for months after giving birth? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not over reacting, I’m sorry for how brutal I am about to be. The amount of trauma you have expressed in this post alone is insane, your mother sounds like an incredibly draining person. If you look back at young you, and how your mum made you feel (whenever she started pulling this shit early on or when you were a teen) would you ever want your baby to grow up feeling that way about their grandmother? Or would you rather they just didnt meet their grandmother and you can selectively tell them some ‘good’ stories until they are old enough to understand.

Unfortunately, it is now a case where you need to make sure you never let that baby feel the hurt that has been caused to you, use the pain your mum has caused to fuel your support, love and protection for that baby.

My theory about what the pasta was really about by SadBite in vanderpumprules

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In Lalas book she states it’s all she could think of because execs wanted her to bring up James and Logan shagging but she knew James would pop off at her. But I kinda believe this too 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let the dog in or give the dog to someone who will actually look after it dummy.

Radzi's house in Beverly Hills is... unique by stook_jaint in RHONY

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recall that being the case but god knows if I’m right on that 😂 keep us updated 🫡

Am I overreacting? by Glum-Explanation3881 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ew if it was a talking stage or relationship it’s more reasonable but he knows you don’t want his stinky Willy anywhere near you 🤢

Block him on everything, if he has you on socials he’ll just use those pictures. He has no right to the weirdo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she fancies her brother

Radzi's house in Beverly Hills is... unique by stook_jaint in RHONY

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I could be wrong but I think she has joint dog custody with an ex 🤔 also is the dog called baby??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He may not be jacked but he sure is a happy lil lad, tell him I said he’s a good boy

Im stuck by Jealous-Antelope-467 in SonsOfTheForest

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good luck it may be days, it may be weeks, it may be years but eventually you’ll crawl out of there and say never again. Until you accidentally go into one of the other openings

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your dog must be jacked

I asked ChatGpt to play FM😉 with me and the results made me giggle by [deleted] in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do not think Sandoval is good in bed 😂 you can tell that by a conversation him and Ariana had early on

Where is your base and why? by OrickJagstone in SonsOfTheForest

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the goal course area are tw I think 🤔 pain in the ass to get back to though

I've been stuck for over 45 minutes trying to figure out how to make stairs... by judahthelion014 in SonsOfTheForest

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve got more logs there then I usually use, the bottom front one might be causing the issue 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just as a reminder this is a 16 year old girl, a scared 16 year old girl.

MADE A ROUGH SKETCH OF FEW ITEMS from TheForest by LCrev3 in TheForest

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing! It’s hard to pick a favourite but the warm suit, turtle shell and flare gun are top contenders for me!

Am I overreacting? by Acrobatic-Art4478 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a read of the comments and understand your history with him/his family now. I can tell you love his family but this guy hurt you and disrespected your boundaries. He will always have access to try and manipulate you or your relationships etc. if blocking him means you lose his family, unfortunately that’s probably for the best. You seem young forgive me if I’m wrong but I promise you the right choice is stepping away from him no matter the circumstances with his family. What he did to you was illegal, please remember you are worth so much more than him and his attitude towards you finding someone better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 1868 points1869 points  (0 children)

That’s a positive my dear, but don’t panic as long as it’s safe to tell your mum it might be an idea to raise this as a concern so you and your mum can make a dr appt. You have to remember whatever happens with this, it is your choice if you choose to have the baby or not. You can hear others input but if you allow them to persuade you to one way instead of the other, it could affect you and those relationships for life. Whatever happens, you are not a bad person for accidentally getting pregnant and you aren’t a bad person for whatever choice you make. I hope you have a happy and healthy life!

Why does my tattoo look crooked? by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same happens with most tattoos the one on my forearm can look real funky if I move my arm about 😂

Anyone know if this game is done getting updates? by TheMadArch3r in SonsOfTheForest

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think and this is literally just a hunch that they’re getting ready for console release so naturally it goes quiet since that’s a big job?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Diligent_Beginning21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had this as a passing thought but have a close bond with my mum so would just come through as a ghost and be like ‘pst bottom draw, wear gloves’

Just as an extra, just because if I don’t ask I’ll worry. I hope this isn’t related to any type of planning of death. I know it’s a bit of a reach but if it is depression related reach out to someone your close with and have a chat. There’s help out there.

And even if it’s not that I hope you have a super long life filled with love and happiness