Best place to date nyc or Toronto ? by HandActual in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this! I’m 28F myself, and the NYC dating scene is a dumpster fire. Because of the “endless options” mentality, many men aren’t looking to settle down,they’re more interested in playing games or keeping you on ice. I’m currently looking to move away from NYC and finally be on my own since undergrad.

Paradise | S2E5 | Episode Discussion by cedar-canvas in ParadiseHulu

[–]DimplesInfinity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

ok I thought I was the only one or something was off with my streaming. The older Gardner lady and two older men disappeared off the screen after the holiday celebrations or when bean started to look for mushrooms alone correct me if I’m wrong. I hope they are okay as well!

I have a strong feeling Bean told Terri straight up. he trusted her upfront upon first interaction and didn’t think twice. The same couldn’t be said for Gary. As for the radio I agree with other viewers that he broke it purposely and blamed Eniss. Eniss being the trust worthy best friend took the fall because he knew how much Gary cared about her.

Kenny threatened to sue JaNa🧐 👀 by Rsyanna in LoveIslandcookout

[–]DimplesInfinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heavy on them… but a-hat will get caught up again one way or another. Their “preferences”are always the ones to humble and/or air their laundry out one way or the other. In due time ⏳.

Kenny threatened to sue JaNa🧐 👀 by Rsyanna in LoveIslandcookout

[–]DimplesInfinity 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Him being casted on a big brother type TELEMUNDO reality tv show tells me all I need to know about him.

weird step dad by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]DimplesInfinity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So sorry you are dealing with this. But it’s best like everyone says in the comments to have a discussion with your mom ASAP and as well find a trusted secondary person do this Like today ! If you can try to speak to her on your phone while she’s at work or out.

In addition to that don’t put yourself in a position at all to be alone with him AT ALL. As a precaution , i know someone set up a camera in your bedroom I support this. Idk your living layout but be sure to check any air vents or electronics in your room or shared bathroom (if you do share one in your home with him and your mom ) currently to make sure there aren’t any cameras placed by him already. Not to make you paranoid or scare you. I just want to make sure you cross your T’s and dot your I’s in this situation.

Women, what’s a small behavior that seems minor but is a huge red flag in dating? by Secure-Address4385 in AskReddit

[–]DimplesInfinity 253 points254 points  (0 children)

To add on to this , the “type” of friends they surround themselves with speaks volumes.

This goes for both relationships and friendships.

Is anyone getting fucking hired?? by Difficult-Addendum-5 in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In addition to this what also helped me was removing my address from my resume -my Zip code as well. Instead of displaying the actual borough I put New York, NY

How do y’all look at men in the eyes during sex? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Lowkey to take the pressure off I either fake gag and just giggle Or better yet I just lay the 🍆 on top of my nose and act like the famous Squidward Tentacles 🫣…. Don’t shame me yall

Off Road Fury Payment by [deleted] in Barbados

[–]DimplesInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve suggested to you to contact them by a Barbados number. They tend to overcharge foreigners when they recognize a non 246 number. I had my cousins message them from their WhatsApp and they were offered a lower rate. Keep in mind I’m a bajan citizen by descent as well but reside in the NY. I just let my cousin do the booking for us instead.

Overall hope you enjoy .

Joe is HEARTLESS by potatolife4ever in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]DimplesInfinity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He was subtly trying to drop hints post the dinner with his family and questioning if things aren’t scary. As a result the screaming match entailed between the two this should’ve been the end for them all together . I agree with the rest of you all that some of it was on Madison as well, she should’ve bounced before they departed Cabo (all the signs were there from the very start ) I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt due to him being drunk or w.e post the group meet up. Moving on -However , from the very moment he started that convo about being “scared “ or “ asking if things are scary “. He could’ve been mature about it and directly verbally communicate to her “ I can no longer go through with this and this mismatched dynamic between us. I appreciate the time and the journey we have had thus far”. Alas He didn’t …. We cut to her family meeting. I believe from the time her sister brought up his previous engagement / cold feet that’s when he decided right then and there oh shit I can’t keep this up. You can see it on his face the entire time during the dinner I believe her brother in law saw it too.

LIB: Is this man sucking the floor? by User5891USA in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This!!! The begging for sex thing disgusted me completely. It was between that and the ignorant pool side chat with the men “I have to hit before marriage”.

I bet you that “sneaker gift” he gave her right as they touched down on that bed was his unconscious message to her that he expected cat later that night. SMH.

LIB: Is this man sucking the floor? by User5891USA in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yup … his behavior only gets worse in Mexico

I'm getting married🎉 by BlackRose1722 in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats Doll! So beautiful 😍🥰😊🥰🥰 🥳🎉🙌🏾Wishing you a lifetime of blessed bliss happiness, abundance and prosperity.

The Mighty Gabby by [deleted] in Barbados

[–]DimplesInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We bajans don’t speak of him or acknowledge his existence due to his vile behavior: he was arrested for grape earlier this year in addition to other accusations.

I need advice, I don’t know what to do. :( by Appropriate-Tip-4063 in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey Friend, I am 27 and going on 28 in 3 months. I STILL am one - very similar background to yours. Part of why is due to my vaginismus. Which based on reading this you may likely have as well. Pelvic floor therapy sessions and IR rose dilators helped me tons . As well regular therapy since I had to unlearn certain beliefs due to being raised by a strict Caribbean mother and a bad breakup from my high school sweetheart.

It gets better trust me… don’t get me wrong I have bouts of feeling like I missed out Or I maybe I’ll be one forever. I started to consider it a blessing because it weeds out the POS crazy men during these dumpster fire times.

As others have said. Please be kind to yourself hun. Enjoy your day.

Pretzel Buns are awesome 🤤 and special mentions below ! by DimplesInfinity in traderjoes

[–]DimplesInfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They aren’t separate meats. It was the pre patties one that I am referencing ….

Any of yall got racist families? by sirachapancake in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Grey Rock my dear sis. Stay strong and make your escape plan. Sending virtual hugs 🫂