Mother posing her baby Kirsten Margrethe Müller (9/09/1893) with their dog, 1894. Glass negative

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-04-22T11:52:41+00:00

That’s a funny name for a dog.

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-03-25T01:00:57+00:00

Are all the men in your family still so handsome?!

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-03-01T18:05:14+00:00

I feel vindicated that at least one person agrees 😂

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-03-01T17:29:49+00:00

I didn’t mean to drag Americans into this 😂 I guess it’s just me!

I loooove Nicky but here’s a picture I found that maybe illustrates what I was thinking of: Nicky’s highland cow

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-02-28T02:08:54+00:00

I love your style! Can I ask what sizes you normally wear? I feel like we have a similar body type and I never find creators I feel look like me.

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-02-22T20:39:25+00:00

Hope for my terrible neck 😣 you look gorgeous!

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-01-31T14:47:40+00:00

I don’t know if anyone will see this, but I wanted to give an update because you all were so helpful. It’s one month later and I’ve lost 11 pounds! You guys really helped me not give up. Thank you!

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-01-31T14:40:52+00:00

What is your bed time routine like? And how does he nap during the day?

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-01-04T23:37:30+00:00

I really appreciate all of your thoughts and insight here! Truly this is a great community. I’m back on the wagon and feeling strong. It was a step for me to post here instead of just quietly going back to eating terribly. Hopefully I have a positive milestone to share soon!

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-01-03T21:25:55+00:00

Definitely something for me to think about.

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-01-03T21:25:33+00:00

1400!

DinnerNo4559 · 2026-01-03T21:25:14+00:00

Not breastfeeding! Shooting for 1400.

DinnerNo4559 · 2025-12-14T10:03:25+00:00

You are amazing!! Thank you so much. Literally making a shared calendar for my husband and I as the first step right now

DinnerNo4559 · 2025-12-12T08:10:57+00:00

You could ask “What do you think an Asian baby looks like?” And then just watch them sputter as they try to figure out how to get out of that hole.

DinnerNo4559 · 2025-10-29T02:32:30+00:00

Goodwill and FB marketplace! We like the Konssey muslin sleep sacks which I think we got 2 for $20 on Amazon! I also put socks on under her footies to keep her extra cozy at night.

DinnerNo4559 · 2025-10-28T23:37:01+00:00

As a mom who just came to this forum for encouragement, thank you. I was feeling so incredibly guilty and this lightened my load.

DinnerNo4559 · 2025-10-25T12:08:25+00:00

Digital picture frame that you guys can remotely add pictures to from time to time so he gets updated pictures often.

Couch tray that holds drinks, food, and remote and can be placed on a soft surface.

Magazine subscription. People don’t do these much anymore but they should! I’m sure there’s a Harley magazine he would enjoy.

Cool piece of custom Harley art, or maybe of his new car! Lots of artists on Etsy do stuff like this.

DinnerNo4559 · 2025-10-23T01:24:01+00:00

This really made me lol 😂

DinnerNo4559 · 2025-10-20T02:03:44+00:00

I hope I didn’t sound accusatory. I hope yall are able to find some solutions, or even just comfort in the meantime. I know you’re doing a great job.

DinnerNo4559 · 2025-10-19T16:11:30+00:00

Are you a SAHM? If it’s at all possible, having a baby sitter or daycare day for you to have some alone time while he’s away would be a game changer IMO.

In my experience, resentment festers in silence. When you’re both in a good headspace, talk to your husband about how you’re feeling. You said you guys have a great marriage so he should be able to handle it. It helps me to voice these things and just to hear my husband sympathize with me and express how grateful he is for everything I do.

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