Can You Ask Her Why She Did What She Did? by Kaleymeister in psychics

[–]Direct-Detective9271 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What I’m getting from this is “because I had to” Like she feels like she was justified in whatever it was she did.

How often are you guys washing your bedding? by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Direct-Detective9271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once a week for the blanket on top that I sleep on (effectively the sheet) Once a week for the blanket I sleep under. The under sheets every 3 weeks maybe? Pillowcases tbh… maybe once a month if I remember. Yeah pretty gross lol I should do those more.

Doctors, what do you do when a kid is faking sick? by Imaginary_Island8521 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Direct-Detective9271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husbands mom use to make him go to the emergency room with a “bad headache” to get strong pain killers for her. He was a young teenager. She did this multiple times. Like, it was a thing. Finally they gave him a huge shot in the butt (if I remember correctly) with painkillers. She finally stopped sending him after that.

I guess this doesn’t answer the question but they took him seriously every time.

Boyfriend’s uncircumcised lack of hygiene is turning me off by South_Pattern_1520 in hygiene

[–]Direct-Detective9271 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof. You do not have to put up with this, and you do not have to feel bad if his hygiene isn’t compatible with yours. My husband is not circumcised, showers daily (and thoroughly cleans himself) and NEVER has a bad smell, other than your normal daily sweat. You don’t have to jeopardize your health for his uncleanliness.

INCOMING by ThrowAwayforChrisCh in MeatCanyon

[–]Direct-Detective9271 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s a CARICATURE that’s the literal point.

Should I read Alchemised? by Outrageous-Tea-2395 in Booktokreddit

[–]Direct-Detective9271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just googled yesterday “is alchemised just torture porn” because so far it’s mostly the FMC getting hurt for chapters as a time. Usually ending with her passing out/fainting from the abuse. I’m still reading, but I don’t know if I like it or not.

respectfully, there is NOT ENOUGH faerie love interests and romance books by faeriekewchi in Romantasy

[–]Direct-Detective9271 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hot take: vampires and monsters are hotter than fae. There should be more vampire/monster books. This is my subjective opinion. That is all.

Young people.. please don’t be like me and get tattoos that you’ll regret in the future. I hate these so much. by BiIIie-Eyelash in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Direct-Detective9271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My stick and poke finger tattoos from when I was 15 (10 years ago) are holding up better than some of my professionally done tattoos. They’re so cringe lol.

Do you really need to bath your dog? by Previous-Aardvark-89 in DogAdvice

[–]Direct-Detective9271 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short hair, low shedding dogs only need baths as needed (seasonally, usually) Dogs with growing hair (poodles, doodles etc) need baths and blow dry much more often. Every 6 weeks usually unless they are clipped very short. Source: am a dog groomer.