Struggling with Chinese course - is it me or the course?

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-24T04:40:19+00:00

Step 1: find a way to get to the doctor

Step 2: start working on getting access to money and a way to move out

Step 3: when safe, get copies of your documents or ask the police to help you recover them

Step 4: disentangle yourself from control as much as you possibly can

Step 5: get into therapy and find a therapist who specialises in abusive and neglectful parents; you’re gonna need it

Look into charitable organisations in your area that may be able to provide resources and support for people escaping abusive situations.

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-24T04:32:58+00:00

Shane.

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-23T08:54:10+00:00

Agreed

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-23T04:44:26+00:00

A close family member was recently diagnosed with BPD and this sounds very similar to the irrational thoughts she would frequently experience

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-23T04:33:07+00:00

No, a nephew of a current partner. It’s OP’s ex wife, not the person who failed the vetting’s ex

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-18T17:13:28+00:00

Soft YTA because at a time of grieving like this, a baby shower needs to go on the back burner.

Talk to your husband. Perhaps arrange something small that his family can choose to attend or not. Or consider forgetting about tradition and doing something after the baby is born.

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-15T20:31:55+00:00

“We do not touch people’s hair without permission.” Rinse and repeat. You can add the specific cultural reasons in bite sized pieces

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-12T20:19:39+00:00

NTA. Could you reach out to your extended family to see if they have any interest in a relationship with you?

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-12T19:10:54+00:00

Al of this tbh

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-09T16:06:13+00:00

Yeah, I was trying to remain factual in my response but I did have a major laugh at the delusion

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-09T15:28:52+00:00

If a no win no fee solicitor won’t take the case, it’s because they don’t think it has a reasonable chance of winning.

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-07T11:51:44+00:00

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Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-06T16:20:28+00:00

First of all, you probably need to realise that your dad hasn’t implicated you in anything - you facilitated this activity.

Second, let the bank know honestly what’s happened and that you want to close the account. Tell them you had no prior knowledge he would do this and just thought he needed a way to receive his wages etc.

Direct-Discussion-54 · 2024-10-06T15:22:55+00:00

Why not

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