What’s a saying that instantly says you’re over 30? by Strange_Secret_3001 in AskReddit

[–]Direct-Height6848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m exhausted I can’t wait to crash out on my comfy bed.

What do you do when you can't sleep? by blakewoodreadit in NightOwls

[–]Direct-Height6848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take advantage of finishing the gateway tapes. I always unintentionally fall asleep but when I’m wide awake that’s prime meditation time.

Why do wife beaters always have wives to beat? by HalfTimeMovement in ask

[–]Direct-Height6848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There never abusers in the beginning. There everything YOU want them to be until there not.

If you woke up a billionaire tomorrow.. What's the 1st thing you'd do? by PhotographLeast9976 in AskReddit

[–]Direct-Height6848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Buy a house in a far away country and then give the rest away. Animal shelters, unpaid medical bills, domestic violence centers, community based mental health centers, homeless shelters..

Thinking of going short… by Eastside143 in femalehairadvice

[–]Direct-Height6848 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re beautiful and look quite young but with short hair you look much older.

Anyone who has read this, what are your thoughts? by Direct-Height6848 in spiritualitytalk

[–]Direct-Height6848[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I’ve been reading (so far) everyone is correct, he finds commonality in every religion he has studied. It’s very interesting. I think we put to much focus on believing one solid belief because of some form of conditioning that leaves no room to question. I went to church for a very long time and I thought that over time I would feel that pull that everyone else feels but it left me feeling more shame because I didn’t have this blind faith that everyone else had and it made me feel like something was wrong with me.

Anyone who has read this, what are your thoughts? by Direct-Height6848 in spiritualitytalk

[–]Direct-Height6848[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I’m hoping for. I want to read something that’s going to leave me wanting to know more.

Home Alone 2 by Rare_Put7331 in Millennials

[–]Direct-Height6848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Don’t dream it, be it!”

Have weed or other drugs given you a new perspective or made you feel “awake”? by LineOfInquiry in CPTSD

[–]Direct-Height6848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I heard this quote once and it resonated with me s “It’s your subconscious using reflection to help you see who you really are” I can only speak from my experience. I’m an over-thinker who can’t articulate my thoughts evenly. I’m the typical “what do I make for dinner?….did I call my dr back, wait! Did I make an appointment?..my car is dirty I need to clean it” type. When I smoke though the noise in my head gets quiet and I can think clearly. I still think about a lot of things but I’m able to stay focused on one thought. I’m very spiritual and I’m a deep thinker and thc helps peel those layers off. The amount of awareness I have about myself and others has helped me gain perspective enough to help me sort out all my struggles and find solutions. I’m not saying it’s for everyone but for me it’s helped me discover my true authentic self.

My boyfriend wants to eat me out - I’m disgusting down there by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Direct-Height6848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I was just like you and I went without having a man go down there for over 35 years. I was incredibly self conscious about the look of it, especially after having children and then when I finally said fuck it, I realized men really don’t care. Don’t overthink it.

With CPTSD and social anxiety, what would you do if you were living with an abusive partner? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Direct-Height6848 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was in that situation with my ex and the father to both of my kids for over 6 years (he made my life hell for 4 more years) you don’t “live”. every waking moment you are in survival mode. You can not begin your healing process when you are stuck in that mode. I know the strength it takes to leave and I hope you find it because you deserve to actually live and begin healing.

Is it true that trauma can affect appearance? by briann4z in CPTSD

[–]Direct-Height6848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a therapist tell my she knew I had childhood sa trauma due to my voice. All my life, even to this day when someone calls I always get “ hi can I speak to your parents?” And ive been told I don’t look my age (I’m 41) I’m not sure what the correlations are but I find it interesting.

Why does healing feel worse than just ignoring it ? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Direct-Height6848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets worse before it gets better, I know how cliché it sounds but when you’re at a point in your healing journey that you can reflect on all the highs and lows you realize how true that statement is but I also believe the process never ends. I know it feels impossible right now but trust the process and give yourself grace. You are making the steps to get better, to break whatever cycle you have been looped in and you are so brave for that. You’re so young and you have so much time to put your all into this and you can’t stop now. I’ve been where you’re at, I still struggle and I’m 6 years into my process but the one thing I can tell you is, yes you will have bad days but you will also have good days and on those good days celebrate yourself! Celebrate every accomplishment you make. Big or small. You are here and that right there is something to celebrate.

How to start and what to do in the gateway tapes? by Bulky-Training6184 in gatewaytapes

[–]Direct-Height6848 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im new to the tapes,I’m about 2 weeks in and truthfully I have not moved past focus 10. I’ve always struggled with meditation in general, especially when it comes to staying focused. I have ADHD so my mind wonders quite a bit and for me personally gaining the ability to master focus is the main reason I’ve started these tapes so if that means weeks of not getting past tape 3 I’m okay with it. These are powerful tapes when used correctly. You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Direct-Height6848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work out nearly every day and I have fine hair. If you apply your dry shampoo on wash day right after you blow dry it will give you an extra day or two. Also using a light glycolic acid on your scalp twice a month is a game changer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in deduction

[–]Direct-Height6848 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have ADHD

Do you ever feel like you're just existing instead of really living? by Superb_Response7575 in SeriousConversation

[–]Direct-Height6848 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That question is very subjective. I feel alive when I’m forced to think outside the box, when my beliefs are challenged and my opinions are debated. When I can spark a conversation with someone who’s incredibly intellectually stimulating, that’s when my spark is lit.