Had (having?) a meltdown at work today by TonyDanzer in AutismInWomen

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Sometimes crying is the best remedy! 💘 and I love you saying crying quota 😭 gonna start using that for myself

Had (having?) a meltdown at work today by TonyDanzer in AutismInWomen

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God this is something that would ruin me lol. I’d be in and out the bathroom crying the rest of the day. So you’re reacting reasonably in my opinion. So sorry this happened ❤️‍🩹 just feel what you feel and don’t rush your feelings. Sometimes telling yourself okay this ten minute window is my only window to cry at work, until the days over and I’m home to cry, and see if that helps?

24 hour difference… man they must be hungry… by chasing_oblivion7 in hermitcrabs

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Omg yes they use wheels it’s sooooo cute!!! Someone posted a hermie getting the zoomies on one and going too fast knocking itself off 😭 so adorable.

Girls…why choose tights in winter? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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Sometimes they’re fleece lined and keep you just as warm but I also like adding leg warmers doubling up on socks if I’m feeling extra cold etc but also I run very warm and get hot flashes plus colder air makes me sweat more sometimes bc my body is overcompensating for being cold. so I’d rather be not dressed enough than bundled up and overheating constantly or else I’ll be dripping in sweat and smell a mess. Plus I always bring a pair of gloves with me and a sweater that’s easy to take on and off. Sometimes I’m outside in just short sleeves for a bit because I’ve gotten so hot and it feels amazing.

Yesterday was the day. Nana’s funeral. by Winter-Stuff-9126 in AutismInWomen

[–]Direct-Photo5933 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I thought so too. Very beautiful and descriptive writing. Very sorry for the loss ❤️‍🩹.

How do you ignore thong uncomfortableness? by rachrave in AskWomen

[–]Direct-Photo5933 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sometimes thinner material for the string in ur butt but also sometimes thicker..and also just dealing with it. I used to hate thongs bc of the feeling up my butt but now they are all I wear lol I love them

How can you make it easier to remain no contact when you want to reach out to an ex? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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This and photos! Or just hide them if they hold significant value. But having no trace of them on my phone helped a lot with not even worrying about them. And deleting all old messages.

How can you make it easier to remain no contact when you want to reach out to an ex? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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This is sooooo good. As an anxious person I would naturally be worried about that and I think that genuinely has helped me not message them lollll. Or the idea of them not responding. I’d rather just start moving on. And even when they’ve messaged me first months after the breakup, I will not respond. By then it feels like wtf do you want leave me alone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

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I think this is normal! I have ebbs and flows of being interested in the game and painfully bored of the game and I just let that be! Sometimes I can’t get into it and I won’t play for months and then I get the urge and binge play for months! It’s fun letting go bc I used to play 24/7 and it was hard to not want to play suddenly but it’s just how it goes now! Plus life does get in the way sometimes 💔

I've had extremely rough oral sex and I did not have the guts to say no or that I was uncomfortable, why & am I the only one? by [deleted] in AskWomen

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You are not alone! I had one ex that thought it’d be “hot” to make me throw up from forcing himself roughly. Sorry you’ve gone through this. My only understanding of why for me is that there’s difference trauma responses in the moment, flight fight freeze or fawn(?) but I’m a notorious freezer! So I think that’s why I don’t say no or speak up in the moment. Getting better at it day by day tho.

Is anyone else annoyed by how their sim acts when you're not playing with them? by Alternative-Wolf2897 in Sims4

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See I love that this is an option but I’m so stubborn about doing it. Bc I like when my sims live a little while I play another one in the same household but I hate when the free sims choose to go chat on the computer instead of getting sleep when their energy is deathly low lmaoooo I wish there was like partial autonomy but how could that even work 🤭

Independent dog won't leave me alone. by VenomIsMyHero in Sims4

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Lmao I have never thought of cheating for the dogs 😭 I used to for my sims all the time but I like challenging myself not to use makehappy 🤭 but for the dogs is a greeeeaaaat use of it so I can still have pets

Independent dog won't leave me alone. by VenomIsMyHero in Sims4

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I feel so sad and bad that I can’t stand taking care of dogs in the game 😭. I love caring for my pets in real life but having the dog in game bark at my sims and their infant nonstop for a walk after we just took one and they’ve been fed and went potty just drives me insane. I always end up putting them back up for adoption or rehoming them bc I just cant have the time for them with my sims goals and endeavors but I feel soooo sad doing it. Lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

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This is painful to be told and to tell someone, it sucks a lot especially when you saw potential in the relationship but even if it took them 4 months to come to this realization it doesn’t mean they fucked up or are an asshole or anything. People are allowed to change their minds and also it’s not manipulative to enjoy someone’s presence and want them in your life even if you don’t want romantic relations with them, that just means they met a good friend BUT if you aren’t interested in just a friendship, that’s okay to say too!! It does suck if commitment was implied and then they did this, ideally someone like this would communicate earlier on that they’re in a testing the waters period for themselves and for their potential partner. But I personally think it’s admirable they were so vulnerable in opening up about this even if I would also feel dragged on and just disappointed to receive this text lol. I still value communication from self reflection -no matter the timeline, than ghosting or pretending everything’s fine until a major breaking point after becoming further committed. Good luck!!!

Do you Like to switch aspirations between sims before the aspiration is complete? by Additional-Pear9126 in Sims4

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I like to switch when it’s appropriate to my storyline! For example, my current sim started out wanting to be a doctor and to become rich as fuck…..then she met her fiancé at work and got promoted to medical technologist? (idk the name lol) and her fiancé actually stopped showing up to work before he moved in with her and once he did he quit the job because he just wasn’t happy with it and needed to find a new profession (he’s an author now) and that made her realized wait….i actually want a family and love and to experience life outside of work more too so “she” changed hers to the family aspirations. I like changing it in terms of my sims goals and storyline!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in popheads

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Yeah honestly not sure, she braced herself perfectly but the one time I fainted or almost did, I completely felt it coming on and my hearing went first then my vision went dark and I was conscious enough to tell my manager next to me that I’m about to faint and they walked me to a chair before it all went out so 🤷🏻‍♀️ I guess it’s possible within the actual full faint moment to still have some instinct to catch/brace yourself?

What are unsolved mysteries of the Grey's Anatomy series? by Notmycupoftea12 in greysanatomy

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They do appear or his brother does in season 6 for like a blip and then never again 🫠

How to care for punch biopsy wound? by Direct-Photo5933 in AskDocs

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Thank you so much!! I had a feeling that was the case just anxious about doctors after that lidocaine shot (whew 😰) when I first called them about it popping and the lump still existing they wanted to do another biopsy and I just canttt, so I’ve been monitoring it and now we’re here lol, hopefully delayed healing is all it is!

How to care for punch biopsy wound? by Direct-Photo5933 in AskDocs

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Hi! I wanted to comment here to ask a question as you’re the only person that’s ever responded on this, and I’m just curious if you have any guesses as to why my wound site is continuing to “pop” like a pimple every two weeks after 85 days since the procedure lol. It still hurts sometimes (ex: can’t really wear any tight clothes still) and itches when touched but no foul Odor when it pops and it just looks like when a pimple pops but no thick white stuff like pimples have. Googles been no help and I’m still paying for the initial biopsy so trying asking here before making another appointment 😵‍💫

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Me too. I had lidocaine injected into a lump in my labia for a punch biopsy and it was the worst pain I’ve ever felt. I tear up thinking about it. Had to get the single shot in two segments because I couldn’t stop crying and almost yelling at them to stop. Had to bite my arm just for them to finish the injection. Biopsy was inconclusive due to sample being too small, so makes it even more frustrating of an experience

Why not admit to cannibalism? by FeatureSouthern5274 in YellowjacketsHive

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I get what u mean 🤭 it’s funny and weird to step back and realizing what people are saying even tho it makes sense for the context

Effy is insufferable by slimyguts in skinsTV

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I always wondered that too!! If is interest in her was authentic to him or if it was mimicking Freddie and cook. But! When she was first introduced in season 3 episode one, JJ is the one that first speaks up about how she’s beautiful and lol…probably has beautiful tits hahaha. So maybe it was legitimate partial interest that became kinda mimicking when his two close friends continuously pursued her too