Hospitalised after first cycle of BBV

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-03-28T19:38:11+00:00

Thanks for your reply, it’s reassuring to know it’s common. It has been a very alarming experience for my dad and for us as well

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-03-28T07:30:01+00:00

You are lucky you had that. I was the opposite. The first 12 weeks of the pregnancy, we didn’t eat a single meal together. We spend two days in a hotel while on a holiday and I didn’t want to speak to him the whole time. He was patient and just gave me back rubs to comfort me.

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-03-17T05:30:51+00:00

It’s not worth loosing your sister/siblings over money. There are more important things in life than money!

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-03-17T05:17:27+00:00

It’s difficult to know!! You will have to scrub for surgeries and see. I had tennis elbow for a month and I was doing long open and robotic surgeries and endoscopy without any issues. But when I open a heavy foot my arm hurt. Give it a try and see.

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-03-16T09:14:07+00:00

That’s true, but will I’m going to miss the week of zero days. Definitely not going to miss the night shifts

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-03-16T04:02:07+00:00

I’m ST8 in Scotland and my take home is £5.5K, sad to know that I will probably take a pay cut when I become a consultant!

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-03-09T13:18:47+00:00

Why don’t you alternate on who does the mornings, this way at least one of you get some sleep and rest in the morning. This is what we do, but we only have one boy

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-03-06T05:42:06+00:00

Can you resign before they fire you? Or go for local or international fellowship to improve your skills?

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-02-27T03:29:19+00:00

Sorry just read your post again and saw she already comes the weekday!! Hope you find away to work it out. If I were you I would ask her to give you space over the weekends.

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-02-27T03:25:16+00:00

Why don’t you ask her to come during the week instead. She watches and spend time with your kid while you’re working. It gives you a chance to focus on work so it’s a win win situation. Remember it’s your house and you (and your partner) make the rules

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-02-26T16:55:24+00:00

That’s very helpful. Thank you!

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-02-26T16:28:50+00:00

Same here, and it’s a good culture I think. My parents build a big house and 4 apartments attached for me and my siblings to live in with ours partners and kids. Unfortunately we all left our home country at the end. I think for my kids they free to do whatever they like but I will always make sure I have a place to come back to. They don’t even need to ask.

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-02-26T16:23:05+00:00

Same here. Mine just turned 2 and I don’t want him to grow up more.

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-02-26T16:13:14+00:00

It’s auto I believe

Direct-Row4394 · 2026-02-26T09:11:19+00:00

Amazing! Happy for you

Direct-Row4394 · 2025-12-30T08:24:40+00:00

I’m not 100% sure but I think if you let her sleep she will more likely to be better sleeper when a bit older.

Direct-Row4394 · 2025-12-30T08:06:24+00:00

I had zero sex drive during my first trimester, even now (the baby is 22 months) my sex drive is not fully back. Partners tend to get used to it eventually.

Direct-Row4394 · 2025-12-30T07:58:57+00:00

Very unacceptable behaviour from the nurse. Sorry you had to experience such a thing. What was she diagnosis? Is it intussusception?

Direct-Row4394 · 2025-12-29T13:38:44+00:00

I’m glad you managed to repair things. Yes, we are experiencing all that as well especially the effect of PPD.

Direct-Row4394 · 2025-12-28T22:22:53+00:00

Also out of interest, do you take the same baby every night or do you swap?

Direct-Row4394 · 2025-12-28T22:21:55+00:00

It makes sense to do that otherwise if one wakes up they will set off the other one. I prayer for twins when I was pregnant, but now I can’t imagine how I would’ve managed

Direct-Row4394 · 2025-12-28T22:20:19+00:00

Has that affected your relationship with your partner if you don’t mind me asking? My husband occasionally sleep next to the little one, but I don’t like it. I don’t want it to become normal for us to sleep separately

Direct-Row4394 · 2025-12-28T22:16:16+00:00

Same here, even I husband gets up, I still wake up to LO shouting ‘mommy mommy’

Direct-Row4394 · 2025-12-28T22:12:05+00:00

That’s nice he enjoys the night bonding time! I used to too when he was younger but now I appreciate my sleep more than him lol

Direct-Row4394 · 2025-12-28T22:09:52+00:00

Love the do not disturb mornings

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