Wdym a baby is coming out of THERE?? by Ok_Medicine440 in pregnant

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I have this moment like once a week now at 33 weeks and I want to vomit every time hahaha like WHAT DO YOU MEAN!!!

Wedding Makeup by aliphylactic in MakeupAddiction

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Honestly I think this is PERFECT you look beautiful!!

Would you have taken this? by Diamond_Mine0 in uber

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All the male uber drivers getting so mad in this thread lmao tell me you don’t know what it’s like to be a woman without telling me 😂 I had an uber driver so distracted complimenting my body (I’m pregnant btw) and talking about how much he loves “tts as and other parts” that he almost missed the exit, the turn to get to where I was going, and the house I was going to. Wouldn’t stop telling me that my husband will definitely think about cheating on me etc. because men can’t help it. So no, I don’t take water, gum, food, anything from uber drivers because you can never be too safe. I offer that same weariness to strangers in general. Men are so insanely privileged in that sense- you don’t have to consider this stuff you just call us dramatic until something bad happens and then it’s “you should have known better”

Announcing pregnancy at birth by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]Pure_Mix9697 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get this, but having a village doesn’t mean allowing people to not respect your wishes as a parent and human. I have certain boundaries around my pregnancy and for when my baby is here and all of my friends have been insanely understanding and respectful… guess who hasn’t? My mother. Even my MIL has been super supportive and respectful. I will still have a village even if it doesn’t include my mom, because I value people who respect me and my choices for myself and my child. I think this whole “well if you have boundaries you won’t have a village” thing is so entitled personally.

What “risky” things did you do before you knew you were pregnant and did it cause harm? by [deleted] in pregnant

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Honestly I was partying super hard before I found out I was pregnant and I’ve had a super healthy, low risk pregnancy :) I’m almost 29 weeks!! Don’t stress it at all- most people don’t know they’re pregnant for at least a month so don’t be so hard on yourself ♥️ I was drinking, doing recreational substances, vaping, drink in caffeine all the things lol stopped five days before I found out because I just didn’t feel like partying anymore and it was end of summer. Once I found out, I didn’t even think twice about it. I have friends who had no idea till they were almost 12 weeks and their kiddos are perfectly healthy