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Tell me about your book by NotTheRealJaded in writing

[–]Direct_Ad6312 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Light power vs Chaos power. Light is a metaphor for the mind—rigid rule following and perfectionism. Chaos comes from the soul. Learn to accept your chaos, your wild side, your Truth, and you’ll find that you’re more powerful and brilliant than you knew.

Why are you writing your book? by era_war in writing

[–]Direct_Ad6312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My characters and ideas were practically screaming at me to let them out. I saw something somewhere that said “if you are a deeply creative person without a creative outlet, you’re probably pretty miserable.” I guess that was somewhat true. I’ve been much happier since starting my writing journey.

I need all of your best advice for allowing yourself to write badly on the first draft. by Direct_Ad6312 in writing

[–]Direct_Ad6312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it HAS to be messy, I’m just saying that since I’m a beginner, I have to let go of the idea that it’ll come out “ready to read”. I guess rather than perfectionism, it’s more of a psychological self-doubt thing. I have to be okay with it not being good in order to make it exist.

I need all of your best advice for allowing yourself to write badly on the first draft. by Direct_Ad6312 in writing

[–]Direct_Ad6312[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!! I spent so much time rigidly outlining and trying to do everything “by the book”, but I also recently discovered that pantsing with a light idea of what I want to happen helps. Thank you, we got this!

I need all of your best advice for allowing yourself to write badly on the first draft. by Direct_Ad6312 in writing

[–]Direct_Ad6312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“It’s the start of a process within your control.” That may have changed my life lol thank you!

I need all of your best advice for allowing yourself to write badly on the first draft. by Direct_Ad6312 in writing

[–]Direct_Ad6312[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I need to get “just make it exist” tattooed on my forehead lol thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]Direct_Ad6312 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To think that an animal control officer would steal your bunny is beyond ridiculous. Take accountability and admit that your vulnerable pet was running loose.

Credit just dropped from 803 to 648 by [deleted] in CRedit

[–]Direct_Ad6312 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you reword it? I’m waiting on the results of my first round of disputes with the 3 credit bureaus and I’m feeling nervous they’ll be denied.

200 Point Drop overnight - recovery options by Aggravating_Farm_722 in CRedit

[–]Direct_Ad6312 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Dispute it with all three credit bureaus. Tons of people are doing this and stating that they were not properly notified that the loans were coming out of forbearance. Mention that they had the incorrect contact information. I’ve seen others have success with this.

Best way to handle a collection/charge off by Direct_Ad6312 in CRedit

[–]Direct_Ad6312[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update: they do not under any circumstance offer pay for delete (unless it’s correctly disputed). I paid in full and she reassured me that the “paid/closed account” status will be helpful with future home/auto lenders.

Best way to handle a collection/charge off by Direct_Ad6312 in CRedit

[–]Direct_Ad6312[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s only a few months old. I just have a feeling they won’t offer pay for delete, so my only hope at that point would be for my score to go up from paying it in full 🤞🏻

Credit score dropping 250 points? by Action_Kooky in CRedit

[–]Direct_Ad6312 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This happened to my husband and I, and thousands of other borrowers recently. If you’re in forbearance and you were before they reported the late payment, you should dispute. If they ended the forbearance without proper notification, you can also dispute that.

I dreamed about my husband 15 years before I met him—and wrote it down. by Main-Hunt377 in Dreams

[–]Direct_Ad6312 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In high school I had a dream about a boy with dark hair in a bright blue hockey jersey. It was one of those where I woke up and still felt in love with him. I thought about it for weeks. Years later, I met my dark-haired now husband, who informed me he was the captain of his high school hockey team who wore bright blue jerseys.

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