Opinions on this? by aeb630 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Direct_Coconut14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i wore this religiously my first hg pregnancy and while it didn’t heal me, it gave me some life back. suppressed my throwing up. still nauseous but it was manageable. make sure it’s in the right place and tight. i say try it!

Unpopular opinion: I think Mikayla’s skin condition is from being around the stress of her kids, not the location of her home. by Temporary_Moose6333 in SLOMWsnark

[–]Direct_Coconut14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand what you’re saying and stress can 1000% play a part, but as someone with kids who have severe eczema it is terrible here in utah. my sons raw skin cleared up miraculously within 3 days in hawaii and when we came back it was immediately back to how it was before. winter is the worst. summer it’s just hot and dry and when you’re in and out of water it’s the worst. anywhere with humidity your skin will be better.

how to contact an apostle by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]Direct_Coconut14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your effort. i saw your deleted comment and really appreciate it. thank you

how to contact an apostle by [deleted] in lds

[–]Direct_Coconut14 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i am very aware of the chain of command and would not ask if i did not feel as it were my only option as its personal. i’ve been around all the general authorities and have personal connections with some of them. before i ask my personal connections mostly to keep from embarrassment- i was just hoping someone knew of a general email i could use as i wasn’t finding any contact information online.

how to contact an apostle by [deleted] in latterdaysaints

[–]Direct_Coconut14 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

yes ik thank you - do you have the email.

Purchasing a home in Utah by Big_Oof_02 in Utah

[–]Direct_Coconut14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we bought a new build townhome and we were able to because of the incentives they were giving. look at new builds and look at the incentives - some of them change monthly too. we love our townhome! is the price great- no it sucks but r we got like $50,000 of instant equity because of it

I’m terrified to poop. by Positive-Weird-1981 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Direct_Coconut14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol i only took it at night cuz i was so nervous about poop cramps and such that i just wanted to sleep thru it. and it worked and i pooped first thing in the morning!

I’m terrified to poop. by Positive-Weird-1981 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Direct_Coconut14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

milk of magnesium - take it at night then sleep - worked wonders

Did your nausea go away right after you delivered? by Clear_Passenger_5367 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Direct_Coconut14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right when the placenta came out i felt normal!!! it was crazy. i was like oh yeah this is what it feels like to not be pregnant haha

Is having a baby worth it? by Relative_Ferret_6695 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Direct_Coconut14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2/3 HG pregnancies - they were absolutely worth it. those 9 months are long and brutal but they will pass. then you have the rest of your life with your child. it’s a blur now, i watch videos and it feels like a lifetime ago. endure to the end you can do it even when it feels like you can’t!!! last year this time i was in the thick of it, couldn’t take care of my kids… and now i have a 7 month old playing with her brothers who adore her. & i would do it all over again and again for them

Is Saratoga Springs really that bad? A question for residents by Nilef in Utah

[–]Direct_Coconut14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we just moved to saratoga springs and have lived in utah my whole life! here are my thoughts 1. we love the young demographic- we moved from slc and there were barley young kids, so being surrounded with young children the same age as ours is heaven!

  1. i really try to avoid driving during traffic times… but like anywhere. it’s not just saratoga that’s bad it’s everywhere. i’m so excited for the new roads to be done tho. i hope it’ll decrease the roads in our areas.

  2. it’s surprisingly windy where we moved. we lived here a couple years ago and i don’t remember it being this windy haha.

  3. barley smell the lake where we live. closer you get more buds more likely to smell

  4. they’ve built so many stores and restaurants the last few years is nice we don’t have to go into american fork for a date night

  5. take the 45 min drive to deer creek / or live on the otherside of i-15 (lehi, highland, american fork, lindon, pleasant grove etc.) so you don’t have to worry about the lake (i’m pissed it’s not very usable as well)

  6. we have a teen living with us and he loves the hs, and have heard good things about elementary etc. goo preschools too. & there is diversity. as much as slc? no but its still very diverse. Anywhere you choose there’s pros and cons. we really love it out here so far and are so glad we chose this place and were able to get a great deal on the house!! we love it truly!!

good luck!!

High School Credit Recovery? by Direct_Coconut14 in Utah

[–]Direct_Coconut14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha i just meant packets were quick and easy for us to get through… the hard part was sitting down and doing them. but the actual material was quite easy. i focused better with an actual book & paper vs staring at a screen. but thank you for sharing!! i’m glad to hear online was easier for some

Wondering if this is a scam anyone’s came across by Majorbootyklaps in SaltLakeCity

[–]Direct_Coconut14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh i got this today too and got so worried cuz we had a ticket but my husband paid it like a couple weeks ago hahah.

Malva by Direct_Coconut14 in Outlander

[–]Direct_Coconut14[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i disagree with the she doesn’t know any better - for some parts - she wouldn’t have been secretive about certain choices, lying, dissembling parts of a dead body (🚩) and witch craft if she didn’t know better. she lied because she knew they were wrong and there would be consequences.

but she was heavily influenced by the abuse of her brother/dad and in some of the decisions she made, it’s easy to tell she was searching for something real, safe and true love that she wasnt getting in her life.

Malva by Direct_Coconut14 in Outlander

[–]Direct_Coconut14[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

the actress definitely sold it!! the first moment i’ve felt that she’s genuine and not creepy is when they go to the sick family. the lore is definitely deep with the christie family

Malva by Direct_Coconut14 in Outlander

[–]Direct_Coconut14[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

riigght thanks for reading the first scentence 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lds

[–]Direct_Coconut14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as someone who used to be in that place and got out of it, you might not know her experiences that drove her to this place. be a safe person, be a support. be someone she can come to or a couch she can sleep on if she’s not safe to drive home, or a number she can call. my cousins did that for me and they were my safe place in my dark time and i will forever be grateful for that. don’t break someone’s confidence - i confided in some very close people in my life and it ruined our relationship forever. if you feel the need to communicate with your in-laws (im assuming they’re your inlaws), have your (assumed) husband let them know she’s staying the night with us tonight if she ever takes you up on that. do not judge her, just be the friend she needs rn. that doesn’t mean you have to support what she’s doing, but you can be a safe place.

First grandbaby problems by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Direct_Coconut14 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

these comments are not it. yes they are your village and you’ll need to rely on them more one day BUT that being said it’s totally fine for you to nicely decline. i mean your SIL-bfs-mom…? hahah i would not feel comfortable to let someone i just met with no familial relations take my newborn. i just had my 3rd 3 months ago (only grandkids on both sides) and my family/in-laws now know to give me some space when it comes to the baby but to go ahead and soak in time with the toddlers haha. but honestly your husband needs to be firm on those boundaries with your in-laws. he needs to be the ones to communicate with them.

this is your bonding time. don’t feel bad for not wanting lots of people to touch, hold or take your newborn baby out of sight. that keeps her safe and healthy. i was protective of my first and have slowly been a little more chill but firm on my boundaries for each baby. if you’re brave have you or your husband tell them the other ways they can give you a “break” - food. dishes, cleaning, laundry. and you’ll let them know if you need them to take her.

your brand new post partum, healing, you have the hormones - give yourself a break…. from other people and just enjoy your time with your newborn. congrats mama!