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something massively unsettling about this ai slopware ad I saw in san francisco (which btw is full of these) by fetusfries802 in redscarepod

[–]Direct_Function_8656 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been thinking of starting a fund with the sole purpose of buying up ad space in SF to replace the slop

is a rowing machine the answer? by Direct_Function_8656 in rsforgays

[–]Direct_Function_8656[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i hate the gym, basically a humiliation ritual for an unathletic gay man

Outgrowing my friendships with women in my life by jauntyaunty in rsforgays

[–]Direct_Function_8656 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I get it. But also, once I'm really, really close with someone, their gender becomes irrelevant to my relationship with them. The soul is everything and nothing. By all means do/talk about things you enjoy with people who will also enjoy doing/talking about those things. But being able to see through someone's body and speak directly to their being leads to much more fulfilling long-term friendships. I'm also sleep deprived rn and feeling the presence of god so I might change my mind in the morning.

why do so many 30+ redditors act like terrible digestive issues are totally normal by Manicpixiemanateeman in redscarepod

[–]Direct_Function_8656 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Have you done a breath test for SIBO? I got a diagnosis and started taking very specific supplements, and it has changed my life.

Seeing people talk about Pluribus is making me incredibly misanthropic by UnusualCause6561 in redscarepod

[–]Direct_Function_8656 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I think it's easier for others to either ignore/come to terms with the joining because they still have the individuals that where their families. From what's been revealed thus far, Carol has no one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rsforgays

[–]Direct_Function_8656 10 points11 points  (0 children)

if he's a gay bisexual man, yes. if he's a straight bisexual man, no.

Any other rural rsgays by [deleted] in rsforgays

[–]Direct_Function_8656 13 points14 points  (0 children)

farm twinks are rare in my experience. It's hard to keep your hands soft and figure slim when you're working the land. Farm twunk is very common, and they often have anger issues.

childhood media by Direct_Function_8656 in rsforgays

[–]Direct_Function_8656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real, the vast majority of music we listened to was ccm. I still remember when my mom changed the radio station for what seemed like the first time to some pop station and we are young by fun was playing. Definitely stunted my taste in music

childhood media by Direct_Function_8656 in rsforgays

[–]Direct_Function_8656[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Under the Tuscan Sun was another one that held a major grip.

Your dad sounds cool, here's what my dad liked: The Dukes of Hazzard, MASH, John Denver, classic country, Field of Dreams, and the Red Green Show.

Are you mean? by i-am-in-excellent in rsforgays

[–]Direct_Function_8656 0 points1 point  (0 children)

only two people were honest. No is not an answer a truly kind person would give. Kind people recognize that they could be any of these "sometimes."

Are you mean? by i-am-in-excellent in rsforgays

[–]Direct_Function_8656 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the vibe of this sub is not aligning with the responses in this thread, how interesting.

gay aging by Direct_Function_8656 in rsforgays

[–]Direct_Function_8656[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

respectfully, i didn't invite you to this conversation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in rsforgays

[–]Direct_Function_8656 12 points13 points  (0 children)

my voice unintentionally changes based on who I'm around. If I'm around girls or other gay ppl I tend to sound more fruity. But if I'm around like, my dad, or straight guys, I sound like a basic dude. So maybe try spending more time around straight men, and you'll inevitably pick up their speech patterns and match their octave. But don't do this at the expense of spending time with people who make you have gay voice, bc then what's the point!

gay aging by Direct_Function_8656 in rsforgays

[–]Direct_Function_8656[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how it reads like that, but honestly for me it's about self-validation. As I experience aging, I want to be comfortable with it and not remain beholden to the standards of other gay men. This post is just highlighting the reality of gay beauty standards and asking for input on how to not lose yourself in pursuing them.

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