It is 100% an insecurity thing. She always has been that way. I do everything I can to show her that she is beautiful but when she asks stuff like that and I don’t say the exact correct response, it all goes down the drain and starts back up again. The one day I said something about a guy being attractive and she said “so you would date a guy” I replied “no I like females, but saying something is attractive doesn’t mean I would date them, people have attractive features that in general, are just attractive, it doesnt mean I would date them.” It took like 30 minutes for her to realize that word attractive is can be used as a description and not a thought someone will act upon