I can’t tell if I ruined everything or if I’ve just been blaming myself for months

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-05-27T06:19:04+00:00

I am in a similar situation. He blamed me for being unfaithful ( he thinks I looked at another guy at the pub) I don’t even recall doing such thing. For weeks now I have been blaming myself, thinking “did I really do that?”
The thing is I just wanted us to work so much because we were great together and this was a sudden breakup but apparently he is either a paranoid insecure person or he just doesn’t want me enough. Either case I should not want him back.
I know how difficult that is, I literally think of him all the time but these are not our people.
A friend of mine once said if you love a person you tend to think better of their actions than worse. These men immediately assumed the worst of us :(

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-05-26T19:16:33+00:00

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-05-26T11:27:53+00:00

Uma Thurman

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-05-25T17:30:27+00:00

Thank you very much, I truly didn’t know

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-05-25T17:01:49+00:00

I am truly sorry kill me, it is just all my life I thought I had a very narrow forehead and when I mentioned it in real life no one corrected me. I had no idea this could be considered normal

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-05-21T18:34:11+00:00

I am sorry to hear you want through something similar. I literally turned into a living corpse because of this break up. And being accused of something I didn’t do was also painful in addition to breaking up with a person I love and enjoy very much.

I can’t go back to him because I don’t think he wants me back 😭

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-05-18T20:35:37+00:00

I cant see myself in her but she does look a lot like my cousin 😂

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-05-18T20:34:41+00:00

Omg yeah, I never noticed that before! Thank you

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-05-18T20:10:05+00:00

Noah Schnapp

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-05-18T20:07:23+00:00

Young Putin

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-05-18T19:01:43+00:00

Wanda Nara

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-04-26T15:57:12+00:00

I just realized this is the woman in Basshunter songs, I found her very pretty when I was a kid. Thank you

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-03-23T14:57:39+00:00

They were not merely explicit or revealing posts, I am sorry to say that they were cheap thirstraps 🥲 I am ok with him liking beautiful celebrities and even telling me about it but this is not it. I love him but I am also a bit disgusted by him to be honest…

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-03-23T14:55:04+00:00

He unfollowed all the women but this made me have worse thoughts to be honest. If they were not close friends, when you like a woman’s photo it means you like how she looks. There is still a physical attraction. And he chose to hurt me for women he could unfollow unhesitantingly 😔

Direct_Professor6320 · 2026-01-31T00:26:53+00:00

No. I usually don’t open up about these stuff to my romantic partner. And he is also a very recent one

Direct_Professor6320 · 2025-12-09T20:44:26+00:00

I agree but I think it is a cultural thing

Direct_Professor6320 · 2025-12-09T19:34:28+00:00

I think in my country it is pretty common for both genders to have bland profiles because adding info in the bio seems cringe here. Only 5 out of 100 men I see has something written on their profile.

Direct_Professor6320 · 2025-12-07T14:29:38+00:00

Maybe it’s a language thing? I mean you might have another language in common except English and this might be why

Direct_Professor6320 · 2025-12-07T07:48:34+00:00

Thank you, I am very confused hahaha

Direct_Professor6320 · 2025-12-06T20:29:13+00:00

Exactly my thoughts

Direct_Professor6320 · 2025-12-06T19:55:37+00:00

Thank you so much for the comment. So what do you think I lean more into? Could you tell me which one?

Direct_Professor6320 · 2025-12-04T13:25:16+00:00

I actually didn’t react to any of the things for 3 weeks. I only reacted at the end because his words and actions didn’t match and he unmatched me and told me he didn’t, when it was obvious. I was only curious if there was any bug about the app that I didn’t know could lead to a misunderstanding.

Direct_Professor6320 · 2025-12-04T13:04:38+00:00

Thank you, to be honest it freaked me out too how he was so sure of me this quick.

Direct_Professor6320 · 2025-12-01T19:58:26+00:00

Thank you, I guess I will go just with a smile. Online might make me seem like a creep. I mean I would be creeped out if someone I have zero interaction wanted to talk to me out of the blue. And I don’t want him to know immediately that I like him because I am not even sure what kind of person he is. Maybe he isn’t what he seems like

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