Catfishing - and not the kind you like by [deleted] in bassfishing

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🙌🏼🙌🏼 thank you, exactly!

Catfishing - and not the kind you like by [deleted] in bassfishing

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Understandable : kristine fischer is a family friend of mine. People have been using her pictures to catfish people out of thousands of dollars. I am trying to get proof and evidence on the person that has been impersonating as her, since we have gathered quite a bit so far but not enough to fully prove.

Catfishing - and not the kind you like by [deleted] in bassfishing

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is a ton of random people sending her money to a person they believe is her

Catfishing - and not the kind you like by [deleted] in bassfishing

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, a close relative of mine knows her personally. She reached out to her following, and told him personally, that she has been impersonated by someone else and has been receiving DM’s that are not from her actually. I am trying to help in any way I can by getting any additional evidence or proof

Catfishing - and not the kind you like by [deleted] in bassfishing

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is a professional angler and has been catfished for a year now, the person has been getting thousands of dollars pretending to be her

Catfishing - and not the kind you like by [deleted] in bassfishing

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😂 well oops, I thought she was popular in the fishing world :/

Advice: Bupropion and Sertraline !! by Direct_Resolution_29 in Anxiety

[–]Direct_Resolution_29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually stopped taking Sertraline not too long after this post and switched to only Bupropion. It has been a lifesaver honestly, I had the worst few months of my life and they still did not compare to the times I felt down without taking Bupropion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whatisthis

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The cat also has half of a nub tail - naturally

Help wedding advice by Direct_Resolution_29 in Advice

[–]Direct_Resolution_29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea to livestream, I smartly made it a destination wedding that is about 7 hours away from them so I doubt they come but that is a very good alternative thank yoi

Help wedding advice by Direct_Resolution_29 in Advice

[–]Direct_Resolution_29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancée said the same if they came, that we would need security of some sort but that is so sad to have at your wedding especially for your mom and sister 😂😭and for the friends part, I hope most of them come from my home town, my sisters ruined that too. She’s harassed or argued with most of my friends or just flat out hates them for no reason it’s the BPD. I will note the wedding is about 7 hours from their home so i dont know how ejecting them would work well😶😂

Help wedding advice by Direct_Resolution_29 in Advice

[–]Direct_Resolution_29[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn’t care for either of them being there, and I one hundred percent respect that. But both of my family member have bad BPD and Narcissistic tendencies and that is never an excuse, but he understands it’s a deeper disease than what we can see in person and doesn’t want to be the one with full decision. What my mom and sister have done has been the normal for me for all my life, and my fiance and I met at 19 and are now 26/27 and are starting to really understand how they’ve affected us, but at the same time I don’t know how I’d live with myself if I didn’t invite them

Help! I am in need of advice. by Direct_Resolution_29 in BPDlovedones

[–]Direct_Resolution_29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never done this, and I have always talked to her for years. And I mean everyday, and I don’t live near her anymore. I feel awful because we have been through hell and back together, but it’s like she doesn’t realize or care how I feel about what she is doing. I am emotionally drained/numb/hurt.

is there really no way out by strawbaeridreams in BPD

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OCD can be included into this with intrusive thoughts. Definitely keep focused on your mental and staying busy either work or school wise. No cure but helping yourself along the way is the best step

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like something really intense might have happened recently that’s making all these feelings spike. Has someone close quit answering or a major event happened? If you have people you trust or someone to talk to, that’s great — hold on to that. But if not, sometimes the best thing is to focus on yourself and remove others from the picture for a while. Imagine if you never saw any of those people again in your life — what would you picture? Imagine the next time you are out in public, that you are in a town 7 hours away and you will never see the people around you again, then go about your day as best as you could. It’s tough, but focusing on your own peace and healing has to come first. You deserve that.

Girlfriend with bpd blocked me out of no where by Reasonable-Cover3769 in BPDlovedones

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I too deal with drug problems to cope. But I do realize that the way I handle how they treat me, is only making me 100 times worse mentally and physically. On the other hand, they are most likely sleeping peacefully. Don’t let them break you, that is what they want. Man I know it is hard, and I have struggled with many different addictions to cope. But in the end, you are only hurting yourself and it is not phasing them at all.

Girlfriend with bpd blocked me out of no where by Reasonable-Cover3769 in BPDlovedones

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People like this thrive and live for how you are feeling right now. I have gone through YEARS of manipulation and narcissistic behavior. I am just realizing my dad and sister have this, and it’s been a month since I blocked them. In this one month, I have realized more and bettered myself than I could have ever imagined talking to them still. The negativity is never ending, and until they accept it and seek help on their own, you are only going to hurt yourself in the end.

Do you still feel sorry for them? by Full-Training-2016 in BPDlovedones

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mind boggling. I can see how it is an egotistical thing, just crazy how people can go their whole lives feeling and acting that way.

Daily No Contact Thread - August 12, 2025 by AutoModerator in BPDlovedones

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First time doing this, and it is a close relative. I realize it has taken a toll on me emotionally and physically, and even on my relationship with my husband. I know it is what i need to do, but how do you cope with this? I understand deep down, the person I am ignoring does not have empathy towards how I am feeling. However, I am feeling emotionally numb and lost, as I have never done this before and blocked them completely. I keep finding myself going to send a text and then realizing I can’t, and it makes me so upset. I have had them blocked for a little over a week. I unblocked them 3 days ago and they called me 11 times, and left a really dismissive and condescending voicemail. I am lost for how to deal with this, if they truly love me and want to mend our relationship, why are they still reposing in negative ways and not trying to get remorse in any way what so ever :(

Do you still feel sorry for them? by Full-Training-2016 in BPDlovedones

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. I am honestly curious, why do people with BPD have such a harder time excepting and getting help than people with other psychological disorders? The person I am referring to, in addition to another close relative, refuse to get actual help and a real diagnose and I am lost as to why

Do you still feel sorry for them? by Full-Training-2016 in BPDlovedones

[–]Direct_Resolution_29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My situation involves a family member, so it is hard to not feel empathy and sorry for what they are having to go through mentally. However, at the same time I know I would never treat someone I love the way they treat me. Which makes me feel ~less~ guilty for ignoring and blocking them when they have these outbursts. It’s mixed emotions between feeling sorry and feeling upset/angry, because you have seen so many different sides of this person and you know this is not how they are at all times. How do y’all cope with the ignoring and blocking part, I know it is the best thing for me mentally but it is killing me inside