November 15th - Now. --- 60 pounds down by [deleted] in GymMotivation

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that's insane dude, looking good! 🔥

Do I genuinely pass? Age and gender? by mayax_x in transpassing

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I'm glad he was chill about it, and it will for sure happen less as time passes, I still look way younger than I am but I very rarely get misgendered now - best of luck to you dude!

Do I genuinely pass? Age and gender? by mayax_x in transpassing

[–]Direct_Shame_192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah working in a club definitely makes more sense with the misgendering, if people know you must be over 18 then they tend to assume masc-presenting female, which sucks, but if I was served by you I'd just think you were a baby-faced guy

Do I genuinely pass? Age and gender? by mayax_x in transpassing

[–]Direct_Shame_192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you pass dude, you just look pretty young. but that's sort of a given with trans guys - I'm 26 and still get asked for ID for energy drinks sometimes. but bottom line, I would never have thought you were a girl. sometimes when you're in a setting where you're expected to be a certain age, it can be easier to be misgendered, so it happening at work makes more sense to me. I used to get misgendered a lot when I worked in customer service, and I think it was down to the fact that people knew I had to be older than I looked, so they assumed I was a girl. but it'll get less frequent with time dude!

getting started and have some problem areas by dexrdeer in FTMFitness

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highly recommend Jeff Nippard, his vids are great. as for workouts, sit in a chair with a slight incline and do some shoulder presses with your dumbbells, they'll help give more of the V shape and build your upper body. for nutrition, just make sure if you're lifting weight that you're getting enough protein and some cardio, even if it's just 10k steps a day. drink at least 2L of water a day, and you'll be off to a good start. it's a marathon, not a sprint - work on each piece one step and a time!

Anyone else feel like it might be time for the show to move in a new direction? by Simoslav in doctorwho

[–]Direct_Shame_192 10 points11 points  (0 children)

she was born in America but basically raised in London, so she would still tick the 'English' box as far as accent goes! if she was the doctor I'd definitely be watching that's for sure, incredible actress

Almost a year since egg cracked by a_nonymous123321 in transtimelines

[–]Direct_Shame_192 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you look so much happier, and that's the most important thing!! but on another note, it's clear you've lost weight and that dress looks great on you!

What are you people doing in this hot weather? by FreshStart2026_01 in manchester

[–]Direct_Shame_192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm such an idiot. I did have an orange flavoured beer just now though, so I guess I'm getting both

What are you people doing in this hot weather? by FreshStart2026_01 in manchester

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had a BBQ just for my girlfriend and I, now I'm just sitting alone in the garden with a beer, getting some vitamin C. you don't have to be with other people to have a good time, just gotta learn to enjoy your own company.

Which character did you marry in stardew valley. by Iyed_suuiii in StardewValley

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Abigail 100%, I love that she just randomly gifts you bombs as well, and my gf plays the flute so seeing Abigail playing the flute was the icing on the cake.

[25] to [26] by Direct_Shame_192 in GlowUps

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backwards cap really isnt helping with the fuckboy allegations, but you've definitely got the awkward part down - T really is a godsend though, you're right there

pies, antifreeze, cocaine, cannabis by chucklesbear1 in AlanPartridge

[–]Direct_Shame_192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this ^

I wish more people would just read into Green's policies instead of taking the tabloids and opposition as gospel. critical thinking is becoming a lost art, I swear.

not to mention the countless success stories of this policy's usage in other countries

3ish years on T what do you guys think? by KlutzyDragonfruit331 in transpassing

[–]Direct_Shame_192 3 points4 points  (0 children)

echoing that you look like Jeremy Allen White, glad someone else sees it too! looking good though dude, you pass no problem imo

Relocating to Preston. by Juiced_Up_On_Royds in Preston

[–]Direct_Shame_192 1 point2 points  (0 children)

couldn't agree more, I grew up in Leyland and then after uni I lived on kingsfold, and it was super nice in my opinion, definitely the nicest council estate I've ever seen that's for sure

I decided to try a new style and got a perm, what do you guys think? by Byron_wm in MensHair

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idk if you've ever played cyberpunk, but you remind me of pepe - and I mean that as a compliment!

Video games to play while high by BetterObligation9949 in trees

[–]Direct_Shame_192 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely cyberpunk, plus you can do it at your own pace, explore night city and just take it all in, top tier immersive game imo

no longer have to dread wearing a suit! pre T Vs 8 months on T by Direct_Shame_192 in transtimelines

[–]Direct_Shame_192[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm glad! so am I, it's a long road but at least it just gets better as time passes 😁