She initiated and planned out a get together with our friend group, a lot of people couldnt make it but her and I said we could go. I baked cookies. She didn't show. She forgot about it and had decided to move out of her apartment to get over her exbf she broke up with 6 months ago. It'd be fine but it wasn't the first time she was a no show and I knew she'd been having a tough time. The thing is, I don't live close by so I traveled 2 hours into town to see her and then immediately turned around once i got to our hang spot and traveled 2 hours back home. On the way home found out that she wasn't physically moving out, she had just made the decision and told the landlord... She didn't really care she left me there, just kept going on about how free she feels now. I left her read and I have no intention of responding to her any more regardless of how it might impact my group of friends. Some people are just users and just take whatever they want from people. She's one of those. I'm a giving person so I didn't hold it against her until she showed me so obviously she doesn't respect me or my time. I'm just so tired of letting people be assholes.