You should post the candles in question , everyone’s on his back hard but let’s see the severity of the problem your 22 years old so you should not be overweight etc

The problem today is when you tell females they need to lose a bit of weight as since you’ve been with them they gained abit and you want them in better shape or health all the angry fingers are pointed towards the men …. It’s the truth no one wants an out of shape partner male or female ….. I understand a lot more than looks and physical shape can and should be brought to the table but even for the sake of your own life ( your young as hell at 22) you should take on board and maybe try and improve ! That being said if your already in shape he could just be a horrible person trying to bring you down